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Possibly pregnant or possible medical problem?

My last AF was the 29th of july and lasted 4 days like usual. A little context to my usual AF, I always bleed 4 days very heavily (since I began as a teenager) Bleeding through equipment by an hour. I always cramp **excrutiatingly**. (Going to the ER nearly every month for meds and IV fluids) 

I had sex earlier in the month and began testing early like an idiot. BFNs all around. 
I stopped testing and realized later I was 8 days late. Still didnt test. The next day I start spotting very lightly. I. Dont. Spot.
I though it was weird but left it be. I realized within an hour it stopped.
And then it began 😅 and stopped and started etc. For 7 days. It has FINALLY stopped but it was the **weirdest** period in my life. I spotted the whole time. Color varying at different times. But it didnt come out? It wasnt only when I wiped or put a tampon in that I noticed small amounts of blood.
I didnt cramp once. Not once. I felt okay all around except for the Occasional nausea. But that is it. My SO asked me to test the second day of spotting as even he knows that it was strange for me to not be stuck in bed. It had a ***VVVFL*** barely noticeable. Havent tested since
What in gods name could this be. A chemical? Miscarriage? Im not bleeding anymore but I'm still concerned on if I am even pregnant or I'm having my first screwy cycle?

Advice highly appreciated! Though I would prefer negative comments be kept to constructive criticism as I am stressed enough as it is 😅

Re: Possibly pregnant or possible medical problem?

  • edited September 2020
    @knottiec54b765589545b7d this really isn’t the right place to ask this kind of question for a couple of reasons:

    1) There are a few things that you mentioned it your post that warrant a discussion with a your OB / medical professional ASAP. While collectively this community has a lot of personal experience, personal experience is all that is. 

    2) We discourage one-of posts in this community; instead we encourage new members to join and actively participate in the daily and other threads, in the context of which, questions such as these can be asked. Having some background / knowledge of you and your TTC journey would make it possible for us to opine on your situation, but without it, there’s not much we can do. 

    If you want to get started, just introduce ourself in the Newbie Intro threads and also lurk around to see how things work / where you might best fit in (we have TTCAL thread for anyone dealing with losses; IF thread for infertility; and TFAS thread for anyone trying for a sibling.)

    I do hope you can get in to see/speak to your OB soon. And hopefully see you around here!

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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    <div class="QuoteAuthor"><a href="/profile/knottiec54b765589545b7d" class="js-userCard" data-userid="11695603">knottiec54b765589545b7d</a> said:</div>
    <div class="QuoteText">My last AF was the 29th of july and lasted 4 days like usual. A little context to my usual AF, I always bleed 4 days very heavily (since I began as a teenager) Bleeding through equipment by an hour. I always cramp **excrutiatingly**. (Going to the ER nearly every month for meds and IV fluids) 

    I had sex earlier in the month and began testing early like an idiot. BFNs all around. 
    I stopped testing and realized later I was 8 days late. Still didnt test. The next day I start spotting very lightly. I. Dont. Spot.
    I though it was weird but left it be. I realized within an hour it stopped.
    And then it began 😅 and stopped and started etc. For 7 days. It has FINALLY stopped but it was the **weirdest** period in my life. I spotted the whole time. Color varying at different times. But it didnt come out? It wasnt only when I wiped or put a tampon in that I noticed small amounts of blood.
    I didnt cramp once. Not once. I felt okay all around except for the Occasional nausea. But that is it. My SO asked me to test the second day of spotting as even he knows that it was strange for me to not be stuck in bed. It had a ***VVVFL*** barely noticeable. Havent tested since
    What in gods name could this be. A chemical? Miscarriage? Im not bleeding anymore but I'm still concerned on if I am even pregnant or I'm having my first screwy cycle?

    Advice highly appreciated! Though I would prefer negative comments be kept to constructive criticism as I am stressed enough as it is 😅</div>
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    QFP

    Sorry punkin, you won't be able to control how people respond to your post. 🤷

    I do think your heavy, painful periods sound concerning and I would talk to a medical care provider about that.  As to the rest... ???  You may or may not be pregnant.  You may or may not be experiencing a loss.  Time will tell.  Test again in a few days and/or call your doctor.

    GL, and if you are pregnant, no need to alert the TTGP board.  Feel free to move onto your BMB with everyone's best wishes...
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