New here. Need some support

atta-girl

My dh and I have ttc for over 10 years. He had a vasectomy long ago and reversal didn’t work. He’s fine with no babies but I’m sad. Im now ama but my reserves are good. I’m struggling with my dh inability to see how sad I am. He doesn’t understand. We’ve been starting a ED adoption but I think my dh is just checked out. Not sure how to resolve this. It’s a big fat elephant in our marriage

brooklyn7476

My husband and I were also on different pages about if we wanted kids or not. We found couples therapy from a therapist who specializes in infertility very helpful (we got a recommendation from the fertility clinic). Good luck ❤️