Should you always have a baby shower?

Marisa_ac

Hi there,
 I’m pregnant with third and final baby and I just am not sure whether or not I’m supposed to have a baby shower still. Can someone please clue me in? I’ve heard that after the first you’re only supposed to have a “sprinkle” if anything at all. 

meggyme

If someone offers to host a shower or sprinkle for you then go for it if you want. Otherwise I definitely would not host your own as that can come off as gift grabby.

Wishilivedinflorida

It does depend on the scenario. I’m pregnant with a surprise third baby and had just sold most of my stuff the week prior to finding out at a yard sale. 🤦🏻‍♀️

My dear friend had a small sprinkle/dinner for me because everyone knew I was starting from scratch. We just had about 10 guests and kept it small. I still got most of the big things myself. I personally wouldn’t have wanted anything bigger than that and had she not offered, I wouldn’t have done anything myself. 

I’m sure no matter what you will receive baby gifts. If you have most of what you need from previous kids, I wouldn’t pursue anything formal. 

ktaylor96

I had friends plan and host baby showers for my first two.. now that I’m pregnant again. This time with twins is it necessary to have another baby shower?

jenifar2

The tradition varies, but it's generally considered acceptable to have a baby shower for each child, not just the first. However, for subsequent pregnancies, some choose to have a smaller celebration known as a "baby sprinkle" rather than a full-scale baby shower. A baby sprinkle is a more low-key gathering focused on celebrating the new arrival and may involve smaller gifts or essentials, especially if you already have items from previous pregnancies. Ultimately, it's a personal decision, and what matters most is what feels right for you and your circumstances.

knottie877b957db6c94e82

The decision to have a baby sprinkle is entirely up to you and your loved ones. If you feel it would be a joyful occasion and your friends and family are supportive, go ahead and plan one. If you'd prefer a more low-key celebration or none at all, that's perfectly fine too.​

Remember, every baby deserves to be celebrated, and the way you choose to do so should reflect what feels right for you and your family.

knottie210c943f9d078bc9

Sprinkle or full shower, do what feels right for you. People who love you will be excited either way.”

knottie6f55c2cdcd00affa

With my third, my friends threw a little diaper and wipes party—super casual but so appreciated. You’d be surprised how helpful that is!