So many hugs mama. Sending positives thoughts, and really hoping she stabilizes. โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
Me: 29, DH: 29 TTC since: 2/13 Long, anovulatory cycles Began fertility testing 12/13 Ultrasound and bloodwork: Everything looks good (according to my ob/gyn) HSG: waiting to schedule SA: scheduled with RE for 1/6/14
We are still in LA. No changes.ย She is holding on but barely.ย We are limiting the life saving measures if/ when she goes downhill. Going to see her again now.ย
Current pregnancy - First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Four prior losses, no living children - 1 first trimester miscarriage, 1 blighted ovum, 1 chemical, and one extreme premature live birth daughter who died at 15 days old.
Iโve been following your situation for a while now. The deeper you go, the more unbelievably fabricated it feels. To willingly share some specific details, such as the exact hospital you are at, baby is at, etc, is actually insane and feels like a major cry for attention. I hopeย you get the help you need, as well as your baby (if this is real). Iโve made some really great friends on the bump and shared so much of my life, that is devastates me to think of all the people that are invested in your story, that you might not be completely honest with.
Also astonished at the number of people here who are completely wrapped up in a story that just doesnโt add up.
@baseballismyfavoriteseason yes. I stand by what I said. I think itโs actually insane to tell internet strangers exactly what hospital your child is at, etc. **Maybe Iโm wrong and every single part of this story is true. But to blindly believe all of it, is ignorant. Whatever the truth here, to me this is a giant cry for attention.
@rachstar18@blaf322 Seriously, how shitty can you be to come and accuse someone going through a huge tramatic event of something like that. Leave it alone. I don't think anyone here cares for your opinion and to poke at this is a huge indicator of attention seeking behavior and just generally rude af. It is not okay. Your actions are not okay. Go lurk somewhere else.ย
In the old days on TB, this would have been questioned as fishy LONG ago. That said, @baseballismyfavoriteseason there are several red flags here. Most recently, everything going on with her FB. Sheโs shared approx 48384839 random memes and posts just today. She also posted a video (that has sense been deleted) only updating on her pain status. No updates on her baby. Thatโs insane to me... especially since the whole reason she shared her FB name was because she provides more updates there. Just seems really sketchy and, probably, a cry for attention. Which, is incredibly sad.ย
What the F is wrong with you guys? I suggest you go back to your board and spread negativity there. What this mom went through here is unimaginable. Do you have a life or do you just spend your time jumping from board to board here accusing people of fabricating stories? Please. It's pretty pathetic. It was this person's choice to share some private details here and whether or not you agree or not with her choices do NOT even try for one second to think that this is made up. I don't even owe you an explanation as to how or why I KNOW this is true. We have all been grieving with her for days now and this just feels like adding insult to the injury, especially coming from COMPLETE STRANGERS.
I find it very creepy that someone from another board is coming into a board that is MONTHS ahead of them to lurk on stuff. I could possibly understand checking the month after for those with late due dates but this...this is just plain weird.
@rachstar18 Why donโt you stay on your board and just leave her alone? Like what makes you think that saying any of this constructive to her situation? You donโt know her. You have no idea what sheโs comfortable with sharing or not sharing. Sheโs asking for support during such a hard time. If you have nothing kind or support to add, then just stick to your own board. All of your comments 100% unnecessary.ย
Not to mention you say itโs unbelievable that someone would share so much of their story but also say โย Iโve made some really great friends on the bump and shared so much of my life...โ so you can share so much of your life but she canโt?ย
๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ Itโs just what we (and several others) are seeing/feeling. We were originally here because she was on our BMB and someone else lurked and saw she was expecting again. That person kept a check bc everyone was happy for her. Then this popped up and it just seems.... extra. Yโall keep living in your happy little- blindly believe everything an Internet stranger says- bubble. ย ๐ย
@babycakesday like I said, I could be wrong. And yeah, I have made great friends here but Iโm still not going to share super private details on a public forum that anyone can see. But to each their own. As @blaf322 mentioned, she was originally on our board. We saw she was expecting again, and followed because we were hoping for the best. But there have been and were things that didnโt add up before or now. If you donโt like hearing someone elseโs opinion, just because we arenโt part of your board, you probably not communicate on a public forum.
@blaf322@rachstar18 Your choices to accuse someone you don't know of fabricating such a situation makes you nothing more than the 'mean girls' in high school. What you feel, with no further knowledge of the situation, means nothing. And given any likelihood of this situation being accurate (which it is), you chose to come and be rude to someone going through one of the hardest things? There's no room for this negative BS here.ย
Re: Updates (separate thread in case it's triggery for some folk)
TTC since: 2/13
Long, anovulatory cycles
Began fertility testing 12/13
Ultrasound and bloodwork: Everything looks good (according to my ob/gyn)
HSG: waiting to schedule
SA: scheduled with RE for 1/6/14
Married 6/15/13
BFP #1 5/8/16, EDD 12/31/16- DD born 9/10/16 at 24 weeksย
~In our hearts forever~
BFP #2 10/14/17, EDD 7/1/18
First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Due with baby #2: Feb 2022
Also astonished at the number of people here who are completely wrapped up in a story that just doesnโt add up.
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What @rachstar18 said... something just isnโt right here
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I find it very creepy that someone from another board is coming into a board that is MONTHS ahead of them to lurk on stuff. I could possibly understand checking the month after for those with late due dates but this...this is just plain weird.
Very thankful we moved off TB.
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