Upcoming appointments: Today! Just the confirmation of pregnancy appointment.
How are you feeling? Still nauseas. The morning sickness is better managed but the nausea is lasting longer into the day lately.
Raves/Rants: Rant: my son has been waking up super early! He was up before 5:30 today. I usually let him fuss for about 15 minutes and he might fall back to sleep, but my husband went in and got him. Mornings are already so rough plus I need the sleep! Rave: I have a long weekend next weekend!
Questions: not at the moment!
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I often have sitcoms on in the background. We record the reruns on the DVR and it's what I play them on weekend mornings or while I'm cooking or something. My favorites are The Office, Seinfeld, New Girl, and Brooklyn 99.
Baby is the size of a(n): Pecan Upcoming appointments: Beginning of February How are you feeling? Pretty good- tired and hungry all the time Raves/Rants: rave: I also have a long weekend coming up rants: nothing comes to mind
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Movie: a league of their own show: Greys anatomy, ER, good wife
Upcoming appointments: Jan. 30 for another u/s, and NIPT bloodwork.
How are you feeling? My symptoms have ramped up this past week. I am exhausted and by 2PM, my nausea is full force. I'm basically useless.
Raves/Rants: We are potty training ds1 and it's the worst. He is so stubborn and practically refuses to use the toilet unless I threaten him with all the things. I hate that this is how it's going down, but honestly I have no idea how to make it better.
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Movie: Just about any Marvel movie. Show: Big bang theory and Mash.
Upcoming appointments: I have one with a midwife at the end of the week
How are you feeling? Crappy. Sleeping is the only thing I want to do. I was almost sick this morning but as I hadn't eaten anything I just stood there and gagged. I have such mixed feelings about this yuckiness since it probably means good things, but then I feel like I am always carsick which sucks.
Raves/Rants: not much for either.
Questions: none
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Whenever I am bummed about something, I watch Friends and it always cheers me up.
Upcoming appointments: Jan 16th (THURS!!!!), this will be the first
How are you feeling? Tired. Capacity for laying on the couch watching TV and napping is UNREAL. intermittent nausea seems to be improving already, now just need to keep a leash on my appetite 😳
Rants/Raves: Rant: I need to get my butt off the couch!! Rave: Just got back from Aruba on a week long vacation and have today off work before going back tomorrow, have seriously enjoyed the relaxation during this time! And am SO excited to finally get an US later this week!
Questions: none at the moment !
GTKY: What is the movie or TV show that you keep watching over and over? I will ALWAYS put HP movies on when they're on TV, also can never get enough of The Office, Parks & Rec, and South Park.
@jojokoodles@riatortillaxo Omg, The Office is the ultimate comfort television. It's appropriate for all seasons of life and always lifts my spirits.
EDD/weeks+days: August 18th, 8 weeks 6 days
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): Still a raspberry - my ticker switches over tomorrow.
Upcoming appointments: I finally have my first appointment this Thursday. I'm a little nervous, but mostly excited. I just want to be reassured that everything is okay. The first trimester is TORTURE when I can't feel baby movin' and groovin' yet. Feels like this past month has taken forever to go by since I first made the appointment.
How are you feeling? Nausea and lightheadedness. And gassy pretty much all the time. This has made it fun trying to keep our sex lives up and running.
Raves/Rants: Rant: Just ready for the first trimester to be over. Rave: Guys, I'm getting ready to bake the cookies today. I'M GOING FOR IT, AND I'M GOING TO EAT THEM ALL.
Questions: N/A
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Mad Men. I love the fashion, history, and drama - just the whole vibe. I've watched the entire series multiple times over. And Joan Holloway is THE babe.
Upcoming appointments: Wednesday for an ultrasound to check on a “large collection of blood” in my uterus.
How are you feeling? Exhausted. Like 0 energy for anything. And overwhelmed by all the crap I have to do but no energy to do it. Plus the random waves of nausea and bloodhound like sense of smell.
Raves/Rants: My H has really been stepping up and I’m super thankful.
Questions: nah
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I actually hate rewatching shows/movies except Christmas movies (at Christmas time).
Ughhh, is anyone else getting that ad for earwax removal on this page? I just almost lost it, blech.
EDD/weeks+days: August 31st, 7 weeks exactly. I feel like the caboose of this BMB
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): blueberry
Upcoming appointments: New patient appointment and dating US this Friday! The first ultrasound is so nerve-wracking for me after my experience with my first pregnancy (**TW** MMC at 9 weeks). I'm hoping I will be able to relax a bit after that.
How are you feeling? Right after I posted my intro last week the symptoms hit me like a sack of bricks. I'm so tired, I feel like I could sleep every chance I get, BUT then I'm not able to sleep. I don't feel as sick as I did with DD but I just kind of have this creeping nausea at all times where I feel like the slightest thing could push me over the edge. Cravings and aversions are in full force too.
Raves/Rants: Rave: my mom was able to come over to watch DD today for a much needed break! Rant: how can I simultaneously be so tired but unable to fall asleep!
Questions: Is anyone else still breastfeeding or has through pregnancy before? I haven't weaned DD yet and I am just wondering if anyone else has had that experience.
GTKY: I'm so fickle with stuff like that. Usually I will go through a period of time of liking something very intensely and then kind of move on (I guess that's an ADHD thing?). I could watch nature documentaries (especially Planet Earth or Life) or Great British Bake Off pretty much anytime though.
@hypermusic I am also having the same problem not falling asleep! Like, I’m EXHAUSTED, lay down for bed and just lay there awake for ever. It’s so frustrating! I saw the earwax ad (I’m assuming in here?) and had to scroll past as fast as I could.
@hypermusic I'm still BF ds2, altho I have started the weaning process. We are down to only overnight nursing. My poor nipples can't handle it more, plus my production dropped majorly this last week, so he hasn't really asked.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out, maybe keeping it a secret.
Baby is the size of a(n): Postage Stamp!
Upcoming appointments: None on the books yet, but I've got two OB offices I'm interested in calling as soon as the insurance gets finalized... I'd like that to be before 12 weeks but I'm not going to be surprised if I don't. Weird merging drama has slowed down the HR department where he works.
How are you feeling? : TIRED. Guys, why can't I awake? Also my husband is traveling for work this week so I can't put myself to bed until I'm ready to fall asleep because otherwise I lay in bed and miss him.
Raves/Rants: We ended up telling our 5 year old DD yesterday. Daddy and I were in the bedroom talking quietly before he left yesterday and she caught him telling me to take care of myself and the baby. We didn't realize she was creeping so we had to sit down with her and answer questions. For now we've asked her to keep it a secret between us and her, "Our special family secret" but I am nervous. I had wanted to wait until I'd at least had a first ultrasound so now I feel this weird pressure. I just hope we make it through karate class the next couple weeks without her spilling the beans.
Questions: I'm starting to wonder when it's appropriate to start gaining weight, and what's appropriate. I noted I had finally ticked up a solid pound this morning, and although I have stopped cutting calories and macros until I can get seen by an OB I'm deff back to counting and logging everything that's going into my body. I'd eased off of counting with the flu and then the onset of morning sickness but I'm so desperate to stay healthy. I'm kind of hoping it's just a little extra bloat and it'll ease away. Anyone else been on a weight loss journey and getting a little anxious about watching the scale go up?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over?: I can watch the Twilight Movies, the HP movies, and LOTR movies (but not the Hobbit ones.. ) until my ears and eyes bleed.. I'm a little less tolerant of repeating TV shows. I do really love The New Girl and Downton Abbey though.
EDD/weeks+days: 9/2/20 but not for sure yet, 6wks 5days.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: I'm team pink but my BF is team blue.
Baby is the size of a(n): sweet pea
Upcoming appointments: this Wednesday I have my 1st phone appointment then I go in Thursdays for eff my 1st prenatal visit. Excited to find out my due date and hopefully get to hear the baby's heart beat.
How are you feeling? Luckily I haven't had any nausea or vomiting. I do have the breast soreness and the exhaustion. I wish I could nap and then nap again. Lol
Raves/Rants: I been so emotional lately and my mood swings have been so crazy. I feel bad for my family. They know just th o leave me alone right now. Lol my poor babies.
Questions: I have been spotting almost daily and with light cramping from time to time. I feel like its nothing to worry about but of course I worry. Does anyone else have this issue?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Yellowstone. I can watch all Julia Robert's movies over and over. I just love her.
EDD/weeks+days: 7w3d-ish... will confirm on Thursday
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): Blueberry
Upcoming appointments: This Thursday! Dating ultrasound and appointment with the midwife.
How are you feeling? I feel fine, which terrifies me. I've had only the mildest of nausea to the point that I wonder if it's nausea or if I just want it to be nausea. My main symptom is fatigue. I'm also nervous because my first appointment two weeks ago included an ultrasound to check on some spotting. Everything was looking good, but as my appointment this week gets closer, I am getting more and more nervous that I won't see two weeks of growth (and I've had several scary dreams which don't help)
Raves/Rants: Rants- my parents are coming to visit this weekend, which means I need to try to get things ready around the house a bit and I'm really not feeling that. Raves- We had such beautiful weather this weekend. My husband and I took our dogs for long walks through a state park near us on Saturday and Sunday and it was lovely. My dogs saw a horse for the first time and they seemed to think they could take it on
Questions: Any good distraction mechanisms/activities? I thankfully have a busy day tomorrow.. but I need something to occupy my time/brain on Wednesday so I don't just sit and think about my appointment all day
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I could watch Friends or Law and Order SVU any time.
@RedBaramid normal weight gain in first tri is 1-5 pounds. I know it's hard to watch the scale go up, I hate it. Just remember that this is a short season and baby needs all the things. You can talk to your OB about your weight gain, etc. Just make sure you don't stress too much about it. The cortisol will cause you to hold onto weight and it's not good for baby. Do what you can to be healthy. Keep your doctor in the loop about how you feel, and give yourself some grace.
Upcoming appointments: Had my second appt today and heard the heartbeat Next one on 1/27 for bloodwork and physical.
How are you feeling? Echoing what PPs have said... tired. I fall asleep every night around 8PM and it's still not enough.
Raves/Rants: Rant - I told one of my sisters I'm PG and she tagged me in a pregnancy meme today. Really hoping no one at work saw it. I wasn't planning on telling them until I hit the 2nd trimester.
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Show = Parks and Rec, Impractical Jokers, anything light-hearted; Movie = Disney but not because of my preference. 3 yo DH is way into Princesses rn.
Upcoming appointments: 1/20. It was supposed to be today but they had to reschedule it. So frustrating, but just one more week!
How are you feeling? Tired all the time, but like some previous posters, also having trouble sleeping. I fall asleep fine but I wake up to pee in the middle of the night and it takes me forever to go back to sleep.
Raves/Rants: Rant - see above, re: insomnia
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Mean girls. I can basically quote that entire movie.
Upcoming appointments: Had one today! All good so far but it was too early to hear the heartbeat.
How are you feeling? Awful. I've been so nauseous (continuously and turned off by all food) for the past month that I haven't been able to eat or drink much. Doctor prescribed anti-nausea meds today because I lost weight.
Raves/Rants: STM here, and it's hard chasing a toddler when all I want to do is nap!
Questions: Have other people announced the news, or are you waiting?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Gilmore Girls!
@wildrainbow if he’s not ready, why not wait until he is? (I’m not sure if his age). I know girls are different, but I waited until my daughter showed signs of her waiting to try.
@hypermusic I feel the exact same way about sleep. I will be so tired that all I want to do is sleep, but when I try I can’t. It’s like the universe is playing a cruel joke on me.
@buhundbae immediate family and close friends know. I will tell work after my appointment on the 23 and we will announce on social media once we know the sex and can do something cute with daughter for the announcement.
EDD/weeks+days: August 2/11+2
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: team finding out. Fingers we hear something this week, even though I don’t think it will happen till next week.
Baby is the size of a(n): large strawberry
Upcoming appointments: January 23
How are you feeling? Pretty great.
Raves/Rants: we are currently in Japan and some of the smells are not pleasant. Against what my nose may want, we are going to go to fish market today. It will be a fun experience, plus I’m hoping that they will have some yummy cooked food I can eat. And yes we have been up since 4am because we went to bed at 7pm from complete exhaustion.
Questions: nope
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Mrs. Mazel on amazon. I love that show!! The HP movies and the Pirates of the Caribbean movies.
Married: August 2012
TTC #1: July 2015
BFP 1: October 30, 2015; EDD: July 6, 2016- Team Pink
@wildrainbow Thanks for the kind words, today I've ate pretty much how I've been eating the last week and my numbers look good. It's been reassuring that I've not been crazy overeating but that maybe this is truly just the beginning of the small expected weight gain. I really hope potty training begins to click for your son soon.
@RedBaramid Good. I'm glad. And thanks. I firmly believe potty training is the devil.
@blackgirlmagic He doesnt care about prizes, I've tried, so I've had to take things away. So, if he has an accident (i.e. after sitting on the potty) he loses a toy he loves, and it goes from there. He gains them back for every time he uses the toilet. It's not perfect, but it works ish.
@hypermusic I'm still breastfeeding. My nipples have been sore, but my son is almost 1. I've dropped pumping sessions so I'm down to 1 and he will be 1 year old in just a few weeks so I will definitely keep going until then. Once he is one, I am going to stop pumping completely and continue to nurse in the morning and at night for as long as he wants!
FX for everyone having their first appointments this week! And I'm sorry for all the nausea, headaches, exhaustion and general misery. Hoping we're all on the up and up soon.
@hypermusic Lol at being our caboose. I was the latest EDD in my last BMB, and then most people had their babies early, DS was over a week late, and I ended up hanging out as the only still-pregnant-person for a solid two weeks. So lonely!
EDD/weeks+days: 7w5d
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Upcoming appointments: Just had one today, so back in 4 weeks
How are you feeling? OK. I feel great every morning, then kind of nauseous/like I need to sit down starting early afternoon and by evening I'm just exhausted. I can tell it's true physical exhaustion, because weekends chasing DS wear me out so much more than full days in the office. It used to be the other way around.
Raves/Rants: I got to see the heartbeat today. That's rave enough for the week. But also DS moved up into the "big kids" class at daycare this morning (they *gasp* sit on chairs!) and he literally ran away from me as soon as we walked in and started playing. I love watching him be so bold and self-assured. That is so not who I am, but he seems to have inherited all of DH's extroversion and people-person-ness and it's great.
Questions: Nope.
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? All the usual suspects -- The Office, Parks & Rec. In more embarrassing admissions, I've watched Jane the Virgin a couple times through, and I used to watch Gilmore Girls on loop.
I had an appointment today. Heartbeat was strong. Fundus measuring a little ahead (I make big babies.)
Still dry heaving at times. Also very exhausted.
Shows/movies: Friends, Dukes of Hazzard, MASH, Parks and Rec, Big Bang Theory.
@hypermusic, I breastfed my first until I was 5 months pregnant. At the beginning of that pregnancy, she was still mostly breastfed - at least 90%. When we ended, we'd gradually tapered down to once a day before bed. I was actually planning to breastfeed until I hit third tri. But one day, she was being a pill about latching, and we just put her in bed, and she went right to sleep! So I decided to stop there. She can't have been getting much toward the end, because I didn't notice a thing.
I am still breastfeeding #2, and by that, I mean pumping for her. I EPed not by choice due to latch issues. My supply has dropped, and I'm pumping 5-10 oz a day, and she's taking 3-10 oz (depends on solids intake) of formula. We are trying to drastically up her solids intake (she's been sick, so that affected it) because I'm planning to stop pumping at a year, which will be roughly 4 months, and wean her around then. I need a break, and my body needs a break, and I am so tired of pumping. I would have liked to go longer, but pumping and bottle feeding is so, so, so, so hard, and I wasn't planning to get pregnant this soon either.
I haven't had any issues. No spotting, no cramping. Nipples definitely got painful though both times now when I got pregnant.
@hypermusic I saw that ad and it was absolutely disgusting!
EDD/weeks+days: 9 weeks 2 days
Team Finding Out!
Baby is the size of a: Cherry
Upcoming appointments: 2/6 for NP scan
How are you feeling? I'm. So. Tired.
Raves/Rants: Three day weekend coming up! But I have to make it through my high school's registration night from 6-8. I'm trying to be in bed at 8!
Questions: Nope
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I've started the Criminal Minds and Bones series over. They are such long series and it's been so long I don't really remember the episodes though. Movies: I love Fifth Element and Pride and Prejudice.
@fitandnerdy My son and I made traditional chocolate chip and added some walnuts in. My husband is mad, because he's a fitness freak and was doing his best to wait until the weekend to indulge in any sweets. 😆
Baby is the size of a(n): little larger than a prune. Can’t remember
Upcoming appointments: next Monday. Nt scan and genetic counselor
How are you feeling? Ok. First Monday back and it was a Monday.
Raves/Rants: some of the indigestion and nausea seems to have chilled a bit 🤩 I also moved the time I take 2 of my meds to morning and have noticed an improvement in insomnia. Heart palpitations and breathing issues have increased though. So 😕
Questions: na
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? FRIENDS!
How are you feeling? I sound like a broken record. Tired, nauseous, painfully bloated.
Raves/Rants: Rants: DS has allegedly been potty trained for about 6 months but he is having accidents every night and During most naps. His school advocates for this really hands off potty training approach, but it’s just not working. I think we are going to have to try something different. I’m tired of doing laundry every day.
Raves: This week DS moves up to the preschool classroom at his school (ages 3-6). It’s bittersweet to realize he’s not a baby anymore, but I’m so proud of him.
Questions: anyone have a tried and true method for curbing nighttime accidents? We tried pull ups for a while, but i think it just got him used to peeing whenever he felt like it at night.
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? The Office, Parks and Rec, and Buffy I can watch any time. I rewatch Mad Men and Freaks and Geeks every few years.
@gomillis My brother said that when they were potty training their boys, he set an alarm and woke up the kiddo and got them to pee. He said it curbed nighttime accidents by a lot. Of course, ds1 isnt there yet, but I plan on trying this to see how he does.
@wildrainbow We are taking DS to pee right before we go to bed, around 10, but he pees again around 3:00 so I think we need to start waking up and taking him around then. I have to wake up and pee around then anyway so I guess it’s not much extra effort.
@gomillis my daughters urologist said not to worry with night training till they’re at least 50 but usually 75% of the week dry at night on their own. It’s not uncommon for MANY children to still not be night trained well into kindergarten. At 3, I’d personally just still use the diaper or pull-up.
TTC1: May 2015
Primary IF May 2016; Failed HSG; Scheduled Lap Sept. 2016
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out ASAP- with the NIPT test
Baby is the size of a(n): wild strawberry
Upcoming appointments: I have an appt with my OB this Thursday, then my NT scan and NIPT is scheduled for Feb. 6.
How are you feeling? Pretty rough. Horrible pregnancy insomnia every night makes me toss and turn, plus I can’t stomach coffee, so I’m basically a walking zombie. Thank goodness I can nap when DD naps. Combined with all-day low-level nausea and strong aversions to foods and smells. If I don’t keep up with eating small meals, I get light headed and dizzy.
Emotionally, I’m still a little anxious and will feel much better after the genetic testing and first tri is over. I want this pregnancy to work out so much.
Raves/Rants:
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? This is embarrassing, but I freaking love Golden Girls. Always puts me in a good mood.
Upcoming appointments: 2nd ultrasound and NT scan, January 31.
How are you feeling? SOO emotional! I cried almost the entire time we were watching a war movie last night, then cried again watching YouTube videos earlier. 🤣Breasts are still quite sore. Nausea is pretty much gone today, fingers crossed it stays away!
Raves/Rants:
Questions: Thoughts on fetal dopplers? A few of my friends have used them for their pregnancies and loved it.
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Last week I binged the Twilight movies, but theres no way I could this week without crying. 😂
How are you feeling? On Saturday I was like, “I feel better than I’ve felt in weeks!” And then Sunday and Monday I was feeling so nauseous again.
Raves/Rants: I think my daughter gave me her cold, I woke up with a sore throat. Booo.
Questions: if you are measuring ahead/behind, at what point did your doctor move your due date?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? My husband and I have watched The West Wing from start to finish many many times. Also love Gilmore Girls and Friends.
@anxiouswife I had a fetal Doppler with my first and I loved it - especially for the middle of pregnancy when you don’t feel them moving all the time. I restrained myself from using it more than once a week and I had to remember that if I was really concerned about the baby I should call my doctor, not use the Doppler. I loaned it to a friend so if I can get it back I’ll probably use it again
@gomillis we are still in pull-ups for nap and bedtime at almost 4. I’m waiting until she tells me she wants to sleep in underwear or until she wakes up dry 90% of nights. I don’t have the energy to do laundry daily right now. 🤷🏼♀️
@RedBaramid I’m anxious about weight gain. I lost 15 lbs this year for my sister’s wedding and was feeling like the healthiest version of myself for a while. I gained back 5 lbs this fall which I was okay with, and now I know I already have gained about 5 lbs since finding out I’m pregnant. I’m not making bad food choices, I just have to eat so much more than I usually do to keep the nausea at bay. I gained 40lbs with my daughter and ended up back at my pre-baby weight easily by 6 months postpartum, so I’m trying to stay positive. But it’s really hard to feel my clothes all getting tighter and tighter.
@gomillis When my kid was 3 1/2 or so, and was potty trained during the day, I told her that it would be up to her to decide when she was ready to give up pull-ups at night. I figured, it's not crucial that nighttime potty training be done at a certain time and it's more important to me that she get some sleep and not be stressed about using the toilet. She used the pull-ups for a while and I kept asking her each night if she wanted to either use pull-ups or real underwear. Eventually, she chose underwear all the time. I also put one of those big incontinence bed pads under her sheet when I made the bed to help with any massive accidents.
Upcoming appointments: Still waiting for the MFM to call me with an appointment
How are you feeling? Beyond exhausted. I'm still very anxious about this pregnancy. I think I'll feel better once I finally have an appointment and know that everything is on track.
Raves/Rants: I feel like I can barely function, especially at work. I'm also super moody. I had a complete meltdown on the weekend because I ordered a salad and they delivered it without dressing...I really wanted that stupid salad lol.
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Lilo and Stitch, House, Grey's Anatomy, Grand Tour, baking shows.
Re: Check in w/o 1/13
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Team Green
Baby is the size of a(n): blueberry
Upcoming appointments: Today! Just the confirmation of pregnancy appointment.
How are you feeling? Still nauseas. The morning sickness is better managed but the nausea is lasting longer into the day lately.
Raves/Rants:
Rant: my son has been waking up super early! He was up before 5:30 today. I usually let him fuss for about 15 minutes and he might fall back to sleep, but my husband went in and got him. Mornings are already so rough plus I need the sleep!
Rave: I have a long weekend next weekend!
Questions: not at the moment!
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I often have sitcoms on in the background. We record the reruns on the DVR and it's what I play them on weekend mornings or while I'm cooking or something. My favorites are The Office, Seinfeld, New Girl, and Brooklyn 99.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: finding out
Baby is the size of a(n):
Pecan
Upcoming appointments:
Beginning of February
How are you feeling?
Pretty good- tired and hungry all the time
Raves/Rants:
rave: I also have a long weekend coming up
rants: nothing comes to mind
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over?
Movie: a league of their own
show: Greys anatomy, ER, good wife
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Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding Out
Baby is the size of a(n): cherry
Upcoming appointments: Jan. 30 for another u/s, and NIPT bloodwork.
How are you feeling? My symptoms have ramped up this past week. I am exhausted and by 2PM, my nausea is full force. I'm basically useless.
Raves/Rants: We are potty training ds1 and it's the worst. He is so stubborn and practically refuses to use the toilet unless I threaten him with all the things. I hate that this is how it's going down, but honestly I have no idea how to make it better.
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Movie: Just about any Marvel movie.
Show: Big bang theory and Mash.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out!
Baby is the size of a(n): blueberry
Upcoming appointments: I have one with a midwife at the end of the week
How are you feeling? Crappy. Sleeping is the only thing I want to do. I was almost sick this morning but as I hadn't eaten anything I just stood there and gagged. I have such mixed feelings about this yuckiness since it probably means good things, but then I feel like I am always carsick which sucks.
Raves/Rants: not much for either.
Questions: none
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Whenever I am bummed about something, I watch Friends and it always cheers me up.
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1 LC, girl 5 years old
TTC #2 Summer 2017
BFP 1/5/2018, MC (D & E) 2/23/2018
TTCAL May 2018
BFP 9/20/2018, MC (D & E) 11/16/2018
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): Brussel sprout
Upcoming appointments: Jan 16th (THURS!!!!), this will be the first
How are you feeling? Tired. Capacity for laying on the couch watching TV and napping is UNREAL. intermittent nausea seems to be improving already, now just need to keep a leash on my appetite 😳
Rants/Raves:
Rant: I need to get my butt off the couch!!
Rave: Just got back from Aruba on a week long vacation and have today off work before going back tomorrow, have seriously enjoyed the relaxation during this time! And am SO excited to finally get an US later this week!
Questions: none at the moment !
GTKY: What is the movie or TV show that you keep watching over and over?
I will ALWAYS put HP movies on when they're on TV, also can never get enough of The Office, Parks & Rec, and South Park.
EDD/weeks+days: August 18th, 8 weeks 6 days
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): Still a raspberry - my ticker switches over tomorrow.
Upcoming appointments: I finally have my first appointment this Thursday. I'm a little nervous, but mostly excited. I just want to be reassured that everything is okay. The first trimester is TORTURE when I can't feel baby movin' and groovin' yet. Feels like this past month has taken forever to go by since I first made the appointment.
How are you feeling? Nausea and lightheadedness. And gassy pretty much all the time. This has made it fun trying to keep our sex lives up and running.
Raves/Rants: Rant: Just ready for the first trimester to be over. Rave: Guys, I'm getting ready to bake the cookies today. I'M GOING FOR IT, AND I'M GOING TO EAT THEM ALL.
Questions: N/A
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Mad Men. I love the fashion, history, and drama - just the whole vibe. I've watched the entire series multiple times over. And Joan Holloway is THE babe.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): raspberry
Upcoming appointments: Wednesday for an ultrasound to check on a “large collection of blood” in my uterus.
How are you feeling? Exhausted. Like 0 energy for anything. And overwhelmed by all the crap I have to do but no energy to do it. Plus the random waves of nausea and bloodhound like sense of smell.
Raves/Rants: My H has really been stepping up and I’m super thankful.
Questions: nah
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I actually hate rewatching shows/movies except Christmas movies (at Christmas time).
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out, maybe keeping it a secret.
Baby is the size of a(n): Postage Stamp!
Upcoming appointments: None on the books yet, but I've got two OB offices I'm interested in calling as soon as the insurance gets finalized... I'd like that to be before 12 weeks but I'm not going to be surprised if I don't. Weird merging drama has slowed down the HR department where he works.
How are you feeling? : TIRED. Guys, why can't I awake? Also my husband is traveling for work this week so I can't put myself to bed until I'm ready to fall asleep because otherwise I lay in bed and miss him.
Raves/Rants: We ended up telling our 5 year old DD yesterday. Daddy and I were in the bedroom talking quietly before he left yesterday and she caught him telling me to take care of myself and the baby. We didn't realize she was creeping so we had to sit down with her and answer questions. For now we've asked her to keep it a secret between us and her, "Our special family secret" but I am nervous. I had wanted to wait until I'd at least had a first ultrasound so now I feel this weird pressure. I just hope we make it through karate class the next couple weeks without her spilling the beans.
Questions: I'm starting to wonder when it's appropriate to start gaining weight, and what's appropriate. I noted I had finally ticked up a solid pound this morning, and although I have stopped cutting calories and macros until I can get seen by an OB I'm deff back to counting and logging everything that's going into my body. I'd eased off of counting with the flu and then the onset of morning sickness but I'm so desperate to stay healthy. I'm kind of hoping it's just a little extra bloat and it'll ease away. Anyone else been on a weight loss journey and getting a little anxious about watching the scale go up?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over?: I can watch the Twilight Movies, the HP movies, and LOTR movies (but not the Hobbit ones.. ) until my ears and eyes bleed.. I'm a little less tolerant of repeating TV shows. I do really love The New Girl and Downton Abbey though.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: I'm team pink but my BF is team blue.
Baby is the size of a(n): sweet pea
Upcoming appointments: this Wednesday I have my 1st phone appointment then I go in Thursdays for eff my 1st prenatal visit. Excited to find out my due date and hopefully get to hear the baby's heart beat.
How are you feeling?
Luckily I haven't had any nausea or vomiting. I do have the breast soreness and the exhaustion. I wish I could nap and then nap again. Lol
Raves/Rants: I been so emotional lately and my mood swings have been so crazy. I feel bad for my family. They know just th o leave me alone right now. Lol my poor babies.
Questions: I have been spotting almost daily and with light cramping from time to time. I feel like its nothing to worry about but of course I worry. Does anyone else have this issue?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Yellowstone. I can watch all Julia Robert's movies over and over. I just love her.
@lachnessmomster cookies sound delicious... what kind are you making?
EDD/weeks+days: 7w3d-ish... will confirm on Thursday
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n): Blueberry
Upcoming appointments: This Thursday! Dating ultrasound and appointment with the midwife.
How are you feeling? I feel fine, which terrifies me. I've had only the mildest of nausea to the point that I wonder if it's nausea or if I just want it to be nausea. My main symptom is fatigue. I'm also nervous because my first appointment two weeks ago included an ultrasound to check on some spotting. Everything was looking good, but as my appointment this week gets closer, I am getting more and more nervous that I won't see two weeks of growth (and I've had several scary dreams which don't help)
Raves/Rants:
Rants- my parents are coming to visit this weekend, which means I need to try to get things ready around the house a bit and I'm really not feeling that.
Raves- We had such beautiful weather this weekend. My husband and I took our dogs for long walks through a state park near us on Saturday and Sunday and it was lovely. My dogs saw a horse for the first time and they seemed to think they could take it on
Questions: Any good distraction mechanisms/activities? I thankfully have a busy day tomorrow.. but I need something to occupy my time/brain on Wednesday so I don't just sit and think about my appointment all day
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over?
I could watch Friends or Law and Order SVU any time.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): as tall as a Lego man
Upcoming appointments: Had my second appt today and heard the heartbeat
How are you feeling? Echoing what PPs have said... tired. I fall asleep every night around 8PM and it's still not enough.
Raves/Rants: Rant - I told one of my sisters I'm PG and she tagged me in a pregnancy meme today. Really hoping no one at work saw it. I wasn't planning on telling them until I hit the 2nd trimester.
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Show = Parks and Rec, Impractical Jokers, anything light-hearted; Movie = Disney but not because of my preference. 3 yo DH is way into Princesses rn.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): Strawberry
Upcoming appointments: 1/20. It was supposed to be today but they had to reschedule it. So frustrating, but just one more week!
How are you feeling? Tired all the time, but like some previous posters, also having trouble sleeping. I fall asleep fine but I wake up to pee in the middle of the night and it takes me forever to go back to sleep.
Raves/Rants: Rant - see above, re: insomnia
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Mean girls. I can basically quote that entire movie.
announce on social media once we know the sex and can do something cute with daughter for the announcement.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: team finding out. Fingers we hear something this week, even though I don’t think it will happen till next week.
Baby is the size of a(n): large strawberry
Upcoming appointments: January 23
How are you feeling? Pretty great.
Raves/Rants: we are currently in Japan and some of the smells are not pleasant. Against what my nose may want, we are going to go to fish market today. It will be a fun experience, plus I’m hoping that they will have some yummy cooked food I can eat. And yes we have been up since 4am because we went to bed at 7pm from complete exhaustion.
Questions: nope
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Mrs. Mazel on amazon. I love that show!! The HP movies and the Pirates of the Caribbean movies.
@blackgirlmagic He doesnt care about prizes, I've tried, so I've had to take things away. So, if he has an accident (i.e. after sitting on the potty) he loses a toy he loves, and it goes from there. He gains them back for every time he uses the toilet. It's not perfect, but it works ish.
@hypermusic Lol at being our caboose. I was the latest EDD in my last BMB, and then most people had their babies early, DS was over a week late, and I ended up hanging out as the only still-pregnant-person for a solid two weeks. So lonely!
EDD/weeks+days: 7w5d
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Upcoming appointments: Just had one today, so back in 4 weeks
How are you feeling? OK. I feel great every morning, then kind of nauseous/like I need to sit down starting early afternoon and by evening I'm just exhausted. I can tell it's true physical exhaustion, because weekends chasing DS wear me out so much more than full days in the office. It used to be the other way around.
Raves/Rants: I got to see the heartbeat today. That's rave enough for the week.
Questions: Nope.
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? All the usual suspects -- The Office, Parks & Rec. In more embarrassing admissions, I've watched Jane the Virgin a couple times through, and I used to watch Gilmore Girls on loop.
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I had an appointment today. Heartbeat was strong. Fundus measuring a little ahead (I make big babies.)
Still dry heaving at times. Also very exhausted.
Shows/movies: Friends, Dukes of Hazzard, MASH, Parks and Rec, Big Bang Theory.
@hypermusic, I breastfed my first until I was 5 months pregnant. At the beginning of that pregnancy, she was still mostly breastfed - at least 90%. When we ended, we'd gradually tapered down to once a day before bed. I was actually planning to breastfeed until I hit third tri. But one day, she was being a pill about latching, and we just put her in bed, and she went right to sleep! So I decided to stop there. She can't have been getting much toward the end, because I didn't notice a thing.
I am still breastfeeding #2, and by that, I mean pumping for her. I EPed not by choice due to latch issues. My supply has dropped, and I'm pumping 5-10 oz a day, and she's taking 3-10 oz (depends on solids intake) of formula. We are trying to drastically up her solids intake (she's been sick, so that affected it) because I'm planning to stop pumping at a year, which will be roughly 4 months, and wean her around then. I need a break, and my body needs a break, and I am so tired of pumping. I would have liked to go longer, but pumping and bottle feeding is so, so, so, so hard, and I wasn't planning to get pregnant this soon either.
I haven't had any issues. No spotting, no cramping. Nipples definitely got painful though both times now when I got pregnant.
EDD/weeks+days: 9 weeks 2 days
Team Finding Out!
Baby is the size of a: Cherry
Upcoming appointments: 2/6 for NP scan
How are you feeling? I'm. So. Tired.
Raves/Rants: Three day weekend coming up! But I have to make it through my high school's registration night from 6-8. I'm trying to be in bed at 8!
Questions: Nope
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? I've started the Criminal Minds and Bones series over. They are such long series and it's been so long I don't really remember the episodes though.
Movies: I love Fifth Element and Pride and Prejudice.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: green
Baby is the size of a(n): little larger than a prune. Can’t remember
Upcoming appointments: next Monday. Nt scan and genetic counselor
How are you feeling? Ok. First Monday back and it was a Monday.
Raves/Rants: some of the indigestion and nausea seems to have chilled a bit 🤩 I also moved the time I take 2 of my meds to morning and have noticed an improvement in insomnia. Heart palpitations and breathing issues have increased though. So 😕
Questions: na
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over?
FRIENDS!
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming appointments: NT and NIPT next Monday.
How are you feeling? I sound like a broken record. Tired, nauseous, painfully bloated.
Raves/Rants: Rants: DS has allegedly been potty trained for about 6 months but he is having accidents every night and During most naps. His school advocates for this really hands off potty training approach, but it’s just not working. I think we are going to have to try something different. I’m tired of doing laundry every day.
Questions: anyone have a tried and true method for curbing nighttime accidents? We tried pull ups for a while, but i think it just got him used to peeing whenever he felt like it at night.
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? The Office, Parks and Rec, and Buffy I can watch any time. I rewatch Mad Men and Freaks and Geeks every few years.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out ASAP- with the NIPT test
Baby is the size of a(n): wild strawberry
Upcoming appointments: I have an appt with my OB this Thursday, then my NT scan and NIPT is scheduled for Feb. 6.
How are you feeling? Pretty rough. Horrible pregnancy insomnia every night makes me toss and turn, plus I can’t stomach coffee, so I’m basically a walking zombie. Thank goodness I can nap when DD naps. Combined with all-day low-level nausea and strong aversions to foods and smells. If I don’t keep up with eating small meals, I get light headed and dizzy.
Emotionally, I’m still a little anxious and will
feel much better after the genetic testing and first tri is over. I want this pregnancy to work out so much.
Raves/Rants:
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? This is embarrassing, but I freaking love Golden Girls. Always puts me in a good mood.
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding Out
Baby is the size of a(n): water bottle cap
Upcoming appointments: 2nd ultrasound and NT scan, January 31.
How are you feeling? SOO emotional! I cried almost the entire time we were watching a war movie last night, then cried again watching YouTube videos earlier. 🤣Breasts are still quite sore. Nausea is pretty much gone today, fingers crossed it stays away!
Raves/Rants:
Questions: Thoughts on fetal dopplers? A few of my friends have used them for their pregnancies and loved it.
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Last week I binged the Twilight movies, but theres no way I could this week without crying. 😂
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out!
Baby is the size of a(n): cherry
Upcoming appointments: NIPT next Friday 1/24!
How are you feeling? On Saturday I was like, “I feel better than I’ve felt in weeks!” And then Sunday and Monday I was feeling so nauseous again.
Raves/Rants: I think my daughter gave me her cold, I woke up with a sore throat. Booo.
Questions: if you are measuring ahead/behind, at what point did your doctor move your due date?
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? My husband and I have watched The West Wing from start to finish many many times. Also love Gilmore Girls and Friends.
@anxiouswife I had a fetal Doppler with my first and I loved it - especially for the middle of pregnancy when you don’t feel them moving all the time. I restrained myself from using it more than once a week and I had to remember that if I was really concerned about the baby I should call my doctor,
not use the Doppler. I loaned it to a friend so if I can get it back I’ll probably use it again
@gomillis we are still in pull-ups for nap and bedtime at almost 4. I’m waiting until she tells me she wants to sleep in underwear or until she wakes up dry 90% of nights. I don’t have the energy to do laundry daily right now. 🤷🏼♀️
@RedBaramid I’m anxious about weight gain. I lost 15 lbs this year for my sister’s wedding and was feeling like the healthiest version of myself for a while. I gained back 5 lbs this fall which I was okay with, and now I know I already have gained about 5 lbs since finding out I’m pregnant. I’m not making bad food choices, I just have to eat so much more than I usually do to keep the nausea at bay. I gained 40lbs with my daughter and ended up back at my pre-baby weight easily by 6 months postpartum, so I’m trying to stay positive. But it’s really hard to feel my clothes all getting tighter and tighter.
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1 LC, girl 5 years old
TTC #2 Summer 2017
BFP 1/5/2018, MC (D & E) 2/23/2018
TTCAL May 2018
BFP 9/20/2018, MC (D & E) 11/16/2018
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Finding out
Baby is the size of a(n): Pecan/Olive
Upcoming appointments: Still waiting for the MFM to call me with an appointment
How are you feeling? Beyond exhausted. I'm still very anxious about this pregnancy. I think I'll feel better once I finally have an appointment and know that everything is on track.
Raves/Rants: I feel like I can barely function, especially at work. I'm also super moody. I had a complete meltdown on the weekend because I ordered a salad and they delivered it without dressing...I really wanted that stupid salad lol.
Questions:
GTKY: what is the movie or show series you watch over and over? Lilo and Stitch, House, Grey's Anatomy, Grand Tour, baking shows.