Okay so last summer me and my boyfriend were having a lot of relationship problems and we broke up I met someone and I slept with him unprotected. I am now 8mths pregnant and I don’t know if he’s the dad or my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend are back togther now and I’m so scared because I’m not sure if it’s his baby or other guys baby. I slept with the guy on Aug.15th then again on aroun Aug 26th .... I am due May 1st I think I slept with boyfriend the beginning of august or end of July I can’t remember the exact date.. I need help figuring this out it’s driving me crazy!! Please no judge mental rude comments!!
Re: I’m kind of scared need help!
I agree with Meggyme and what she says.
The only way to know for sure is paternity tests. Due dates are only estimates, nit an exact science. Some babies are born before their due dates, others on their due dates others after their due dates, do honestly, due date isn't going to be most accurate.
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One of my male friends found out he wasn't the father of his then-girlfriend's baby and she revealed it in the delivery room. They were both 17 at the time.
He left, of course, but then did return to find out once the shock wore off. The hurt doesn't though, he never truly trusted another woman since.
He wasn't the father but did stay in her life until other circumstances ended that.
But it is a "expect them to be shocked/hurt, but tell them because lies are only protecting yourself and making the situation hurt more as time goes on and the lie becomes harder to rectify".
Another friend I had gave up her children way, way back when she chose hard drugs over raising them. The one was less than a year old so when he grew up he believed the woman that raised him was his birth mother. So when she found her children again when they were 16 and 18, there was a social worker and therapist there to say to the 16 y.o. that he'd been lied to his entire life.
He did see a therapist for a long while after that, and was eventually happy to have 2 mothers that did care for him.
I hope this OP did tell them both. Keeping up lies is exhausting too, not worth it in the long run.