Hey over thinking 6wks 3 days

wildbaby2023

Help, I had a miscarriage in March 2022, we are pregnant again (6wks 3 days), when I misscarried in March, it was at 6wks to but we didn’t know until our 8 wk scan. I have been hyper emotional with this pregnancy and constantly over thinking all my symptoms and none symptoms. I was nauseous my 4wk to beginning of 6wks, my boobs are tender but it’s comes and goes. My left side of my lower back was sore for two days and went away, I have slight cramping on and off throughout the day but no spotty. Now today I am 6wks and 3 days, my boobs slightly hurt and I still kinda of tired, but now my vagina is very dry and I have never had a yeast infection before. Help I am spiralling until our eight week scan. Don’t not concern about cramping due to no blood or spotting. Am I just over thinking… Help….

wunderkai

@wildbaby2023 hang in there! I'm in a similar situation...had a mmc back in January at about 9 weeks. Blighted ovum that stopped developing around 6 weeks. I just got a ppt Friday and am just over 4ish weeks. My boobs were really sore and I had a major cramp that woke me up at night. So I tested. Today...boobs are not sore. I'm fighting my anxiety right now. Hoping things will progress normally. I plan on making a Dr. appointment tomorrow to maybe get some blood work done. I'm over thinking things with you. 

mpixos

You are not alone. I also had a miscarriage in March at 8 weeks but baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I am now 6 weeks along and have the same fears/concerns/thoughts. I’m trying to stay positive about it but the thoughts are always there. You guys are not alone. ♥️

stormageddon-darklordofall

Honestly, you have to look at it is the fact that you are PG NOW.  You have absolutely no control over whether this PG will end up with a healthy baby or another MC.  The only thing you can do is love that baby as long as you have it, whether that is 35 living years, 2 living days, 32 weeks of PG, or 6 1/2 weeks of PG.  You can love it today, this hour, this minute.  You can't control beyond that.  But you'll know that you loved it every second that you could, rather than worrying about something you can't control.  It's very difficult, but that's how it is.  Also, realistically speaking, the statistics are on your side.  The number of people who have 1 (or and early 2nd CP) MC and then have a healthy living baby is MUCH higher than those of us who have MC after MC after MC and suffer RPL.  And as a final word of wisdom, if you happen to end up with the short end of the stick to be one of us RPL sufferers, there are a few of us around that are here (and have been here) that will help you each step along the way and walk you through it.  It sucks. But you can and will survive it and can have a fulfilling life. 

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