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CS/Q:
Re: WTO WEEKEND 5/1-2
Month/Cycle: 3/2 1 AL
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: PNV BBT OPK CM
R/R: Hubs got home early last night he was able to sneak away from work a few hours ahead of schedule. I think we’re going to go out to dinner tonight too. Tomorrow after he leaves I plan on doing some gardening in the afternoon which I lothe but the garden beds need it badly.
CS/Q: I think the OPK was positive today if it wasn’t it was barley negative so that super exciting. My temp dropped to the lowest it has been this morning too so I’m curious what will happen now. I’m looking forward to having at least a month or two completed so I have something to compare to in the future.
Month/Cycle: 11
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU:
R/R: So I'm actually not sure if I belong here, temping is not going great this month and I haven't been using OPKs so I might be in the dark. Haven't noticed CM early like I did last month so it's possible I haven't O'ed yet? Aside from last month and the first 2 months off BC, I usually O between CD20-22. I don't necessarily mind being in the dark but if I've already O'ed.... timing was not great. Oh well, trying to get myself into gear for temping (I have a temp drop, how hard can it be haha). Anyways, absolutely gorgeous out today, MH & I are taking the dog on a hike to a place we go to all the time but going to try out a new trail. Otherwise, just crossing things off the to-do list this weekend!
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, PNV, timing
R/R: Life remains dumb stressful and I'm over it.
CS/Q: Nope.
Have a good weekend, y'all.
@beakay8 sorry for CD 1 and sorry everything is stressful
I hope you have things this weekend that can feed your needs
@daisy0322 to me it looks like O is either tomorrow or Monday so fx the timing works out for you! very glad you get more quality time with YH
@fameonmain2 I love that hike idea with the pup! it sounds so lovely. fx no O yet
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt, cm/cp, CBAD/opk
R/R: it's a gloomy day today but I'm looking forward to shopping at the public market again and picking up my new favorite treat - crumpets!
CS/Q: started opks today, will resume CBAD tomorrow. I anticipate a delayed O because of all the graduation/thesis stress
@chgilmore I’ve never had a crumpet but they sound so sophisticated 😆 do you have them with tea too? Haha. I feel dumb but am drawing a blank on what CBAD is?
Month/Cycle: 2
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, CM, prenatals
R/R: i didn’t realize I was only on CD 8 when I did my first OPK yesterday, oops hah. In the past when I’ve tracked my cycle, I O’d around CD 11-12. With stress and taking different medication for migraines the past few months, my cycles have been anywhere from 25-31 days so better safe than sorry! Anyway, it’s a beautiful day here and I’m hiding out in the bathroom so I don’t have to clean the entire house before people come over in about 1.5 hours 🤣 I’m excited for our first party in our new house! And excited to not look like a troll for a day since I WFH and barely change out of my PJs
CS/Q: nothing to see
I can’t remember who asked what we are having for our Derby party, but we’re just having people bring appetizer type stuff. We’re making sliders and I know someone’s bringing Buffalo chicken dip, baked beans, and grits...maybe some fruit? Then dessert, obviously. No idea the exact menu though but we aren’t making like a legit meal. I already know I’m going to eat a lot.
I'm lurking and loving reading y'all's updates but not plugged in much for chat this weekend.
@daisy0322 I'm glad you were able to sneak away yesterday! It sounds like the timing might work out 🤞! Curious to see your temp tomorrow.
@fameonmain2 enjoy your hike!
@beakay8 I hope things start looking up for you. Hopefully May is better ❤️.
@CHGilmore the market sounds lovely!
@b_1029 have fun at your party!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Letrozole/Mira
R/R: I'm annoyed. I tried to use the Mira monitor today for the first time and it isn't working. It won't turn on and won't charge. I'm unreasonably upset by it...like almost in tears. I'm going to blame the letrozole for making me emotional. Idk. Otherwise, we are just home this weekend. I'll probably make a Target run soon to do some retail therapy lol.
CS/Q: nope
@beakay8 that get together sounds like perfect timing
@kgg2241 it was lovely! brought home some fresh flowers and took some pre-emptive graduation pictures. I'm sorry for the hormones emotions! getting out to Target sounds fun
@kgg2241 ugh I’m sorry your monitor isn’t working that is so frustrating especially because they can be pricey.
@fameonmain2 I agree you likely haven't O'ed yet. Idk if it's just me but I feel like those that do have a temp drop have a hard time using it or getting it to work lol
@beakay8 sorry for CD1
@chgilmore the markets are something I wish we did more often. The weather has been so nice this weekend I'd love to get some fresh food!
@b_1029 hope everything went great at the party yesterday!
@kgg2241 I hope you get your Mira working! I know that device is not cheap!
Month/Cycle: 6 AL
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@ch_gilmore ohh, crumpets sound lovely. I've been following your thesis stress but I'm not sure I saw the resolution... did your advisor finally accept?
@b_1029 the food at your derby party sounds AMAZING. How did it go??
@beakay8 hugs to you
@kgg2241 ugh, I'm sorry about the Mira. It's so frustrating when you pay a good chunk of money for something and it doesn't work. Not to mention the let down about not being able to use it. Were you able to troubleshoot at all?
@inthewoods23 I had a ton of cramping last night so I think you're all probably right that I haven't O'ed yet... just a weird cycle last month I guess! I really love my temp drop but I have just been soooo lazy the past couple of months... like, lazy to the point that I don't feel like putting it on when I lay down. Really no excuse lol. Also LOVE high waisted swimsuits. FX they will come in handy just in time
@inthewoods23 ouch!!!! the vacation planning does sound like something fun to look forward to, even if it involves a lot of logistics. definitely try a local market if you can! maybe it's just me, but the food tastes so much better.