FTM/STM/TTM+: EDD/Weeks+Days: Baby is the size of: Team blue/pink/green: Upcoming Appointments: How are you feeling?: Rants/Raves: GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old?
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM EDD/Weeks+Days: 4/5, 12w5d Baby is the size of: Team blue/pink/green: finding out Upcoming Appointments: NIPT and NT scan Thursday How are you feeling?: meh! Recovering from Covid still, that was rough. Still weak and tired, but I’m a lot better than I was. Rants/Raves: it’s almost 10am and I’m still in bed, dreading opening my work laptop and seeing all the emails from last week. GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? Hmmm tough one. I generally only watch movies and tv shows once. Same with books. There are too many out there to keep watching the same ones! That said, I have seen Paris, Texas a few times and it always holds up.
DS born 2/18/2019 DD born 4/1/2023 Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
FTM/STM/TTM+: Baby 3 EDD/Weeks+Days: 12w6d Baby is the size of: plum? Team blue/pink/green: finding out eventually Upcoming Appointments: Oct 6 How are you feeling?: still so tired all the time. Rants/Raves: Nothing really either way right now. GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? I used to re-watch all of the Harry Potter movies each summer but haven’t done that for a while.
@kraane I totally support your annual rewatching of Harry Potter. I reread the books to my son last summer before his nap until the books started getting too heavy to hold one handed and we started listening to the audiobooks.
@etnyah I hope the email avalanche wasn't too awful. @returning_bump_member The Princess Bride IS a true classic! @kraane I don't think I'll ever get enough of Harry Potter movies. Regardless of all the BS that JKR has since been embroiled in.
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
EDD/Weeks+Days: Apr 1 / 13w4d
Baby is the size of: 3 in
Team blue/pink/green: Team "we're keeping it to ourselves" (although H was a little loose-lipped this weekend at camping)
Upcoming Appointments: week of Oct 11 I've got an appointment with a new OB + midwife (still trying to see which one suits me best). Otherwise, just my weekly check-in with my RI tomorrow and I think that might be my penultimate one.
How are you feeling?: I'm actually feeling bad. I had a bad episode last week, after stopping taking B6 and forgetting to take a Unisom at night, but I went camping this weekend and had NO issues. I honestly can't believe at how well I'm feeling. I'm sure I'll pay for it eventually.
Rants/Raves: Officially in the 2nd trimester! Getting here really feels good. We had our weekly u/s today and baby was doing great. We then announced to a larger friend group on Slack and then I told my former housemates as well. Feeling a little more sure that this thing is happening of course there are still dark fears lurking in the background. I won't be doing a big SM announcement. We also have yet to tell FIL/SMIL, BIL/SIL, my own sister and her family but we're waiting for birthdays / visits for that, for bigger impact. That'll all happen within the next month. I can't wait to show up to the airport to pick up my sister and see her reaction. LOL. I'm running a betting pool if she'll think I'm fat or preggo. Hahaha. (I wouldn't put it past my sis to think/say the former).
GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? Die Hard series at Christmas. Obviously.
TTC History TTC#2
Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020 Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center) Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral Oct 2024... currently awaiting a hysteroscopy (10/28) to check uterine cavity + check for endometritis
TTC #1
Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020 TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022 2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis 07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis 07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment 07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS 08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA 09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN 09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required 10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN 10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic 11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN 11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN 12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN 01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN 02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️ 04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN 04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance 05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF 05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded 07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid 08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d 09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid 11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation 12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN 01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN 02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity 03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022 05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022 07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
Team blue/pink/green: green! We found out with the other 2, so this one we want to be (even more) surprised
Upcoming Appointments: Oct 7 for NIPT and my first prenatal appointment lol, and also a separate appointment for surgery follow up the same day
How are you feeling?: good, just sore from surgery, pretty darn sure I'm feeling baby move already, or it's all in my head
Rants/Raves: we are waiting until after NIPT to tell anyone just to be sure GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? Honestly, I get pretty bored. My husband made me watch the 4-8 HP movies a million times. I love HP but that made me really not want to watch them anymore for a LONG time. I'm with @etnyah, there is so much out there, i would rather watch new stuff.
@scaredunprepared I also think I’ve felt movements already! It seems crazy early but those taps are so recognizable. I was not expecting that, it took me so long to feel anything last time.
DS born 2/18/2019 DD born 4/1/2023 Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
@etnyah do you know if you gave anterior or posterior placenta this time vs last time? I have the anterior variety and was told it will take a LOOOOOONG time before I feel the baby.
Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020 Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center) Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral Oct 2024... currently awaiting a hysteroscopy (10/28) to check uterine cavity + check for endometritis
TTC #1
Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020 TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022 2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis 07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis 07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment 07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS 08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA 09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN 09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required 10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN 10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic 11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN 11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN 12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN 01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN 02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️ 04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN 04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance 05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF 05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded 07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid 08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d 09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid 11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation 12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN 01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN 02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity 03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022 05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022 07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@acleverusername yes! I had an anterior placenta last time and posterior this time, so I do think that has something to do with it, as well as knowing what to feel for now. My son was extremely active so once I started feeling his kicks they never stopped. I don’t remember when though, but closer to week 18-20 or so! This one’s still too tiny that I’m second guessing if I feel it or not, but some movements I’m 100% sure it’s baby.
DS born 2/18/2019 DD born 4/1/2023 Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
@acleverusername I had anterior last time and I definitely didn't feel kicks til like week 20ish. Not sure what I have this time but dr said even if it's anterior again I'll likely feel kicks sooner just bc I'm not a FTM so I'll know what it feels like/what to expect
Re: Group 1 Check In w/o 9/26
EDD/Weeks+Days: 4/5, 12w5d
Baby is the size of:
Team blue/pink/green: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: NIPT and NT scan Thursday
How are you feeling?: meh! Recovering from Covid still, that was rough. Still weak and tired, but I’m a lot better than I was.
Rants/Raves: it’s almost 10am and I’m still in bed, dreading opening my work laptop and seeing all the emails from last week.
GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? Hmmm tough one. I generally only watch movies and tv shows once. Same with books. There are too many out there to keep watching the same ones! That said, I have seen Paris, Texas a few times and it always holds up.
DD born 4/1/2023
Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
EDD/Weeks+Days: 12w6d
Baby is the size of: plum?
Team blue/pink/green: finding out eventually
Upcoming Appointments: Oct 6
How are you feeling?: still so tired all the time.
Rants/Raves: Nothing really either way right now.
GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? I used to re-watch all of the Harry Potter movies each summer but haven’t done that for a while.
@returning_bump_member The Princess Bride IS a true classic!
@kraane I don't think I'll ever get enough of Harry Potter movies. Regardless of all the BS that JKR has since been embroiled in.
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
EDD/Weeks+Days: Apr 1 / 13w4d
Baby is the size of: 3 in
Team blue/pink/green: Team "we're keeping it to ourselves" (although H was a little loose-lipped this weekend at camping)
Upcoming Appointments: week of Oct 11 I've got an appointment with a new OB + midwife (still trying to see which one suits me best). Otherwise, just my weekly check-in with my RI tomorrow and I think that might be my penultimate one.
How are you feeling?: I'm actually feeling bad. I had a bad episode last week, after stopping taking B6 and forgetting to take a Unisom at night, but I went camping this weekend and had NO issues. I honestly can't believe at how well I'm feeling. I'm sure I'll pay for it eventually.
Rants/Raves: Officially in the 2nd trimester! Getting here really feels good. We had our weekly u/s today and baby was doing great. We then announced to a larger friend group on Slack and then I told my former housemates as well. Feeling a little more sure that this thing is happening of course there are still dark fears lurking in the background. I won't be doing a big SM announcement. We also have yet to tell FIL/SMIL, BIL/SIL, my own sister and her family but we're waiting for birthdays / visits for that, for bigger impact. That'll all happen within the next month. I can't wait to show up to the airport to pick up my sister and see her reaction. LOL. I'm running a betting pool if she'll think I'm fat or preggo. Hahaha. (I wouldn't put it past my sis to think/say the former).
GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? Die Hard series at Christmas. Obviously.
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024... currently awaiting a hysteroscopy (10/28) to check uterine cavity + check for endometritis
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
EDD/Weeks+Days: 13+4
Baby is the size of: Lemon
Team blue/pink/green: green! We found out with the other 2, so this one we want to be (even more) surprised
Upcoming Appointments: Oct 7 for NIPT and my first prenatal appointment lol, and also a separate appointment for surgery follow up the same day
How are you feeling?: good, just sore from surgery, pretty darn sure I'm feeling baby move already, or it's all in my head
Rants/Raves: we are waiting until after NIPT to tell anyone just to be sure
GTKY: What movie can you watch over and over and it never gets old? Honestly, I get pretty bored. My husband made me watch the 4-8 HP movies a million times. I love HP but that made me really not want to watch them anymore for a LONG time. I'm with @etnyah, there is so much out there, i would rather watch new stuff.
DD born 4/1/2023
Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024... currently awaiting a hysteroscopy (10/28) to check uterine cavity + check for endometritis
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
DD born 4/1/2023
Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024