November 2021 Moms

**TW** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss


Re: **TW** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss

  • @campbellcobb I'm so sorry, I know exactly how scary this all is.  Still keeping my fingers crossed for good news. 
  • @campbellcobb oh I’m so sorry! Hoping there will be some good news soon
    Me: 29 | DH: 28
    Due: 6 Nov 2021
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  • @campbellcobb thinking of you and sending you good vibes 
  • edited March 2021
    @campbellcobb I’m thinking of you. With my anxious googling about my own ultrasound (I’m trying to stop), I have run into a few things with yours too.. they may have missed the heartbeat, had a bad angle, could be a combination of a few things. I don’t want to say much because I of course don’t know, but I will have hope for you. Hoping your symptoms and hcg have just fluctuated and that your next ultrasound will find what they’re looking for ❤️
  • Hi everyone. I just introduced myself on the introductions thread. I am 8 weeks tomorrow but since 6+2 until the last 24 hours I have been spotting. So far I just see it when I wipe and it looks like older blood, but seeing it daily/ multiple times a day for a over a week has been an emotional rollercoaster. I called my dr's office but they said unless it's filling up a pad or I have cramps then I have to wait until my first ultrasound - which is finally almost here (3/31). I've googled myself into every rabbit hole and possible outcome on the internet. I think I tired myself out with all the worrying, emotionally I am leveling out and while I'm still so anxious about my appt on Weds, I am ready for some answers. Luckily my husband will be able to join me so no matter what happens I'll have him right next to me for support. 

    So far nothing about TTC or pregnancy is what I envisioned. I was SO naive.
  • Big hugs @knottie I hope your appointment Wednesday goes well ❤️
  • @knottie2d3245211b556a99 I hope everything goes well for you. 
  • Progesterone is still normal and hcg is stable. They said it shouldn’t double anymore because it’s already so high. 🙁
    They still want me to come for the ultrasound Thursday. The high hcg seems to suggest a problem. 
  • I’m so sorry you have this stress @campbellcobb. Are you feeling any different? I wish I knew more to help you out, all I can say is that hopefully this is just a hiccup and things aren’t as bad as they seem. I am rooting for you. 
  • @campbellcobb did they say what exactly your hcg is? 
  • No. They didn’t say. I may ask about it Thursday, depending how the US goes. I hope it turns out to be nothing. 
  • @campbellcobb I'm keeping everything crossed. It really sucks that they couldn't get you in earlier, but Thursday is just over a day away now
  • @campbellcobb high hcg is usually a good thing, so its extra stressful that they are being weird and vague about it. I would email or call them just to clarify what exactly they are worried about,  just for your own peace of mind.  I'm sorry you are having to deal with the extra stress.  ❤
  • I’m just confused. The only thing I can figure is they are worried about a partial molar pregnancy. 😞
    I just don’t know. 
  • @campbellcobb Thursday can’t come soon enough! I’ll be thinking of you ❤️
  • No heartbeat or growth. I guess that’s it. Goodbye everyone! 
    I hope you all stay healthy and everything goes well. 
  • @campbellcobb No! I'm so sorry! Please take care of yourself. I hope you can surround yourself with support ❤
  • @campbellcobb shit... I was thinking of you all day. I’m so sorry... take care of yourself and give yourself time and space to heal ❤️ I’m so so sorry. 
  • @campbellcobb awee I am so so sorry. Please be kind to yourself ❤️
  • @campbellcobb I am so so sorry. I know how long you’ve hoped for a baby. Please take care of yourself ❤️
  • @campbellcobb I'm so sorry ☹️
  • @campbellcobb I'm so sorry. Please take gentle care with yourself as you heal  <3
    Me: 34 DH: 43
    Our Journey for #1
    2014 -- Started TTC casually
    2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school
    Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI 
    Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing
    Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs
    Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS
    Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021

  • Hey guys! I’m needing some advice! I learned I have a subchorionic hemorrhage a few weeks ago after a lot of bleeding and a trip to the ER! I’m 9 weeks today! My last/first sono was @ 8 weeks and my doctor doesn’t seem concerned at all! She said it usually goes away on its own! 

    My next sono isn’t until I’m 14 weeks! I’m just highly concerned that that’s too long of a wait, especially since I had a MMC in Nov! 

    How do I go about asking for another sono before 14 weeks?! Should I just change providers?! My current doctor delivered my first son and I had a good experience! But her lack of concern especially after a MMC is starting to rub me the wrong way! 

    (I accidentally started a new thread when I first tried to post and I’m not sure how to delete 🙃)

  • @luvmama0000 you can always just ask for another. Your insurance might not cover it though. Mine only covers two for the length of the pregnancy. You could also go to an ultrasound boutique. Sorry you’re struggling. I hope this is your rainbow baby. 
  • @luvmama0000 I hope that you get some reassurance soon and that everything's alright! It's good that you were at 8 weeks and your doctor wasn't concerned at least
  • @luvmama0000
    Hoping in from Dec Moms -- ask your doctor how much the out of pocket would be for an u/s if your insurance won't cover it. With my first pregnancy, I had u/s weekly from week 7 to week 12 and then another at 16 weeks before my big one at 20 weeks. I also got severla u/s in third trimester since I requested them. My insurance had no issue paying  -- the major thing is that the doctor's office code it as medically necessary. If you don't want to risk it, you can always go to a boutique u/s place.
    ~~ Our Story in Spoiler! TW loss/child~~
    Fall 2012 -- started TTC
    Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
    Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
    September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
    Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
    June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
    August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP.  Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
    September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
    March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!

    TTC #2
    January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle 
    March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156,  #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!

    "When all is lost then all is found."

  • I just started bleeding... brownish/reddish and some cramping. I don’t know what to do on a Sunday. I don’t feel well. I think this is it 😞
  • @usedtobeknottie I'm sorry, I hope that it's nothing and that you can see your provider soon. Sending hugs!
  • @usedtobeknottie I’m so sorry. I would call your OBs after hours line. ❤️ Hoping for the best
  • I went to the ER. I was hysterical and I can’t imagine that’s ok either. They did a bedside ultrasound but gave no answers. The girl tried to tell me that they aren’t allowed to tell me if there’s a heartbeat... I don’t know if that’s true. They took my beta levels and they were 5762. She said because my beta levels were “normal” they would not send me for an actual ultrasound. Came home to find 5762 is really NOT normal for being 9 weeks tomorrow. I am calling my doctor tomorrow but I believe I am done. I feel so stupid. 
  • @usedtobeknottie I'm so sorry, I hope your OB can get you in early tomorrow.  ❤ Sending love and fingers crossed for good news 
  • @usedtobeknottie don't feel stupid, you're doing everything you can and it's right given the information you received. I'm hoping for a better tomorrow
  • @usedtobeknottie hang in there. ❤️
  • Sending you peace @usedtobeknottie and I hope you get answers in the morning.
  • edited April 2021
    Does anyone know if I have any chance at all of being pregnant any more? I know no one can tell me for sure, but I have been crying non-stop and I can’t eat or sleep. I am devastated. I hate that the ER doctor said my hcg is normal and it’s just not according to google. I have searched thousands of sites trying to be wrong, and they’re all the same. I forgot about Easter Monday so I can’t see my doctor until Tuesday...
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