I have been in a relationship with a man who is 23 years older than me for more than fours years and we have an amazing relationship.
I am 40 and he is 63. I recently found out that I am 5 weeks pregnant despite being on contraception.
I don't want to have an abortion but my BF is completely freaking out and he is so frightened. He is frightened that he is too old, when the baby is 10 years he will be 73 and so on. He also thinks that it's immoral to allow a child to have such an old dad. He thinks he would be ridiculed and his mental health would rapidly take a down turn.
I really want this baby and the thought of an abortion really upsets me. But I feel so guilty about what it's doing to my BF.
Any thoughts and options would be great as I am so confused.