November 2020 Waiting Room

mimser

A place for all the Mamas who are due in November 2020 to get to know each other while waiting for our BMB to be set up! 

mimser

There's got to be other ladies who made babies on Valentine's day 😅

Just got a BFP on Monday morning and it looks like EDD is November 2nd based on LMP or November 3 based on ovulation date or November 5 according to my GP 🤷‍♀️. Assuming it’s a healthy pregnancy, this will be our 1st child with our beloved 2 1/2 beagle Oliver. Although it’s all still feeling a bit surreal, I’m excited and thankful, as well as taking it one day at a time, one week at a time and one US at a time as we've had some unfortunate experiences in 2019! 

BLuvsE

Hi!!! I'm due November 3. But I've been pregnant 4 times (2 living kids) and never stayed pregnant past 38 weeks so I'll probably deliver in october. I may join those ladies. We'll see. In the meantime hi!!!!

I found out 5 days ago. Been testing daily since to watch my lines get darker. 🥰🥰 I have a 7 and 4 year old (miscarried twins and a singleton in between) and this baby was not an accident though most of our friends will probably assume it was. 🤷 We haven't announced except to one friend. But the kids know because they are very observant. 

I work from home for an organization that helps people break the cycle of poverty, homeschool my kids part time (they go to school 2.5 days/week), love music, love Disney World, love my family, love Jesus. Can't wait to meet all of you! 

And CONGRATS!!!

angela444

Due Nov 1 according to my LMP but probably will be later as I’ve got longer cycles (ovulation date puts me at Nov 6).  First time mom-to-be, we’ve been trying for a year so I am so excited! Waiting another 2 weeks for an ultrasound is killing me!  Not too much going on yet symptom-wise besides sore boobs and some light cramps, enjoying the days I have left before morning sickness sets in.

@mimser I’ve got a dog too, she’s good with other people’s kids so hopefully she’ll handle the baby well when it arrives!

brittanie1110

My EDD is November 6th! But it could be earlier because my cycle is only 21-23 days and I ovulate almost immediately after ending my period so we will see! My first appointment with my new obgyn is March 20th!! This is my first pregnancy

mrsswashbuckle

Hey guys I'm due nov 5th. This is my second pregnancy.  My daughter is 4 (5 in june) super excited and need to know all the new things out for babies right now. 

mimser

Congratulations ladies!

@angela444 I also can't wait for my first ultrasound in a little over 2 weeks. Looking to be reassured 🤞

kitkatz1990

Just got my BFP last night! Shocked because I definitely thought I was out. Had spotting and cramping last week and kept running to the bathroom to check for AF but she never showed. Took a test so I could have a drink with DH on date night and got a strong +. Due date is Nov 12 but I think it will be earlier because ovulated early this cycle. Nervous because I just had my IUD taken out in Dec and I hope my body has readjusted enough to carry a healthy pregnancy. This is my 3rd pregnancy, my kiddos are 5 and 7. 

Also, if any TTGPers are lurking, I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed chatting with you guys and I am going to be lurking! Your support has meant so much to me. I hope many of you will join me in Nov soon!

allthingscozy

@kitkatz1990 so excited for you!!!

kitkatz1990

@allthingscozy thank you!! I am still holding out hope for you this cycle!! Fingers crossed for Friday!

fitzfizz

@kitkatz1990 and @BLuvsE Congratulations! Always glad to see some TTGPers on here  

mami2almost4babies

I’m due Nov 8, my birthday was Valentine’s Day and had a party the next day. Guess baby will always be a reminder of how great that party was lol. 

nnpw0419

 had my first faint positive about 10 days ago! - according to my LMP my due date for baby #2 is nov. 5th And have been hungrier than ever. 😭 

hedgepig

Good morning ladies! I guess it's a good time to intro here - pregnant with my second child, EDD Nov. 4th. I live with MH and our 2 year old DS, and am a teacher. I like to quilt, cook and garden, and love nerdy hobbies and games. I'm really excited about this baby, but also nervous, as *TW* I had 2 MCs prior to getting pregnant with DS. */TW* Looking forward to getting to know you ladies, and hoping for a H&H9 for all of us!

laurenmicheley

Hello Nov Moms! Doing an intro in the hopes I get to stick around! Got my BFP on 2/24 which was confirmed by blood and doubling betas. EDD 11/2 per novarel trigger shot. FX this will be MH and my 1st (human) child. We have a small sassy dog who loves kids and I'm sure will love/hate sharing attention with a LO. I like to cook, shop, and basically be social in my free time. I'm highly anxious going into this pregnancy and am having an early u/s tomorrow with my RE to confirm viability (non-dating). Excited to meet you all!

*TW* This is my 3rd pregnancy since Dec 18. Both of my previous pregnancies resulted in MC at around10 weeks. */TW*

bserena

@kitkatz1990 and @BLuvsE Congrats!!!! H&H 9 months to both of you

mimser

@laurenmicheley I too hope we all get to stick around! This is also my 3rd pregnancy, 🤞we get to bring home this first baby.

kitkatz1990

@hedgepig what age do you teach? I teach preschool (3s).

hedgepig

@kitkatz1990 I teach high school Culinary! I am totally in awe of elementary school teachers - you're super human for teaching preschool!

BLuvsE

@fitzfizz thanks! I didn't post in grads over there because I wasn't there long. Hoping I don't have to go back. 

@knottie welcome and congrats! Check out the "if your name behind with knottie" thread on one of the baby month boards. If you get a screen name it makes it easier for us to get to know you.

I'm so glad we're all here. I relied on these boards a lot with my first and then thought I had it under control with my second without an online support system. I was wrong... So I'm back for baby number three!! 

I'm going to borrow (aka steal) a post from the October board and put it here. It has the chances of NOT miscarrying by say and really helped ease my nerves this time. TW I've miscarried twice so I'm taking any excuse I can find to focus on the positive and be hopeful. Stay tuned!

BLuvsE

TW**
Miscarriage mentioned... May be triggering if you've suffered multiple miscarriages.

Please take this with a grain of salt. It gives me hope and makes me feel better to watch the numbers go up, but just because the chances of miscarriage are low doesn't mean they're nonexistent. Having miscarried twice and having to living children, I've finally come to the conclusion that there will never be a time in the life of my child when I'm not somewhat afraid for their safety, but if i can find a reason to be less scared, I'll take it! 

Progress	Probability of NOT having a miscarriage
3W, 0D	67%
3W, 1D	67.10%
3W, 2D	67.40%
3W, 3D	68%
3W, 4D	68.70%
3W, 5D	69.70%
3W, 6D	70.80%
4W, 0D	72%
4W, 1D	73.50%
4W, 2D	74.80%
4W, 3D	76.40%
4W, 4D	77.90%
4W, 5D	79.50%
4W, 6D	81.10%
5W, 0D	82.70%
5W, 1D	84.20%
5W, 2D	85.60%
5W, 3D	87%
5W, 4D	88.30%
5W, 5D	89.50%
5W, 6D	90.60%
6W, 0D	91.60%
6W, 1D	92.50%
6W, 2D	93.40%
6W, 3D	94.10%
6W, 4D	94.70%
6W, 5D	95.30%
6W, 6D	95.70%
7W, 0D	96.10%
7W, 1D	96.50%
7W, 2D	96.80%
7W, 3D	97%
7W, 4D	97.20%
7W, 5D	97.40%
7W, 6D	97.50%
8W, 0D	97.60%
8W, 1D	97.70%
8W, 2D	97.80%
8W, 3D	97.80%
8W, 4D	97.90%
8W, 5D	97.90%
8W, 6D	97.90%
9W, 0D	97.90%
9W, 1D (and on)	98%

mami2almost4babies

Thanks I been wondering how to change it lol 

mami2almost4babies

got my name changed 

kitkatz1990

@hedgepig lol! I feel the exact same way about anyone who teaches teenagers!! You the real MVP! Teaching culinary sounds like tons of fun though! The preschoolers definitely wear me out but they’re so sweet and funny. 

Knottie1450327671

Hi, EDD Nov. 8th.  Deff a big surprise. This will be my 3rd pregnancy. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old 🤪

joyfulone86

Hi all! I’ve been waiting and watching for the November 2020 board, just now saw this! 

Got my BFP on 2/23 and my EDD based on my LMP is November 1st! 

We got pregnant via IUI after having gone through infertility for 5 years, and I had a laparoscopy back in November. Got diagnosed with stage two endo from it! 

MelSanti

Hey ladies! I started a facebook group called "shhh 2020". Look it up and request to join. It is private so no one on your personal Facebook will see you are in it.

mimser

Thanks for that @BLuvsE.

 *TW Having miscarried twice also, I too am taking any excuse I can find to focus on the positive and be hopeful. 🤞

nnpw0419

Omg thank you for this  @BLuvsE - my husband will hardly talk to me about this pregnancy because it’s “too soon” so He’s got me feeling some type of way about it, so this was reassuring!

triciad83

Valentine’s Day baby here, too!!!  Going to doctor for official confirmation tomorrow morning, but I can tell you - I’m feeling it.  

I’m 36.  First time. Taking each day as it comes and hoping for the best!  

BLuvsE

@mami2almost4babies yay!!!! And 4 is how many we want!! This inside baby makes 3.

@kitkatz1990 and @hedgepig i always say the worst part of parenting is OPKs (Other People's Kids). I love kids but really don't know how to handle situations when a child needs parental correction and mom and dad won't do it. I'd be fired within a year of teaching. So props to you for putting up with the parents!

@joyfulone86 congratulations! I wish you the sweetest most precious nine months and then lifetime after since you waited so long. 🥰

@mimser you're welcome. Sorry for your losses. Hoping there will be a PGAL thread on this bmb because it is definitely different.

@nnpw0419 my husband keeps going " I'm excited. I'm just shocked" and I'm like "Dude we were TRYING!!! Why are you shocked?" I think they have to see a bump or feel a kick to wrap their heads around it.

Congrats to the knotties too! Check out the thread on the October bmb if you want to get a personalized screen name so we can get to know you better.

mami2almost4babies

I can’t find the group on Facebook 

joyfulone86

Thank you @BLuvsE!! 

BLuvsE

My midwife changed my due date to October 31 today. So I'll be heading to that BMB. I hope you all have a happy and healthy pregnancy!

mimser

@BLuvsE Have a happy and healthy pregnancy too

kitkatz1990

@cait32 I’m so sorry!

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*lurking*
@cait32 I'm so sorry :(

mimser

I'm so sorry @cait32

hedgepig

Thinking of you @cait32

allthingscozy

@cait32 I am so incredibly sorry. 

joyfulone86

So so sorry @cait32!