Upcoming Appointments: Two days!! 12/28 for second ultrasound to check growth.
How are you feeling?: Nausea hits halfway through eating anything, but B6 keeps it tolerable. Boobs sore. Burpy. Tired, but that could be the holidays and family.
Rants/Raves: Told my family yesterday and everyone is so excited! I'm the only married with kids person on my parents side of the family. On MH's side, his parents have 11 grandkids but MH is their only shared child (yours, mine, and ours family) so they're really thrilled. My oldest daughter (8) is SO excited. She asked about possible names, what I thought about gender, how her younger sister (3) would handle it since she's special needs and still very infant-like in many ways...but she kept saying "I can't believe you're pregnant! Congrats mom!" it was so cute.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I watch and read a lot so these tend to change often. Right now:
Favorite show(s): Parks and Rec, all Star Treks, and Gilmore Girls (I know, I'm so basic)
Favorite movie(s): Huge Lord of the Rings (nerd alert) and Marvel fan
Favorite book(s): As a kid, I was obsessed with Animorphs. As an adult, I love anything by Brandon Sanderson and Neil Gaiman.
1/7 for another check at 8w6d and supposedly I’ll be getting a call from the MFM’s office in the next couple weeks but no idea when they’ll want me to come in, maybe not until 10w?
How are you feeling?:
Pretty good today! Not as queasy so far. I haven’t been super nauseated but it typically comes in waves a few times a day, no throwing up yet though.
Rants/Raves:
Told my family and my MIL yesterday, it went really well. I keep seeing posts about sushi on social media though so I may have to unfollow a few restaurants for a bit so I’ll stop craving raw fish.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
I don’t really have favorites of stuff like that but we watch a lot of sports in our household and I do love Harry Potter.
How are you feeling?: constant nausea which sucks but it could be worse. Yesterday I had some moderate bleeding and heavy cramping which concerns me but it’s stopped so I’m hoping everything is okay and maybe the cyst just ruptured.
Rants/Raves: glad they holiday season is winding down. It was a lot of fun but exhausting. Ready to get my house back in order and get rid of stuff.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Favorite show(s): Parks and Rec
Favorite movie(s): The Holiday. But also love SW and the MU
Upcoming Appointments: U/S this Wednesday for heartbeat confirmation
How are you feeling?: Some waves of nausea in the evening, but I’m really keeping on top of it with Unisom, B6, and nausea hard candies.
Rants/Raves: Soooo happy I don’t have to do daily progesterone shots! The sublingual lozenges don’t taste great, but maybe now my nerve pain in my butt/hips can heal
GTKY- Movie/book: Harry Potter! I just went to Wizarding World of Harry Potter the day before my transfer. I love it so much.
Show: I could watch The Office over and over. I think I’ve rewatched it 6 times.
Upcoming Appointments: January 4 for intake/bloodwork, sonogram, and doctor visit
How are you feeling?: Better than 7 weeks with my first two! I need tons of sleep and only want to eat straight-up gluten, but the aversions and fatigue don't seem as bad, which of course fills me with a constant sense of dread that worse symptoms are coming. But maybe not 🤷♀️
Rants/Raves: I can still drink coffee! It started smelling bad to me yesterday-ish, but if I can get it past my nose I can drink it. Today I added some hot chocolate mix and it actually tastes good. This is huge, because with my first two I had to give up coffee for about a month, and that made the other symptoms so much worse. If I can keep drinking coffee, the fatigue and constipation will be much more manageable.
Questions: nah
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? +1 for Harry Potter! I literally grew up with him as the books came out when I was in middle and high school. I love fantasy and my other favorites are LOTR and The Name of the Wind/Wise Man's Fear. The TV show I'm into right now is Ghosts. We just finished the British original version and then stumbled upon an American version and started watching that the other night.
Baby is the size of a(n): raspberry/ dice/ honey bee
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: January 3rd
How are you feeling?: at the current moment, fine. But in general, like absolute garbage. I’ve been super nauseous, my boobs are super sore, my belly is super upset, and I’ve been super fatigued/tired.
Rants/Raves: We told our children on Christmas morning and they were underwhelmed and then didn’t tell anyone so it’s basically just a family secret now. My oldest has been talking about it and wants to do a gender reveal cake because he saw video that we did that when we were expecting him. He’s also given me a couple name suggestions and says it’s a(nother) boy. My youngest is convinced it’s a girl, and I hope he’s right lol. Now I have to figure out a new way to tell our families seeing my children dropped the ball.
Questions: nope
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I like true crime shows. I also am patiently waiting for a new season of Virgin River. I also enjoy trash tv like the 90 day saga, sister wives, and occasionally teen mom. My all time favorite movie is Johnny Dangerously or Stick It. I’m not a huge reader because it’s hard to find time (and quiet), so I basically just read the Bible, or devotionals.
Upcoming Appointments: Just had one on the 23rd, going again on Jan 6th for another ultrasound and to get an Rx for prenatals.
How are you feeling?: I think I have covid, so I'm feeling rotten. I'm very anxious about treatment options and how it will affect our baby.
Rants/Raves: I'm annoyed at the prices of prenatal vitamins!! What the heck?! Why is everything so expensive and not covered by insurance? That's a load of crap.
Questions: What do you do for restless legs at night? Last night was ridiculous!
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I've been watching the MCU Spinoffs with MH, and we have to finish Hawkeye yet. Favorite movie of all time is The Goonies, but my favorite Christmas movie is A Muppet Christmas Carol. I don't have a favorite book. I love to read almost everything. I've been doing a daily devotion with my Bible through the Hallow app.
@and_peggy love that!! Do you use the YouVersion Bible app? They have great devotionals on there for everything!
@bridgiebee82 oh I’m going to look into the hallow app! Thanks for mentioning that! To answer your question, getting up and moving for a couple seconds usually helps my RL, although I really only get them before bed when I’m really tired and once I fall asleep they let up. I hope I don’t start getting them in the middle of the night like previous pregnancies.
How are you feeling?: Rotten. Got myself tested for COVID this morning and I am thankfully negative, but still feeling just awful. First vacation in a year and of course I’m spending it in bed, waaaaaahhhhhh
Rants/Raves: I love my family, but someone brought this germ to my house at Christmas and I do not love that!
Questions: Does anyone know if the doctor can hear a heartbeat on Doppler at 10 weeks? Or maybe it’s too early?
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I’m a big reader so it’s hard to pick just one. My favorite of all time is a The Sun Also Rises, but I just finished The Water Dancer and it was terrific, highly recommend.
@maggiemadeit my last pregnancy I was able to find baby on my home Doppler at 9w2d and was always able to find it consistently after that but my doctor wasn’t able to find it until almost 11 weeks. So it’s definitely possible but your doc may or may not have success.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
@starkette@coco2787 Thank you! I was already told there would not be an ultrasound at this first appointment at 10 weeks, so I am hoping for confirmation with the Doppler then, fingers crossed!
How are you feeling?: So far, so good😊 Slight breast tenderness but nothing too major.
Rants/Raves: Its absolutely killing my husband and I to not tell our families! This is his first baby so his family will be over the moon!
Questions: Has anybody cloth diapered? We’re looking into it with this baby and we’re overwhelmed with all the information out there..
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Another true crime lover here. I’ve watched basically all of the ones Netflix offers so suggestions on other streaming platforms are very much welcomed!
My nurse called today and confirmed that my blood work last week was good! I was pretty nervous about that so I’m glad she called (even though the paperwork said she would only call if something was bad, so seeing the number pop up on my phone was momentarily terrifying!). Now I just need to try to stay calm until my next appointment.
knottie5634f0b731684bb9 100% recommend discovery+. It has all the ID shows and many specials for true crime. Also, consider changing your username so it’s easier for us to tag you and get to know you! There are directions in the Read This First Thread, and you might have to log out and log back in for it to take! As for cloth diapers, I’ve considered it for this baby but with this being baby #3- 6yo and under, I think for me it will just be extra work.
Upcoming Appointments: first ultrasound a week from today. Not exactly looking forward to it but also just want to get it over with.
How are you feeling?: not bad, I can still drink coffee and I don’t have any real nausea so I’m feeling grateful for that. First tri is rough for me sometimes so feeling decent at 6 weeks is a victory. Emotionally, I’m anxious as always.
Rants/Raves: my schedule is gonna be crazy these next few weeks with cancellations and rescheduling people because of Covid exposures/quarantines. I’m so over this pandemic (or should I say endemic?)
Questions: not at the moment
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Also a true crime fan over here. Just started watching Station Eleven on HBO and really liking it so far (I loved the book too).
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
EDD / Weeks + Days: Aug 29- 5 weeks... IMO, the worst time of pregnancy. Too dang early.
Baby is the size of a(n): appleseed
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: blood work ASAP, phone visit 1/4, in person 1/5
How are you feeling?: All of the nerves. But physically fine.
Rants/Raves: time needs to move a littttttle faster.
Questions: has anyone ever had blood vessels pop in their face this early in pregnancy? No idea if it's related but yesterday my cheek bone area got super red and has stayed that way. A very splotchy appearance. Not loving it!
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Show, probably Dexter and Six Feet Under. Also loved Schitts Creek... I'm sure I could add plenty more if I really sat and thought.
Upcoming Appointments: 1/20 - still feels light years away
How are you feeling?: fine, which is both great and a mindfuck. i've had some heartburn, and maybe the exhaustion is starting? but i'm also dealing w/ a toddler not in her montessori right now and wfh thanks to covid.
Rants/Raves: i've tested negative for covid 3x (12/24, 12/25 and 12/27) so i think safe to say in the clear, my daughter i'm not rapid testing at home but she seems fine. and husband tested negative on rapid for 7 straight days, and neg on pcr - so i think we are in the clear!!!
Questions: nada
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Mad Men, forever and always. it's just beautiful to watch, everything is intentional, nothing is an accident. i love it. book is so hard, to pick a singular book oh man, i think i would say Ruth Ozeki: A Tale For the Time Being. i am very excited for her new book, it's at top of my TBR pile.
How are you feeling?: I was sick last week and really worried that it was what this pregnancy was going to be, but fortunately it wasn't - just a bug I caught from my toddler. I'm back in the familiar first tri pattern of last time: super tired, lots of food aversions, just give me all the carbs. I gotta figure out how to eat vegetables and protein!
Rants/Raves: we had a bit of a whirlwind Christmas. It was supposed to be local here with my ILs followed by a quick trip to my parents in NJ, but Christmas Eve my nephew tested positive for COVID so everything was cancelled and we decided to spur of the moment pack up and drive to my parents that day. I'm really glad we did, I didn't want to spend Christmas alone after having been cooped up sick the week prior. We're back home now and I'm looking forward to relaxing a bit as we close out the year. We told my family while we were there, which was fun - they're very excited.
Questions: none
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Lots - I'm not a big movie gal but I love TV comedies: parks & rec, 30 rock, the office, SNL, Brooklyn 99, schitts creek, anything Mindy kaling does. I also had some time to read recently and picked up harry potter for the 489426th time rather than touch my long and ever growing TBR list. I'm going to try audible this year.
@starkette love it! Good choice of GTKY question. I should have also mentioned Gilmore girls! Are you a podcast fan at all? I've been loving office ladies. I had a funny and sad thought when I was postpartum with my son and deep in quarantine (2020 baby) that he'd know Jenna and Angela's voices before lots of family and friends 😬🥲 also like the newer Parks & recollection with Rob Lowe and Alan yang but they spend more time in the creative process than the details of the episode. Still interesting though!
@mehugg YES! I love Office Ladies podcast! I just got my sister The Office box set and trivia game for her birthday (it's a couple days after Christmas) and we are the only two people in our family who watch it. I keep wishing for a new show just like the holy trinity Office/Parks and Recs/Brooklynn 99...oooh and New Girl. And Mindy Project. Just watched Emily in Paris and it was fun and fluffy.
Upcoming Appointments: had my first scan on the 27th and the next is in the 7th with my RE
How are you feeling?: I got a nasty cold from my nephew over the holidays, very grateful it isn’t Covid and I haven’t been sick since pre Covid bc of telework, etc. but damnnnn I did not remember colds being so bad! My immune system has been basically asleep for so long it was like WHAT IS HAPPENING.
Rants/Raves: see above
Questions: I’m kind of afraid to work out like I will shake out the baby but I know this is not reasonable can someone please check me on this? After a FET they tell you to be careful and I’m still nervous.
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Recent TV faves are insecure and succession, loved the movie Dune, loved the book sorrow and bliss.
@buffythevampireslayer I feel similar about working out! But speed walking on the treadmill is probably fine. Maybe tone down the work out for a couple weeks until you feel more secure? Though they say most work outs are fine, they do advise against super heavy and excessive activity. I also love the movie Dune. So intense, so much like the book but amped way up.
How are you feeling?: A bit nauseous but also getting over Covid and lost taste slightly, so it’s been weird. At night, all I want are shrimp fried egg rolls from Long Island.
Rants/Raves: I have time off from work this week. Although we’ve been quarantined, it’s nice to just rest and take it easy.
Questions: I’m interested in learning about what others have in mind for fitness. I had a chat with the trainer at my gym and he kind of freaked me out and I haven’t worked out since. Waiting to hear from doc.
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I can watch RPDR all day.
@buffythevampireslayer I’ve never heard of not being able to work out, but check with your RE about their protocol. Part of my RE’s protocol is that I’m not allowed to have ANY orga$m til week 8 bc they make your uterus contract. 😳
@buffythevampireslayer I am having the same irrational fear of exercise, but for different reasons.
TW - loss
I normally exercise daily, pretty high intensity most days. I had a loss in August, it was hot and I was doing my regular routine. The nurse at my new OB office, when I made my intake appointment, told me to avoid vigorous exercise, like running, hiking, etc, because of the loss. I don’t think this is an evidence-based recommendation, but I still haven’t laced up my running shoes since I got the positive test. I ran with both my previous full-term pregnancies, so I know it’s not rational, but I can’t quite get past it. I have been keeping everything low impact and low intensity. Mostly walking, some cycling, light weights when lifting, etc.
@daffodil_shoe I have gotten the same guidance which is part of what made me so nervous. An orgasm, really?! I think I’m just going to continue to play it really safe until I’m off progesterone, cleared from my RE, and can move on to my OB and ask some more specific questions then.
@maggiemadeit thank you for sharing and I’m sorry for your previous loss. There does seem to be a lot of mixed info re: exercise. I have a peloton and have been really missing it and plan to get back on once I pass my 8 week scan.
@starkette going for walks is currently the main thing I am doing. I’m hoping to bring it up a notch soon!
@paytonpedro thanks! I like the devotionals in the YouVersion Bible app too. Last night I was up doing squats to get rid of my RL. I think it's bad this week because I'm resting throughout the day so much with being sick. I'm a teacher so I'm not used to being still.
Oh damn, I just posted that I had an irrational fear of orgasms causing a MC. I’d didn’t know it was actually recommended to abstain! My dreams have been making it hard to avoid 🤣 And I’ve definitely been taking it easy working out. I do Peleton usually but all throughout my infertility journey this year i was told to keep my heart rate below 140 after ovulation. I’ve been keeping it even lower since my positive preg test.
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
@bearmomma1 I don’t think it’s generally recommended to abstain unless your pregnant via fertility treatments. And I think that’s just a precaution. If you have a normal healthy pregnancy there is no reason to abstain from sex or orgasm.
Yea, here to echo I’ve never heard that re not having sex and my OB is of the if you did xyz workouts before you got pregnant you are good to keep doing them!
@starkette have you watched The Good Place? I also love the other shows you mentioned, and The Good Place fits with those! I need to rewatch it because I know there are so many little jokes and details I missed the first time!
@jenkm1110 I loooove the Good Place. It's hard to find shows I haven't seen, to be honest. Except for one that have just started. I like to wait for multiple seasons before committing to a show. Too many get cancelled prematurely right when I get invested.
How are you feeling?: Nausea in waves, but really could be worse.
Rants/Raves: Told my parents, and they are so excited. My mom said she thought I could be pregnant based on how I looked the last time I saw them... so I guess I look tired and bloated 🥴?
Questions: N/A
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Love this GTKY! Shows: Watchmen, Succession, 30 Rock, The Good Place, Mindhunter, Morning Show, The White Lotus, and so many others
Someone mentioned this, I also love Neil Gaiman books
Baby is the size of a(n): sweet pea, chocolate chip
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: u/s with our fertility clinic on Monday before graduating to our OB
How are you feeling?: pretty good. Not as nauseous or tired as with my last pregnancy. But feeling anxious and feeling like time is moving slowly
Rants/Raves: my daughter has had this weird rash for the last few days on her face, torso and hands. Took her to dr and they thought either allergic reaction to something or a post-sickness rash from her cold/bronchitis she had at the beginning of the month. It’s finally looking better this morning and I’m so glad. It was hard to look at her.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I have very eclectic tastes!
Fav show: Friends, Gilmore Girls, Morning Show, Ozarks, Cobra Kai, sex and the city, working moms. Bachelor/ette/in paradise. Outlander, vampire diaries, Ted lasso, I can’t even think of them all
Movie: Grease, Clueless, Harry potters,
Books: Harry potters, twilights, 50 shades, ready player 1, hunger games,
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
Re: Weekly Check-In 12/26
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/7 8w0d
Baby is the size of a(n):
Bump app: Raspberry
Ovia App: Wild Strawberry
Team: Finding out!
Upcoming Appointments: Two days!! 12/28 for second ultrasound to check growth.
How are you feeling?: Nausea hits halfway through eating anything, but B6 keeps it tolerable. Boobs sore. Burpy. Tired, but that could be the holidays and family.
Rants/Raves: Told my family yesterday and everyone is so excited! I'm the only married with kids person on my parents side of the family. On MH's side, his parents have 11 grandkids but MH is their only shared child (yours, mine, and ours family) so they're really thrilled. My oldest daughter (8) is SO excited. She asked about possible names, what I thought about gender, how her younger sister (3) would handle it since she's special needs and still very infant-like in many ways...but she kept saying "I can't believe you're pregnant! Congrats mom!" it was so cute.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I watch and read a lot so these tend to change often. Right now:
Favorite show(s): Parks and Rec, all Star Treks, and Gilmore Girls (I know, I'm so basic)
Favorite movie(s): Huge Lord of the Rings (nerd alert) and Marvel fan
Favorite book(s): As a kid, I was obsessed with Animorphs. As an adult, I love anything by Brandon Sanderson and Neil Gaiman.
EDD / Weeks + Days:
7w1d (8/14)
Baby is the size of a(n):
Bump: blueberry
Ovia: wee raspberry
Team:
Not sure yet if we’ll find out
Upcoming Appointments:
1/7 for another check at 8w6d and supposedly I’ll be getting a call from the MFM’s office in the next couple weeks but no idea when they’ll want me to come in, maybe not until 10w?
How are you feeling?:
Pretty good today! Not as queasy so far. I haven’t been super nauseated but it typically comes in waves a few times a day, no throwing up yet though.
Rants/Raves:
Told my family and my MIL yesterday, it went really well. I keep seeing posts about sushi on social media though so I may have to unfollow a few restaurants for a bit so I’ll stop craving raw fish.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
I don’t really have favorites of stuff like that but we watch a lot of sports in our household and I do love Harry Potter.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/7 8 weeks
Baby is the size of a(n): Wild Strawberry
Team: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: Jan 18
How are you feeling?: constant nausea which sucks but it could be worse. Yesterday I had some moderate bleeding and heavy cramping which concerns me but it’s stopped so I’m hoping everything is okay and maybe the cyst just ruptured.
Rants/Raves: glad they holiday season is winding down. It was a lot of fun but exhausting. Ready to get my house back in order and get rid of stuff.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Favorite show(s): Parks and Rec
Favorite movie(s): The Holiday. But also love SW and the MU
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8.19 / 6w2d
Baby is the size of a(n): chocolate chip
Team: blue 💙
Upcoming Appointments: U/S this Wednesday for heartbeat confirmation
How are you feeling?: Some waves of nausea in the evening, but I’m really keeping on top of it with Unisom, B6, and nausea hard candies.
Rants/Raves: Soooo happy I don’t have to do daily progesterone shots! The sublingual lozenges don’t taste great, but maybe now my nerve pain in my butt/hips can heal
GTKY- Movie/book: Harry Potter! I just went to Wizarding World of Harry Potter the day before my transfer. I love it so much.
Show: I could watch The Office over and over. I think I’ve rewatched it 6 times.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/31 4w4d
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Team: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: 1/24 first ultrasound
How are you feeling?: sensitive nose, thirsty always, tired
Rants/Raves: so glad the stress of Christmas is past. Enjoying the week off work with our 3yo and 1yo
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Beetlejuice is my fav movie of all time, for sure.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 7+0
Baby is the size of a(n): 1d6
Team: finding out!
Upcoming Appointments: January 4 for intake/bloodwork, sonogram, and doctor visit
How are you feeling?: Better than 7 weeks with my first two! I need tons of sleep and only want to eat straight-up gluten, but the aversions and fatigue don't seem as bad, which of course fills me with a constant sense of dread that worse symptoms are coming. But maybe not 🤷♀️
Rants/Raves: I can still drink coffee! It started smelling bad to me yesterday-ish, but if I can get it past my nose I can drink it. Today I added some hot chocolate mix and it actually tastes good. This is huge, because with my first two I had to give up coffee for about a month, and that made the other symptoms so much worse. If I can keep drinking coffee, the fatigue and constipation will be much more manageable.
Questions: nah
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? +1 for Harry Potter! I literally grew up with him as the books came out when I was in middle and high school. I love fantasy and my other favorites are LOTR and The Name of the Wind/Wise Man's Fear. The TV show I'm into right now is Ghosts. We just finished the British original version and then stumbled upon an American version and started watching that the other night.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/11 7w4d
Baby is the size of a(n): raspberry/ dice/ honey bee
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: January 3rd
How are you feeling?: at the current moment, fine. But in general, like absolute garbage. I’ve been super nauseous, my boobs are super sore, my belly is super upset, and I’ve been super fatigued/tired.
Rants/Raves: We told our children on Christmas morning and they were underwhelmed and then didn’t tell anyone so it’s basically just a family secret now. My oldest has been talking about it and wants to do a gender reveal cake because he saw video that we did that when we were expecting him. He’s also given me a couple name suggestions and says it’s a(nother) boy. My youngest is convinced it’s a girl, and I hope he’s right lol. Now I have to figure out a new way to tell our families seeing my children dropped the ball.
Questions: nope
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I like true crime shows. I also am patiently waiting for a new season of Virgin River. I also enjoy trash tv like the 90 day saga, sister wives, and occasionally teen mom. My all time favorite movie is Johnny Dangerously or Stick It. I’m not a huge reader because it’s hard to find time (and quiet), so I basically just read the Bible, or devotionals.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
EDD / Weeks + Days: August 20, 2022/6weeks 1 day
Baby is the size of a(n): sweet pea
Team: not sure if we are finding out yet 💙💗
Upcoming Appointments: Just had one on the 23rd, going again on Jan 6th for another ultrasound and to get an Rx for prenatals.
How are you feeling?: I think I have covid, so I'm feeling rotten. I'm very anxious about treatment options and how it will affect our baby.
Rants/Raves: I'm annoyed at the prices of prenatal vitamins!! What the heck?! Why is everything so expensive and not covered by insurance? That's a load of crap.
Questions: What do you do for restless legs at night? Last night was ridiculous!
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I've been watching the MCU Spinoffs with MH, and we have to finish Hawkeye yet. Favorite movie of all time is The Goonies, but my favorite Christmas movie is A Muppet Christmas Carol. I don't have a favorite book. I love to read almost everything. I've been doing a daily devotion with my Bible through the Hallow app.
Glad to hear they’re some ladies here with a similar lifestyle as me.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
EDD / Weeks + Days: Aug 23, 6 weeks tomorrow
Baby is the size of a(n): still teeny tiny
Team: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: Not until 10+ weeks
How are you feeling?: Rotten. Got myself tested for COVID this morning and I am thankfully negative, but still feeling just awful. First vacation in a year and of course I’m spending it in bed, waaaaaahhhhhh
Rants/Raves: I love my family, but someone brought this germ to my house at Christmas and I do not love that!
Questions: Does anyone know if the doctor can hear a heartbeat on Doppler at 10 weeks? Or maybe it’s too early?
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I’m a big reader so it’s hard to pick just one. My favorite of all time is a The Sun Also Rises, but I just finished The Water Dancer and it was terrific, highly recommend.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Baby is the size of a(n): Peppercorn
Team: Not finding out!
Upcoming Appointments: Jan 27. Soooo far away!
How are you feeling?: So far, so good😊 Slight breast tenderness but nothing too major.
Rants/Raves: Its absolutely killing my husband and I to not tell our families! This is his first baby so his family will be over the moon!
Questions: Has anybody cloth diapered? We’re looking into it with this baby and we’re overwhelmed with all the information out there..
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Another true crime lover here. I’ve watched basically all of the ones Netflix offers so suggestions on other streaming platforms are very much welcomed!
EDD / Weeks + Days: 6 weeks today 8/22
Baby is the size of a(n): sweet pea
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: first ultrasound a week from today. Not exactly looking forward to it but also just want to get it over with.
How are you feeling?: not bad, I can still drink coffee and I don’t have any real nausea so I’m feeling grateful for that. First tri is rough for me sometimes so feeling decent at 6 weeks is a victory. Emotionally, I’m anxious as always.
Rants/Raves: my schedule is gonna be crazy these next few weeks with cancellations and rescheduling people because of Covid exposures/quarantines. I’m so over this pandemic (or should I say endemic?)
Questions: not at the moment
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Also a true crime fan over here. Just started watching Station Eleven on HBO and really liking it so far (I loved the book too).
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
EDD / Weeks + Days: Aug 29- 5 weeks... IMO, the worst time of pregnancy. Too dang early.
Baby is the size of a(n): appleseed
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: blood work ASAP, phone visit 1/4, in person 1/5
How are you feeling?: All of the nerves. But physically fine.
Rants/Raves: time needs to move a littttttle faster.
Questions: has anyone ever had blood vessels pop in their face this early in pregnancy? No idea if it's related but yesterday my cheek bone area got super red and has stayed that way. A very splotchy appearance. Not loving it!
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Show, probably Dexter and Six Feet Under. Also loved Schitts Creek... I'm sure I could add plenty more if I really sat and thought.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/24, 6w
Baby is the size of a(n): sweetpea
Team: green
Upcoming Appointments: 1/20 - still feels light years away
How are you feeling?: fine, which is both great and a mindfuck. i've had some heartburn, and maybe the exhaustion is starting? but i'm also dealing w/ a toddler not in her montessori right now and wfh thanks to covid.
Rants/Raves: i've tested negative for covid 3x (12/24, 12/25 and 12/27) so i think safe to say in the clear, my daughter i'm not rapid testing at home but she seems fine. and husband tested negative on rapid for 7 straight days, and neg on pcr - so i think we are in the clear!!!
Questions: nada
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Mad Men, forever and always. it's just beautiful to watch, everything is intentional, nothing is an accident. i love it. book is so hard, to pick a singular book oh man, i think i would say Ruth Ozeki: A Tale For the Time Being. i am very excited for her new book, it's at top of my TBR pile.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/8, 8w1d
Baby is the size of a(n): raspberry
Team: green!
Upcoming Appointments: Jan 10
How are you feeling?: I was sick last week and really worried that it was what this pregnancy was going to be, but fortunately it wasn't - just a bug I caught from my toddler. I'm back in the familiar first tri pattern of last time: super tired, lots of food aversions, just give me all the carbs. I gotta figure out how to eat vegetables and protein!
Rants/Raves: we had a bit of a whirlwind Christmas. It was supposed to be local here with my ILs followed by a quick trip to my parents in NJ, but Christmas Eve my nephew tested positive for COVID so everything was cancelled and we decided to spur of the moment pack up and drive to my parents that day. I'm really glad we did, I didn't want to spend Christmas alone after having been cooped up sick the week prior. We're back home now and I'm looking forward to relaxing a bit as we close out the year. We told my family while we were there, which was fun - they're very excited.
Questions: none
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Lots - I'm not a big movie gal but I love TV comedies: parks & rec, 30 rock, the office, SNL, Brooklyn 99, schitts creek, anything Mindy kaling does. I also had some time to read recently and picked up harry potter for the 489426th time rather than touch my long and ever growing TBR list. I'm going to try audible this year.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 6w5d
Baby is the size of a(n): lentil/sweet pea
Team: we already know!
Upcoming Appointments: had my first scan on the 27th and the next is in the 7th with my RE
How are you feeling?: I got a nasty cold from my nephew over the holidays, very grateful it isn’t Covid and I haven’t been sick since pre Covid bc of telework, etc. but damnnnn I did not remember colds being so bad! My immune system has been basically asleep for so long it was like WHAT IS HAPPENING.
Rants/Raves: see above
Questions: I’m kind of afraid to work out like I will shake out the baby but I know this is not reasonable can someone please check me on this? After a FET they tell you to be careful and I’m still nervous.
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? Recent TV faves are insecure and succession, loved the movie Dune, loved the book sorrow and bliss.
Baby is the size of a(n): Pea
Team: Haven’t decided yet!
Upcoming Appointments: second week in Jan
How are you feeling?: A bit nauseous but also getting over Covid and lost taste slightly, so it’s been weird. At night, all I want are shrimp fried egg rolls from Long Island.
Rants/Raves: I have time off from work this week. Although we’ve been quarantined, it’s nice to just rest and take it easy.
Questions: I’m interested in learning about what others have in mind for fitness. I had a chat with the trainer at my gym and he kind of freaked me out and I haven’t worked out since. Waiting to hear from doc.
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I can watch RPDR all day.
I normally exercise daily, pretty high intensity most days. I had a loss in August, it was hot and I was doing my regular routine. The nurse at my new OB office, when I made my intake appointment, told me to avoid vigorous exercise, like running, hiking, etc, because of the loss. I don’t think this is an evidence-based recommendation, but I still haven’t laced up my running shoes since I got the positive test. I ran with both my previous full-term pregnancies, so I know it’s not rational, but I can’t quite get past it. I have been keeping everything low impact and low intensity. Mostly walking, some cycling, light weights when lifting, etc.
@starkette going for walks is currently the main thing I am doing. I’m hoping to bring it up a notch soon!
And I’ve definitely been taking it easy working out. I do Peleton usually but all throughout my infertility journey this year i was told to keep my heart rate below 140 after ovulation. I’ve been keeping it even lower since my positive preg test.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/6 / 8w5d
Baby is the size of a(n): raspberry
Team: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: 1/25
How are you feeling?: Nausea in waves, but really could be worse.
Rants/Raves: Told my parents, and they are so excited. My mom said she thought I could be pregnant based on how I looked the last time I saw them... so I guess I look tired and bloated 🥴?
Questions: N/A
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book?
Love this GTKY! Shows: Watchmen, Succession, 30 Rock, The Good Place, Mindhunter, Morning Show, The White Lotus, and so many others
Someone mentioned this, I also love Neil Gaiman books
EDD / Weeks + Days: 6 weeks, 8/25
Baby is the size of a(n): sweet pea, chocolate chip
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: u/s with our fertility clinic on Monday before graduating to our OB
How are you feeling?: pretty good. Not as nauseous or tired as with my last pregnancy. But feeling anxious and feeling like time is moving slowly
Rants/Raves: my daughter has had this weird rash for the last few days on her face, torso and hands. Took her to dr and they thought either allergic reaction to something or a post-sickness rash from her cold/bronchitis she had at the beginning of the month. It’s finally looking better this morning and I’m so glad. It was hard to look at her.
Questions:
GTKY- Favorite show, movie, and/or book? I have very eclectic tastes!
Fav show: Friends, Gilmore Girls, Morning Show, Ozarks, Cobra Kai, sex and the city, working moms. Bachelor/ette/in paradise. Outlander, vampire diaries, Ted lasso, I can’t even think of them all
Movie: Grease, Clueless, Harry potters,
Books: Harry potters, twilights, 50 shades, ready player 1, hunger games,
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.