November 2021 Moms

**TW** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss

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Re: **TW** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss

  • @leigh_4 fingers crossed for you today! ❤❤
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  • @leigh_4 Thinking of you and hoping you'll be getting some reassuring news from your appointment today!
  • @leigh_4 It is a heart stopping moment. I hope that everything went well at your appointment today. 
    Me: 34 DH: 43
    Our Journey for #1
    2014 -- Started TTC casually
    2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school
    Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI 
    Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing
    Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs
    Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS
    Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021


  • el_3el_3 member
    @sliztee @mkp0903 @teamginger13 @misspricklepants Thank you all so much for the kind words and encouragement. I did not receive good news this morning - there was no gestational or yolk sac on the US and the doctor decided it was best to go with a D&C this Saturday. I’m devastated, but it truly warms my heart at how kind, supportive and loving you all have been in this short time. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart - I wish you all the best for healthy pregnancies!! ❤️
  • @leigh_4 I am so, so very sorry to hear... wishing you all of the love and support in your life ❤️
  • @leigh_4 My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry you're going through this! Sending you thoughts of peace and healing.  <3
  • @leigh_4 I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss! I hope you can surround yourself with loved ones.  Sending you love and comfort
  • @leigh_4 I’m so sorry! I’ve been there and understand. Take care of yourself and take time to grieve ❤️
  • @leigh_4 I am just so sorry to hear this. Please be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to heal ❤️
  • @leigh_4 My heart goes out to you. I’m so sorry for your loss 💜

    Me 35, DH 37

    Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014

    February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN

    August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.

    February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal

    March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal

    May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN

    August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!

    July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw

    September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal

    October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN

    January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH)  -- 2 PGS normal

    February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021



  • @leigh_4 so sorry for your loss  <3
  • @leigh_4 sending internet stranger hugs, so sorry for your loss.  <3
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  • @leigh_4 I’m so sorry ❤️ Please be kind to yourself. I’ll be thinking of you
  • I just had a SERIOUS amount of blood come out of me in the middle of a meeting. My entire jean crotch is covered with blood. Went to the bathroom and a large clot came out. Left a message for my doctor but its 3PM and they are closed for the day. Hopefully its just the SCH but that amount of blood just really is alarming. Bad timing since its the weekend :(

    Me 35, DH 37

    Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014

    February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN

    August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.

    February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal

    March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal

    May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN

    August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!

    July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw

    September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal

    October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN

    January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH)  -- 2 PGS normal

    February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021



  • @teamginger13 oh no... that’s got to be insanely stressful. Is there any way you can be seen soon? I feel like as a Canadian it’s easier to say go to the hospital, but I don’t know if that’s possible for you, or if that’s what is right to do in these situations... thinking of you ❤️
  • artsiefartsieartsiefartsie member
    edited March 2021
    @teamginger13 oh that's so nerve wracking! Is there a 24 hr line or anything? I know you have an SCH so I wouldn't freak out too much, especially if it slows back down, but even heavy flow with clots can be normal with a SCH. However, I also don't ever think it's a bad idea to go to the ER for an immediate scan just to check on things for peace of mind.  Sending you good vibes.  I hope it stops quickly 
  • @leigh_4 Take gentle care of your self and know you are in my heart and thoughts  <3

    @teamginger13 Are you part of the SCH FB group? I have found it to be pretty reassuring as lots of the women experience huge bleeds and baby is still healthy and growing. I am so sorry about the bleeding and the timing - does your RE have a pager? Mine has an emergency line and is open on the weekend - maybe yours will be able to get you in tomorrow. 
    Me: 34 DH: 43
    Our Journey for #1
    2014 -- Started TTC casually
    2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school
    Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI 
    Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing
    Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs
    Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS
    Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021


  • @teamginger13 I'm so sorry, I hope that everything is alright and you can get clarity soon
  • @teamginger13 fingers crossed it’s just the sch. ❤️
  • @teamginger13 I'm so relieved they are going to try to get you in tomorrow.  Having to wait all weekend would be awful! I'll be thinking of you. 
  • @teamginger13 ugh!! Hopefully it’s just that SCH, those sucker can cause a lot of bleeding. Get some rest and I’ll be thinking of you. 🤞they can get you in quickly. 
  • @leigh_4 I am so so sorry, take good care of yourself ❤️ 

    @teamginger13 fingers crossed it’s just the SCH! You’ve probably heard from the nurse by now and I’m really hoping for a positive update! 
    Me: 29 | DH: 28
    Due: 6 Nov 2021
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    PitaPata Dog tickers



  • @teamginger13 I hope everything is okay! 
  • @teamginger13 Any updates yet? 🤞🏼❤️
  • Update: The doctor didn’t see a heartbeat and said the baby stopped growing at 6+2 (I should be 7 weeks today). They weren’t sure if the SCH caused it or not. So that’s it for me. I’m truly thankful for all the support I received over the last couple weeks. We have one more PGS normal embryo frozen so will try again in a couple months. I hope everybody has a very healthy and happy pregnancy and those November babies are safe. 💜

    Me 35, DH 37

    Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014

    February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN

    August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.

    February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal

    March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal

    May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN

    August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!

    July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw

    September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal

    October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN

    January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH)  -- 2 PGS normal

    February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021



  • @teamginger13 I'm so sorry! You will be missed.  Sending you love and comfort.  
  • @teamginger13 I’m so sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine. Take care, and I hope there is a happy, healthy pregnancy in your future. 
  • @teamginger13 I’m truly so very sorry. I’ve had that news before and I hate that you have to feel that. Please take care of yourself *hugs*
  • @teamginger13 I am so sorry ❤️ remember to take care of yourself 
    Me: 29 | DH: 28
    Due: 6 Nov 2021
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    PitaPata Dog tickers



  • @teamginger13 I am so sorry to hear... yes, please take care of yourself. Wishing you love and support ❤️
  • @teamginger13 Ugh. I was so hoping for good news. Please be gracious with yourself and take time to heal. I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you 💔
  • @teamginger13 I'm so sorry and sending so many hugs. Be gentle to yourself
  • So I guess I'm joining this thread now. I started some very light spotting yesterday afternoon and it has been consistent, but not getting any heavier, today. Very light brown/pink. I'm 7+1 and my first ultrasound is supposed to be on Friday. I'm thinking it's probably nothing, especially since I still have full blown symptoms (with my CP and MMC my symptoms went away, I never bled/spotted). Still kind of freaked out though. My dr's office is closed because it's the weekend, and I know the ER is useless around here for this sort of thing (my friend went in with spotting and they sent her home). Hopefully it will stop before monday but if I'm still spotting monday morning I'll call my dr's office. 
  • @eggsandwich2019 I’m sorry you are going through this. Hopefully, you will get an appointment soon and find out everything is okay. 
  • @eggsandwich2019 I'm sorry, I hope you can get checked soon and that everything is okay
  • @teamginger13 Oh I am so sorry and my heart aches for you. Please take care of yourself and know you are in my prayers.  <3


    @eggsandwich2019 I'm sorry you're here and I hope that it stops over the weekend and that you can get in to see your doctor quickly!
    Me: 34 DH: 43
    Our Journey for #1
    2014 -- Started TTC casually
    2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school
    Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI 
    Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing
    Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs
    Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS
    Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021


  • edited March 2021
    @eggsandwich2019 I’m sorry you have this going on. I hope you can have your worries lessened soon and that you can take time for yourself until you can be seen. Thinking of you ❤️ 
  • @teamginger13 I am terribly sorry to hear this. You’ll be in my thoughts. 

    @eggsandwich2019 hopefully all is well. I would call your ob on Monday. Maybe they can move up your ultrasound 
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