December 2020 Moms
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WTF Wednesday 4/29


TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



Re: WTF Wednesday 4/29

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    I am enraged at this moment.
    We are about to close on our first home, we are just waiting for the bank to give us the thumbs up.  Although we knew it would be a risky time to buy, we had no issues going through the process and got lucky that we found a home we loved.

    The bank says:  "you're good to go except you're short in cash.  BTW we changed our policy so you now have to have 6 months cash reserves instead of 2 months."  They changed this policy after our application was submitted.

    I'm so mad, it feels so unfair to spring that on people at the very last moment.  Unfortunately our mortgage guy just says "the banks can do whatever they what at any time, and right now they are becoming very skiddish."  It seems like they are only moving forward with the absolute safest buyers.

    I am confident we can overcome this new policy issue because we had extra money saved for furniture and thankfully we are still generating usual income.  However it would be devastating to lose this home over this.  I'm mad because the majority of people would not be able to overcome this type of unwelcomed surprise and therefore.... WTF!!!!
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    @gh1219 I fucking hate banks. I honestly haven't bought a house because my rent is cheap and I don't want to deal with the BS. UGH. 
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    Wtf to our daycare...who sent out an email on Weds to say they were opening back up on Monday...then sending out another email yesterday saying just kidding! Not gonna happen 😡
    TTC History:
    Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
    TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
    BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
    TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
    Due date was Nov 2020
    DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
    TTC: March 2021
    IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
    IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
    IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
    IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
    AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



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