Trying out this new way for everyone to check in on one thread as discussed in weekly randoms a week or two ago since we are a smaller BMB. Hope this helps everyone get to know all the BMB participants!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: FTM/STM/STM+: Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Upcoming appointments: How are you feeling?: Rants/Raves: Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
Edit because I mis-typed the date
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Me: 36, DH: 38, Together since: 2006, Married: 9/2011 **TW Living Child**
Upcoming appointments: 11/30 for a dating confirmation...had one on 11/17 but didn’t have an LMP so I have to go back in
How are you feeling?: overall pretty good compared to last time! I’m exhausted and get queasy if I don’t have something in my stomach. I’ve felt so much better now that I’m a SAHM. I was so miserable on my hour commute last time, vomiting into a cup on the 405.
Rants/Raves: I’m so excited that it’s a short work week!! I love spending time with the 3 of us. I’m also excited about deals this weekend 😍
Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
I’m the table setter lol. I help odds and ends in cooking and cleaning but I shine in plating and decor
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 12+2 FTM/STM/STM+: this is #4 😬 Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out, should get NIPT results soon! Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: toy soldier Upcoming appointments: 11/30 How are you feeling?: starting to feel much better! Now I only get nauseous if I wait to long to eat Rants/Raves: I suck at keeping up with you guys here. There’s just not enough time with three kids and a full time job! I’m trying though! Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Usually the happy participant but my mom has chronic fatigue syndrome and hasnt been feeling well the past few days so we(mostly my husband) will be doing most of the thanksgiving cooking this year.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/25 FTM/STM/STM+: #4😬 Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: team green. Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: I’m horrible, I don’t even know 😂 Upcoming appointments: December 13 maybe? How are you feeling?: nauseous and tired all of the time Rants/Raves: I am so over being sick and tired and I’m ready for some relief in second tri! Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? I am the cook. We will see about this year though. My husband might have to step in for the meal we are making for just us. We don’t plan to go anywhere for the holiday.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 13 / 12 +1 FTM/STM/STM+: FTM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out! Trying to figure out a way to find out altogether with family so we can all be surprised at the same time. Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: plum Upcoming appointments: 12/22 dr apptment How are you feeling?: A bit more queasy than usual. Rants/Raves: I'm hungry, yet I don't know what I want to eat. We're back at the "everything looks unappetizing and gross" phase. Questions: none at the moment GTKY: I prefer to let the pros do the cooking, so I'm happy to clean up! Plus that lets me eye all the leftovers and see which ones I wanna take home haha
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 30, 8+6 FTM/STM/STM+: STM+ Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a piece of popcorn Upcoming appointments: December 15th How are you feeling?: So-so. Still have no energy, but I’m starting to think things are on the upswing. Rants/Raves: I’m so excited to eat everything on Thursday! Questions: Anyone else dealing with low iron? GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? I'm all of the above. I cook a few things and take them to my parents’ house, and help clean up as well after we eat.
TTC #1 Since April 2014
Me: 27 | DH: 31
08/2006 - Laparoscopy/Stage 1 Endo
10/2014 - Bloodwork normal, HSG all clear
10/2014 - DH's SA 15mil/mL, 35% motility, 6% morphology
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 14th, 11+1 FTM/STM/STM+: FTM - 3rd pregnancy Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Team finding out. Im waiting for my NIPT results back. Should be back soon. Can't wait to know! Im nervous waiting. I hope all is normal and ok. FX. Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: As Tall as a lego man lol Upcoming appointments: Dec 21st I have my 15th week ultrasound to check my cervical length. How are you feeling?: I've been feeling really good lately actually. I feel more like myself and somedays I actually don't even feel pregnant at all lol Rants/Raves: Been trying my home doppler every couple weeks and I still can't find the baby's HB, which gives me anxiety and makes me worry. Maybe I just suck at doing it 🤷 I hope all is ok in there. Questions: None for now. GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Im just a happy participant lol yay!! We always go to DH's parents house for the holidays and big meals with the family so I just get to show up and eat food lol. I do help with the side dishes and cleanup too.
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out, I had the panorama drawn yesterday so hopefully I will know by next week
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Prune
Upcoming appointments: OB appointment next Wednesday
How are you feeling?: So much nausea and so tired
Rants/Raves: I got to see the baby during an impromptu u/s yesterday. It was not exactly how I wanted to spend my day but it was nice to see the baby moving around.
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Usually a happy participant with some clean-up help. This year though we aren’t going anywhere or doing anything for thanksgiving. It will just be me, dh, and dd so we are going to cook a small thanksgiving dinner.
@mc0303 I'm glad your feeling better! That commute sounds awful.
@ramfam2507 I'm sorry your mom is not feeling well. I hope the cooking goes smoothly! You and DH can do it!
@dogmom5 Feel better soon! I always get DH to help. Especially with things like scrubbing potatoes, cutting onion, or cooking up the sausage for the stuffing. It lets me focus on the actual assembly of the dishes. Good luck!
@wendy838 I hate the being hungry but nothing sounds good. Feel better soon! I like your leftover strategy! I cook, so I always keep the leftovers!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 1, 13 weeks FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out! Waiting on NIPT results.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a lemon
Upcoming appointments: 12/14
How are you feeling?: Today I feel really good, no unisom last night. Maybe the weekend was just a few days too early to wean off the unisom.
Rants/Raves: I took tomorrow off, so today is my last day of work! I am excited to clean the house tomorrow and get it ready for Thanksgiving. Proud of myself that I got on my spin bike today, third time in four days. I am glad I have the energy to get a work out in, even if I am keeping it more moderate than I would have pre-pregnancy. Looking forward to eating all the food on Thanksgiving!
Still don't have my NIPT test results. It's only been 8 days or 6 business days, but I was really hoping for results before the Thanksgiving holiday! We haven't told DS yet (6 y/o) because we have waiting to know everything is ok. He will be so excited and is a really sweet kid, but he would be devastated if we told him about a baby and then something was wrong. So we are waiting, but I just can't wait to tell him. Plus he has noticed my belly. The little stinker told me the other day, "mommy don't eat those chips it will make your belly bigger" I didn't take it personally, but it will be nice to tell him mommy isn't just getting big!
Questions: NATM
GTKY: I am the cook, but my mom will be with us, she taught me how to make Thanksgiving dinner, so I have a feeling she'll be in the kitchen with me.
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Me: 36, DH: 38, Together since: 2006, Married: 9/2011 **TW Living Child**
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: apricot
Upcoming appointments: 12/4
How are you feeling?: I did have some energy come back and I'm not as groggy in the morning. Still have terrible time with afternoon stomach issues and not eating.
Rants/Raves: I'm just not feeling anything here.
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? DH and I like to cook together, so we work together for this meal. Although this year we don't expect much and are really limiting sides. As in mashed potatoes and green beans - that's it.
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: It's another boy.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Lime
Upcoming appointments: Just had one last Thursday so my next one is one week from Christmas.
How are you feeling?: Doing well minus being a bit tired in the afternoon.
Rants/Raves: I've been enjoying the holiday sales online.
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?: With DH's family, I'm a happy participant but we're not seeing them for Thanksgiving (and probably not Christmas either) 🙌. At my parents', I help with the dishes. We're having my parents over this year (they're in our small bubble) and my mom and DH will be cooking together.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/5 12+3 FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Girl Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Macaron Upcoming appointments: Dec 8th checkup How are you feeling?: Pretty Good Rants/Raves: 🤞🏻a job offer should be coming in soon Questions: NATM GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? All of the above
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: almost an espresso cup lol
Upcoming appointments: 12/15 for regular appt, no US
How are you feeling?: better and better each day. Still really tired in the evenings and nausea when I don’t eat on time. I actually feel bad saying this when others are still suffering. I’m hoping everyone feels better soon.
Rants/Raves: I felt so much better this morning, went to Starbucks and deep cleaned the WHOLE house today. It was super satisfying!!
Questions: none right now
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
I used to go to my moms and just help with clean up but the past 3 years we’ve done thanksgiving the Friday after (since I usually work the day of) and I host my own thanksgiving. I make the usual stuff and my sister helps. My husband smokes a second turkey and we eat that too. So yummy. My stomach is starting to growl thinking about it!
@doubleup08 omg!! Lol I can’t believe he told you that!! 🤣
@DoubleUp8 good job on getting on the spin bike! I have a Nordictrack bike and I haven’t had the energy to get on it the last few days. I need your motivation lol
@mindyb2019 I'm sorry you are stressed and still waiting for results. I logged into the Natera site to see if it works day the results has been sent to my doctor, and it has my results there with or without fetal sex.
@MelissaMay82 glad you got to see baby moving around for you.
@tilournextadventure glad you are getting some energy back! What a great feeling!
@dogmom5 it helps that I'm getting some energy back and I'm not feeling as sick. Yay for the placenta!
So no call from my doctors office but when I logged into the Natera site from the test kit I got at the doctor's office. It has my results listed right there low risk, then a link to the full report. I was even able to send the fetal sex to a friend so she could make a little cake for us. They took blood on 11/16 and sent the results on 11/21, no clue why I haven't been called, but I'm really glad to know baby is happy and healthy.
DS was so excited he jumped up and did a little dance. I love him so much!
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Me: 36, DH: 38, Together since: 2006, Married: 9/2011 **TW Living Child**
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 11+2 FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out! Though it’ll have to wait until the anatomy scan on 1/25
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: lime
Upcoming appointments: 15 week check up on 12/18. The anatomy scan on 1/25 is also the first time I meet with MFM to go over past risks/ future check ups. So I’m also starting with a therapist on 1/21 since the “wait around and hope for the best” is not my thing.
How are you feeling?: pretty good! I feel exhausted, but otherwise like a chubby, crabby version of myself Rants/Raves: making dinner I really wanted the little Laughing Cow cheeses - but all the stores are too crazy right before Thanksgiving! It’s cruel, I don’t even like that cheese normally.
Questions: for others waiting a month in between check-ins - how is everyone planning to pass the time between appointments?
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? The last couple years I have been the baby/toddler wrangler. Though before that I was the designated wine pourer/ deviled egg pusher.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/11 FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding Out, we were going to try to do a reveal at Thanksgiving but sounds like we won’t have our NIPT results yet. Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: lime Upcoming appointments: 11/30 How are you feeling?: As long as I keep taking the zofran I am okay. Just really tired from the Diclegis I think. Rants/Raves: I ran out of prometrium yesterday. Called my OB 2x yesterday to get a refill for today, all I got was a 10 min voicemail lecture about why I should continue until 12 weeks. H called again today asking for OB to call us back, no call. And they said not to expect results from NIPT until 2 weeks after draw. So I guess the Thanksgiving reveal is canceled. Questions: NATM GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? This year I am doing a few sides and will help clean up, but I love to host it and cook everything and have a big gathering if we aren’t with family. I miss having friends over!
@ramzlau im sorry your Thanksgiving reveal got canceled cause you won't have your NIPT for 2 weeks. Boo!! That stinks In that case i might actually have my results back before you even though you went got your blood draw sooner then me. fX for both of us that its all good. Sorry the OB isn't calling you back. I hate that.
@mindyb2019 Ehh it’s disappointing about the reveal but since it’s our second I am not that bummed, but my anxiety about everything being okay is getting harder each day. I just want to hear low risk (family history) so we can get this milestone behind us. I know you relate there. I hope you get your results soon!
@ramzlau I would be so annoyed!! I’m sorry about your OB dropping the ball on your Rx and then being annoying about it. Hope the NIPT results come back ASAP!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 11th, 11 weeks 4 days
FTM/STM/STM+: STM! Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: the length of a bobby pin
Upcoming appointments: Ultrasound next week! Meeting with my high risk OB and my regular OB. Back to back to back on Monday
How are you feeling?: I'm so freaking sick but I'm grateful
Rants/Raves: I just went shopping for our announcement photoshoot outfits and I'm so exited!!
Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? So I usually have a few thanksgivings, at my Aunt's with all my huge family I usually bring a pie. But then we do one with my immediate family and I cook EVERYTHING
I like seeing everyone’s posts, but it’s hard to keep up on mobile sometimes! 🤞for everyone waiting on NIPT results and job offers 😊
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/4, 12+4 FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: green, though the sex is sitting in my inbox (NIPT results) so we’ll see if I can resist temptation. With my first they just didn’t include the sex in the results. Wasn’t an option this time. Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a plum Upcoming appointments: NT scan 11/30 How are you feeling?: I was feeling better, but then today was rough. Ugh. Rants: Was supposed to have childcare Monday, but she called out 20 min before she was supposed to start. Sigh. It was a hard day to juggle work and a 2 year old since it was such short notice. Today was better since I knew it was coming. Probably taking tomorrow off, though. Raves: NIPT results came back and all looks good! Questions: NATM GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? DH and I usually host and split cooking/cleanup pretty evenly. I handle baked goods and dishwasher, he does turkey, cooked items, and hand washing. It’ll just be 4 of us this year, though, so we’re scaling way back on how much we cook. I still anticipate a lot of leftovers.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 20 FTM/STM/STM+: #3 Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out (as much as I wanted to be team green this time) Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: strawberry Upcoming appointments: 12/8 How are you feeling?: hit or miss the all day nausea is less intense Rants/Raves: our garage fridge had an infestation (gross) so we decided to splurge and buy our dream fridge (Black Friday deals) for the kitchen and move the kitchen fridge to the garage. Well it was delivered today (yay!) but our dryer died. 😭 decided to upgrade that as well then since our laundry room is too small so went for the stackable unit (also Black Friday sale). But that was quite a chunk of change we were not expecting to be spending now.... on top of that, our cats decided to use our son’s room as a litter box (super gross, but one got locked in once and therefore attracted it I guess) so we ripped up the carpet in there. So home project after home project this week 😭 Questions: natm GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Usually the cook. This year we’re finishing the above said home projects that fell on our lap this week 🥴
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/2 13 weeks today FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out, but I’m holding out as long as my H will let me Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: daisy Upcoming appointments: 12/9 How are you feeling?: Still pretty rough. I do get decent days scattered in there, but still getting sick at least once a day and nonstop nausea most days even with zofran Rants/Raves: answering the last question made me sad thinking I haven’t spent a single holiday with my family in at least three years maybe four. We live across the country from them and it didn’t make sense the first year DD was born to go because she was only two months old at Christmas and then last year DH and I had both just started new jobs. We had originally talked about going this year for Thanksgiving but then COVID. I miss my big family gatherings. DH is an only child so holidays are much smaller with them. Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? A mix of them all. With my ILs I just go eat, with my friends I usually bring a dish or two and help clean, if I am with my family I help my mom cook and I help cleanup.
@DoubleUp8 yay for happy and healthy baby! When is your friend going to bake the cake for you?
@ramzlau I’m sorry your thanksgiving reveal is canceled, hopefully your NIPT results come back ASAP. And super annoying that your ob isn’t calling you back
@halfanewt yay for good NIPT results. There is no way I could have the sex sitting in my inbox and not look 😆
@angelz429 It’s nice you got new appliances but too bad you had to buy both at the same time. DH and I are about to start several home improvement projects and it is overwhelming for me to think about
@klj0228 that must be so hard. Hopefully you will get to celebrate with them next year
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 6 / 12w 3d FTM/STM/STM+: STM+ (this will be baby #4) Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: pink! My first baby girl after three boys 😁 Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: baby is the size of a hacky sack Upcoming appointments: Monday November 30th for just a quick checkup How are you feeling?: pretty good! I tested positive for Covid a couple weeks ago. I likely wouldn’t have even gotten tested if it weren’t for my loss of smell and taste. Luckily those are coming back, but all the sudden I’m having really bad headaches. The pregnancy app tells me that’s normal for this time but I’m wondering if it’s a combo of the covid and pregnancy making my head feel so terrible! Rants/Raves: we are telling the rest of our family tomorrow on a thanksgiving zoom call. I’m nervous because I know everyone is going to be shocked that we are having a 4th child in our 40s. 😬 other than that, we got our NIPT results last week and they came back negative/low risk! So that is one stress off my shoulders for now - now I just need to make it to the anatomy scan! Questions: natm GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? If at my in-laws, I’m mostly just a happy participant but I bring a couple dishes I cooked ahead. At home, I’m always the cook!
Me: 41 DH: 42 💙 DS1- 12/2011 CP - March 2014 MMC - Sept 2014 💙DS2 - 10/2015 💙DS3 - 5/2017 💖DD due June 6, 2021
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/29, 9+1 (edited bc I thought today was Thursday- whoops)
FTM/STM/STM+: STM+
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a cherry
Upcoming appointments: today!! Intake at my ob finally.
How are you feeling?: ugh haha. Still so naseous all the time, and exhausted. Woke up with a headache today which is not a typical pregnancy symptom for me so I am trying to deal with that!
Rants/Raves: just feeling a bit down today about tomorrow. We are spending Thanksgiving on our own and I'm just really missing family. My rave is that I've gotten the hang of the lovenox injections I'm giving myself and they're not so bad!
Questions: why is first trimester so long lol
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Usually we do Thanksgiving with 25+ people at my in-laws, and I am usually a happy participant/ occasional cleaner/ most recently kid wrangler (love that @llamamamawearspajamapants). There are usually 10 kids there, so it's a lot of fun for my kids. We are attempting to cook this year- we're celebrating just the 4 of us. DH is going to smoke the turkey and I'll cook most the sides. I started baking on Monday so we're feeling ready!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 2 (or May 31 on ultrasound) 13 weeks today FTM/STM/STM+: STM+ baby 3 Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: team green this time! Have a DS and DD currently Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: jalapeño (which I love and should enjoy now before the heartburn gets too bad) Upcoming appointments: dec 8 with my PCP. Nothing exciting until my anatomy scan in jan. How are you feeling?: I posted in the symptoms thread yesterday, it was a terrible day. Otherwise I was feeling pretty good the last couple weeks. Rants/Raves: our house is almost ready to show!! We’re going to get photos done and get it listed hopefully by the end of the weekend so we can get our Christmas decorations up next week. Questions: none GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? DH is the cook so I guess I’m the host but I really don’t do much. I assist with a couple of the food items he doesn’t touch and I usually serve dessert 😂
Yay for everyone with great NIPT results! I hope everyone who is waiting gets theirs back soon!
@mamakate2011 I woke up with a headache today too! Hopefully yours is pregnancy related. Glad you are feeling better and getting your sense of taste back! And yay for good NIPT results! Good luck telling family!! @wendy838 yes to food looking gross! And the smell 🤢 @DoubleUp8 😂 lol at DS! Yay that everything came back low risk and he's so excited! Does he have a preference for a brother or sister? @llamamamawearspajamapants love that you were the deviled egg pusher! I have no idea how I'll start making it through the month-long waits. I just did 2 weeks and feel like it was long. I had a ton of other drs appts so feel like I was in a medical office every other day so that helped the time go fast. This stretch until movement can be felt is rough. @ramzlau ugh that is all so frustrating. Did you end up getting the refill? Maybe try having the pharmacy call your Dr directly, they might get a different reaction. Fx you get the results today. @halfanewt hope yesterday went well and you took today off! @angelz429 oh no! Not going to lie though, a bit jealous of all your new appliances! Good luck getting everything set this weekend!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: June 29th, so 9+1. FTM/STM/STM+: FTM, but 3rd pregnancy Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out, probably with the NIPT Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a cherry Upcoming appointments: Dec 4th for checkup and bloodwork, then Dec 15th for the NT scan with the MFM How are you feeling?: Good, mostly. Not quite as tired or queasy, just getting nervous about my next appointments Rants/Raves: Just raves -- Off from work all week for the holiday, parents are also visiting Questions: none GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Mostly clean-up since we usually go elsewhere, but I always help out with cooking (usually dessert and a few sides). This year my parents came here so it'll be 50/50, since I'll probably cook about half of the meal and they'll help with the rest. My mom hates to cook, so when they visit she's often eager to do the dishes, so maybe it'll be more on the "cooking" side for me
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/6, 12+3 FTM/STM/STM+: FTM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Green, but not my choice! So far everyone we've told thinks we should find out so I'm hoping he caves! Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a lime Upcoming appointments: 12/3 for a limited anatomy u/s and check-up with my OB How are you feeling?: pretty good. I get tired and feel a little sick off and on, but nothing to complain about! Rants/Raves: Rant, I guess. I'm just feeling super overwhelmed right now. I feel like there's so much to plan and at the same time as a FTM I have no real clue what I really should be doing! I know that realistically there isn't much I need to be doing at 12 weeks, but I'm a type A and it feels like I should be doing something. Questions: natm GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? we usually switch around hosting so whoever hosts cooks. Covid cases are really up in our area right now so we're not seeing any family this year and instead of cooking we're getting a takeout turkey dinner from a local restaurant to support them (they just shut down all our restaurants for sit down dining again about a week ago, feel so bad for all those people being impacted and right before the holidays especially).
Good luck to everyone waiting for NIPT and congrats to all who have gotten their good results back!
Sorry so many ladies are still so sick, hope it passes for you all soon.
@hollyk224 I had anemia with my second pregnancy. I took (still take) MegaFoods Blood Builder. I have no side effects and it improved my numbers.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: I’m confused about this. I think I’m in week 11. FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: undecided on whether we are team green or finding out Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Upcoming appointments: if it is 11 weeks it’s the size of a fig How are you feeling?: Exhausted and slightly nauseous. My nausea had been better during the day and unbearable at night. I threw up last night. I’ve been taking unisom and going to sleep at 8:30 just to knock myself out of experiencing the sickness. I’m completely over this. I’ve been sick for 5 weeks straight. I am done. Rants/Raves: I’m sick of being sick. Questions: Spotting is normal. Right? GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? I would like to be a happy participant. I love cooking. Instead I’m sick and exhausted and mopey.
I'm so behind on this thread and just read through the whole thing.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/26 - 9+4 FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding Out Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: tater tot - yum Upcoming appointments: First appt with my OB on 12/1. I'll have my blood draw for NIPT then too. How are you feeling?: Fine. A little better all in all but I've been a bit constipated so my hemorrhoids are back and it's painful. Rants/Raves: Tomorrow is my very last PIO shot! All meds stop after Saturday. I've been on IVF meds for over a year and I. Am. Over it! Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? I don't cook but I help where I can. This year I get a pass on all the heavy lifting.
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
We got our NIPT results today! Nurse called this morning and said that they hadn’t been getting my after hours messages but I should call during business hours. I explained we had called 4x during business hours and the responses I got, she was appalled. Apologized and had the doctor call me immediately with the results. It’s so weird. But baby tested low risk/normal for all genetic tests! Yay!
Whoaaaa so much to read through! I’ll come back for tags later.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 8.5 weeks FTM/STM/STM+: STM Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Green Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: some type of berry? Lol Upcoming appointments: 12/8! How are you feeling?: much less nauseous this week but still have solid food aversions. Rants/Raves: Why isn’t it more acceptable to nap in the day? Questions: GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? The cook. Always the cook!
@laurad75 yay for no more PIO shots! a year on IVF meds?! dang, and I've been over her complaining about 6 months on them. Congrats on moving on to the next phase!
@ramzlau yay!!! For good NIPT results. So happy all was low risk for you and baby is great. Im still waiting for mine. It will be a week tomorrow I had it done. The longer I wait the more my anxiety goes up. 😬 I dont know how many more days I can wait.
Re: All Due Date Check-In w/o 11/24
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of:
Upcoming appointments: 11/30 for a dating confirmation...had one on 11/17 but didn’t have an LMP so I have to go back in
How are you feeling?: overall pretty good compared to last time! I’m exhausted and get queasy if I don’t have something in my stomach. I’ve felt so much better now that I’m a SAHM. I was so miserable on my hour commute last time, vomiting into a cup on the 405.
Rants/Raves: I’m so excited that it’s a short work week!! I love spending time with the 3 of us. I’m also excited about deals this weekend 😍
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
I’m the table setter lol. I help odds and ends in cooking and cleaning but I shine in plating and decor
FTM/STM/STM+: this is #4 😬
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out, should get NIPT results soon!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: toy soldier
Upcoming appointments: 11/30
How are you feeling?: starting to feel much better! Now I only get nauseous if I wait to long to eat
Rants/Raves: I suck at keeping up with you guys here. There’s just not enough time with three kids and a full time job! I’m trying though!
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Usually the happy participant but my mom has chronic fatigue syndrome and hasnt been feeling well the past few days so we(mostly my husband) will be doing most of the thanksgiving cooking this year.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/25
FTM/STM/STM+: #4😬
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: team green.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: I’m horrible, I don’t even know 😂
Upcoming appointments: December 13 maybe?
How are you feeling?: nauseous and tired all of the time
Rants/Raves: I am so over being sick and tired and I’m ready for some relief in second tri!
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? I am the cook. We will see about this year though. My husband might have to step in for the meal we are making for just us. We don’t plan to go anywhere for the holiday.
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out! Trying to figure out a way to find out altogether with family so we can all be surprised at the same time.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: plum
Upcoming appointments: 12/22 dr apptment
How are you feeling?: A bit more queasy than usual.
Rants/Raves: I'm hungry, yet I don't know what I want to eat. We're back at the "everything looks unappetizing and gross" phase.
Questions: none at the moment
GTKY: I prefer to let the pros do the cooking, so I'm happy to clean up! Plus that lets me eye all the leftovers and see which ones I wanna take home haha
FTM/STM/STM+: STM+
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a piece of popcorn
Upcoming appointments: December 15th
How are you feeling?: So-so. Still have no energy, but I’m starting to think things are on the upswing.
Rants/Raves: I’m so excited to eat everything on Thursday!
Questions: Anyone else dealing with low iron?
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
I'm all of the above. I cook a few things and take them to my parents’ house, and help clean up as well after we eat.
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM - 3rd pregnancy
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Team finding out. Im waiting for my NIPT results back. Should be back soon. Can't wait to know! Im nervous waiting. I hope all is normal and ok. FX.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: As Tall as a lego man lol
Upcoming appointments: Dec 21st I have my 15th week ultrasound to check my cervical length.
How are you feeling?: I've been feeling really good lately actually. I feel more like myself and somedays I actually don't even feel pregnant at all lol
Rants/Raves: Been trying my home doppler every couple weeks and I still can't find the baby's HB, which gives me anxiety and makes me worry. Maybe I just suck at doing it 🤷 I hope all is ok in there.
Questions: None for now.
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Im just a happy participant lol yay!! We always go to DH's parents house for the holidays and big meals with the family so I just get to show up and eat food lol. I do help with the side dishes and cleanup too.
6/21 10+1
FTM/STM/STM+:
STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out:
Finding out, I had the panorama drawn yesterday so hopefully I will know by next week
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of:
Prune
Upcoming appointments:
OB appointment next Wednesday
How are you feeling?:
So much nausea and so tired
Rants/Raves:
I got to see the baby during an impromptu u/s yesterday. It was not exactly how I wanted to spend my day but it was nice to see the baby moving around.
Questions:
NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
Usually a happy participant with some clean-up help. This year though we aren’t going anywhere or doing anything for thanksgiving. It will just be me, dh, and dd so we are going to cook a small thanksgiving dinner.
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
@ramfam2507 I'm sorry your mom is not feeling well. I hope the cooking goes smoothly! You and DH can do it!
@dogmom5 Feel better soon! I always get DH to help. Especially with things like scrubbing potatoes, cutting onion, or cooking up the sausage for the stuffing. It lets me focus on the actual assembly of the dishes. Good luck!
@wendy838 I hate the being hungry but nothing sounds good. Feel better soon! I like your leftover strategy! I cook, so I always keep the leftovers!
@hollyk224 Enjoy eating all the things!
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Still don't have my NIPT test results. It's only been 8 days or 6 business days, but I was really hoping for results before the Thanksgiving holiday! We haven't told DS yet (6 y/o) because we have waiting to know everything is ok. He will be so excited and is a really sweet kid, but he would be devastated if we told him about a baby and then something was wrong. So we are waiting, but I just can't wait to tell him. Plus he has noticed my belly. The little stinker told me the other day, "mommy don't eat those chips it will make your belly bigger" I didn't take it personally, but it will be nice to tell him mommy isn't just getting big!
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
DH and I like to cook together, so we work together for this meal. Although this year we don't expect much and are really limiting sides. As in mashed potatoes and green beans - that's it.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: It's another boy.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Lime
Upcoming appointments: Just had one last Thursday so my next one is one week from Christmas.
How are you feeling?: Doing well minus being a bit tired in the afternoon.
Rants/Raves: I've been enjoying the holiday sales online.
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?: With DH's family, I'm a happy participant but we're not seeing them for Thanksgiving (and probably not Christmas either) 🙌. At my parents', I help with the dishes. We're having my parents over this year (they're in our small bubble) and my mom and DH will be cooking together.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Girl
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Macaron
Upcoming appointments: Dec 8th checkup
How are you feeling?: Pretty Good
Rants/Raves: 🤞🏻a job offer should be coming in soon
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? All of the above
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: it’s a boy!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: almost an espresso cup lol
Upcoming appointments: 12/15 for regular appt, no US
How are you feeling?: better and better each day. Still really tired in the evenings and nausea when I don’t eat on time. I actually feel bad saying this when others are still suffering. I’m hoping everyone feels better soon.
Rants/Raves: I felt so much better this morning, went to Starbucks and deep cleaned the WHOLE house today. It was super satisfying!!
Questions: none right now
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
I used to go to my moms and just help with clean up but the past 3 years we’ve done thanksgiving the Friday after (since I usually work the day of) and I host my own thanksgiving. I make the usual stuff and my sister helps. My husband smokes a second turkey and we eat that too. So yummy. My stomach is starting to growl thinking about it!
@doubleup08 omg!! Lol I can’t believe he told you that!! 🤣
@mrsrundmc good luck with the job!!
@mrsrundmc good luck with the job!
@MelissaMay82 glad you got to see baby moving around for you.
@tilournextadventure glad you are getting some energy back! What a great feeling!
@rvamom90 I love a little retail therapy!
@mrsrundmc fingers crossed for the job offer!! 🤞
@sgrn18 nothing better than a clean house! Enjoy!
@dogmom5 it helps that I'm getting some energy back and I'm not feeling as sick. Yay for the placenta!
So no call from my doctors office but when I logged into the Natera site from the test kit I got at the doctor's office. It has my results listed right there low risk, then a link to the full report. I was even able to send the fetal sex to a friend so she could make a little cake for us. They took blood on 11/16 and sent the results on 11/21, no clue why I haven't been called, but I'm really glad to know baby is happy and healthy.
DS was so excited he jumped up and did a little dance. I love him so much!
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out! Though it’ll have to wait until the anatomy scan on 1/25
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: lime
Upcoming appointments: 15 week check up on 12/18. The anatomy scan on 1/25 is also the first time I meet with MFM to go over past risks/ future check ups. So I’m also starting with a therapist on 1/21 since the “wait around and hope for the best” is not my thing.
How are you feeling?: pretty good! I feel exhausted, but otherwise like a chubby, crabby version of myself
Rants/Raves: making dinner I really wanted the little Laughing Cow cheeses - but all the stores are too crazy right before Thanksgiving! It’s cruel, I don’t even like that cheese normally.
Questions: for others waiting a month in between check-ins - how is everyone planning to pass the time between appointments?
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? The last couple years I have been the baby/toddler wrangler. Though before that I was the designated wine pourer/ deviled egg pusher.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding Out, we were going to try to do a reveal at Thanksgiving but sounds like we won’t have our NIPT results yet.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: lime
Upcoming appointments: 11/30
How are you feeling?: As long as I keep taking the zofran I am okay. Just really tired from the Diclegis I think.
Rants/Raves: I ran out of prometrium yesterday. Called my OB 2x yesterday to get a refill for today, all I got was a 10 min voicemail lecture about why I should continue until 12 weeks. H called again today asking for OB to call us back, no call. And they said not to expect results from NIPT until 2 weeks after draw. So I guess the Thanksgiving reveal is canceled.
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? This year I am doing a few sides and will help clean up, but I love to host it and cook everything and have a big gathering if we aren’t with family. I miss having friends over!
FTM/STM/STM+: STM!
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out:
Finding out!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: the length of a bobby pin
Upcoming appointments:
Ultrasound next week! Meeting with my high risk OB and my regular OB. Back to back to back on Monday
How are you feeling?:
I'm so freaking sick but I'm grateful
Rants/Raves:
I just went shopping for our announcement photoshoot outfits and I'm so exited!!
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
So I usually have a few thanksgivings, at my Aunt's with all my huge family I usually bring a pie.
But then we do one with my immediate family and I cook EVERYTHING
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/4, 12+4
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: green, though the sex is sitting in my inbox (NIPT results) so we’ll see if I can resist temptation. With my first they just didn’t include the sex in the results. Wasn’t an option this time.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a plum
Upcoming appointments: NT scan 11/30
How are you feeling?: I was feeling better, but then today was rough. Ugh.
Rants: Was supposed to have childcare Monday, but she called out 20 min before she was supposed to start. Sigh. It was a hard day to juggle work and a 2 year old since it was such short notice. Today was better since I knew it was coming. Probably taking tomorrow off, though.
Raves: NIPT results came back and all looks good!
Questions: NATM
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? DH and I usually host and split cooking/cleanup pretty evenly. I handle baked goods and dishwasher, he does turkey, cooked items, and hand washing. It’ll just be 4 of us this year, though, so we’re scaling way back on how much we cook. I still anticipate a lot of leftovers.
FTM/STM/STM+: #3
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out (as much as I wanted to be team green this time)
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: strawberry
Upcoming appointments: 12/8
How are you feeling?: hit or miss the all day nausea is less intense
Rants/Raves: our garage fridge had an infestation (gross) so we decided to splurge and buy our dream fridge (Black Friday deals) for the kitchen and move the kitchen fridge to the garage. Well it was delivered today (yay!) but our dryer died. 😭 decided to upgrade that as well then since our laundry room is too small so went for the stackable unit (also Black Friday sale). But that was quite a chunk of change we were not expecting to be spending now.... on top of that, our cats decided to use our son’s room as a litter box (super gross, but one got locked in once and therefore attracted it I guess) so we ripped up the carpet in there. So home project after home project this week 😭
Questions: natm
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Usually the cook. This year we’re finishing the above said home projects that fell on our lap this week 🥴
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: finding out, but I’m holding out as long as my H will let me
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: daisy
Upcoming appointments: 12/9
How are you feeling?: Still pretty rough. I do get decent days scattered in there, but still getting sick at least once a day and nonstop nausea most days even with zofran
Rants/Raves: answering the last question made me sad thinking I haven’t spent a single holiday with my family in at least three years maybe four. We live across the country from them and it didn’t make sense the first year DD was born to go because she was only two months old at Christmas and then last year DH and I had both just started new jobs. We had originally talked about going this year for Thanksgiving but then COVID. I miss my big family gatherings. DH is an only child so holidays are much smaller with them.
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? A mix of them all. With my ILs I just go eat, with my friends I usually bring a dish or two and help clean, if I am with my family I help my mom cook and I help cleanup.
@mindyb2019 I hope your NIPT results come back soon
@DoubleUp8 yay for happy and healthy baby! When is your friend going to bake the cake for you?
@ramzlau I’m sorry your thanksgiving reveal is canceled, hopefully your NIPT results come back ASAP. And super annoying that your ob isn’t calling you back
@halfanewt yay for good NIPT results. There is no way I could have the sex sitting in my inbox and not look 😆
@angelz429 It’s nice you got new appliances but too bad you had to buy both at the same time. DH and I are about to start several home improvement projects and it is overwhelming for me to think about
@klj0228 that must be so hard. Hopefully you will get to celebrate with them next year
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
FTM/STM/STM+: STM+ (this will be baby #4)
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: pink! My first baby girl after three boys 😁
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: baby is the size of a hacky sack
Upcoming appointments: Monday November 30th for just a quick checkup
How are you feeling?: pretty good! I tested positive for Covid a couple weeks ago. I likely wouldn’t have even gotten tested if it weren’t for my loss of smell and taste. Luckily those are coming back, but all the sudden I’m having really bad headaches. The pregnancy app tells me that’s normal for this time but I’m wondering if it’s a combo of the covid and pregnancy making my head feel so terrible!
Rants/Raves: we are telling the rest of our family tomorrow on a thanksgiving zoom call. I’m nervous because I know everyone is going to be shocked that we are having a 4th child in our 40s. 😬 other than that, we got our NIPT results last week and they came back negative/low risk! So that is one stress off my shoulders for now - now I just need to make it to the anatomy scan!
Questions: natm
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? If at my in-laws, I’m mostly just a happy participant but I bring a couple dishes I cooked ahead. At home, I’m always the cook!
💙 DS1- 12/2011
CP - March 2014
MMC - Sept 2014
💙DS2 - 10/2015
💙DS3 - 5/2017
💖DD due June 6, 2021
FTM/STM/STM+: STM+ baby 3
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: team green this time! Have a DS and DD currently
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: jalapeño (which I love and should enjoy now before the heartburn gets too bad)
Upcoming appointments: dec 8 with my PCP. Nothing exciting until my anatomy scan in jan.
How are you feeling?: I posted in the symptoms thread yesterday, it was a terrible day. Otherwise I was feeling pretty good the last couple weeks.
Rants/Raves: our house is almost ready to show!! We’re going to get photos done and get it listed hopefully by the end of the weekend so we can get our Christmas decorations up next week.
Questions: none
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? DH is the cook so I guess I’m the host but I really don’t do much. I assist with a couple of the food items he doesn’t touch and I usually serve dessert 😂
@mamakate2011 I woke up with a headache today too! Hopefully yours is pregnancy related. Glad you are feeling better and getting your sense of taste back! And yay for good NIPT results! Good luck telling family!!
@wendy838 yes to food looking gross! And the smell 🤢
@DoubleUp8 😂 lol at DS! Yay that everything came back low risk and he's so excited! Does he have a preference for a brother or sister?
@llamamamawearspajamapants love that you were the deviled egg pusher! I have no idea how I'll start making it through the month-long waits. I just did 2 weeks and feel like it was long. I had a ton of other drs appts so feel like I was in a medical office every other day so that helped the time go fast. This stretch until movement can be felt is rough.
@ramzlau ugh that is all so frustrating. Did you end up getting the refill? Maybe try having the pharmacy call your Dr directly, they might get a different reaction. Fx you get the results today.
@halfanewt hope yesterday went well and you took today off!
@angelz429 oh no! Not going to lie though, a bit jealous of all your new appliances! Good luck getting everything set this weekend!
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM, but 3rd pregnancy
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out, probably with the NIPT
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a cherry
Upcoming appointments: Dec 4th for checkup and bloodwork, then Dec 15th for the NT scan with the MFM
How are you feeling?: Good, mostly. Not quite as tired or queasy, just getting nervous about my next appointments
Rants/Raves: Just raves -- Off from work all week for the holiday, parents are also visiting
Questions: none
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? Mostly clean-up since we usually go elsewhere, but I always help out with cooking (usually dessert and a few sides). This year my parents came here so it'll be 50/50, since I'll probably cook about half of the meal and they'll help with the rest. My mom hates to cook, so when they visit she's often eager to do the dishes, so maybe it'll be more on the "cooking" side for me
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Green, but not my choice! So far everyone we've told thinks we should find out so I'm hoping he caves!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a lime
Upcoming appointments: 12/3 for a limited anatomy u/s and check-up with my OB
How are you feeling?: pretty good. I get tired and feel a little sick off and on, but nothing to complain about!
Rants/Raves: Rant, I guess. I'm just feeling super overwhelmed right now. I feel like there's so much to plan and at the same time as a FTM I have no real clue what I really should be doing! I know that realistically there isn't much I need to be doing at 12 weeks, but I'm a type A and it feels like I should be doing something.
Questions: natm
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? we usually switch around hosting so whoever hosts cooks. Covid cases are really up in our area right now so we're not seeing any family this year and instead of cooking we're getting a takeout turkey dinner from a local restaurant to support them (they just shut down all our restaurants for sit down dining again about a week ago, feel so bad for all those people being impacted and right before the holidays especially).
Good luck to everyone waiting for NIPT and congrats to all who have gotten their good results back!
Sorry so many ladies are still so sick, hope it passes for you all soon.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: undecided on whether we are team green or finding out
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of:
Upcoming appointments: if it is 11 weeks it’s the size of a fig
How are you feeling?: Exhausted and slightly nauseous. My nausea had been better during the day and unbearable at night. I threw up last night. I’ve been taking unisom and going to sleep at 8:30 just to knock myself out of experiencing the sickness. I’m completely over this. I’ve been sick for 5 weeks straight. I am done.
Rants/Raves: I’m sick of being sick.
Questions: Spotting is normal. Right?
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant?
I would like to be a happy participant. I love cooking. Instead I’m sick and exhausted and mopey.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 6/26 - 9+4
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding Out
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: tater tot - yum
Upcoming appointments: First appt with my OB on 12/1. I'll have my blood draw for NIPT then too.
How are you feeling?: Fine. A little better all in all but I've been a bit constipated so my hemorrhoids are back and it's painful.
Rants/Raves: Tomorrow is my very last PIO shot! All meds stop after Saturday. I've been on IVF meds for over a year and I. Am. Over it!
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? I don't cook but I help where I can. This year I get a pass on all the heavy lifting.
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Green
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: some type of berry? Lol
Upcoming appointments: 12/8!
How are you feeling?: much less nauseous this week but still have solid food aversions.
Rants/Raves: Why isn’t it more acceptable to nap in the day?
Questions:
GTKY: For Thanksgiving (or big holiday meals for those who do not celebrate) are you the cook, the dishwasher/clean-up, or just a happy participant? The cook. Always the cook!
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@ramzlau great news on your NIPT results, yay!