Middle name is likely Mae but it’s not set in stone. If we have a second child we’d like to use the name George/Georgia but DH feels strongly that we need to pick our favorite of these without worrying about future siblings names complementing each other.
Re: Arwen or Colette?
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
Edited to suggest Nicolette as an alternative if you aren’t sold on Collette
I like Nicolette but my husband’s best friend is Nick and one of mine is Nicole so we probably won’t go there.
Go with a real, female name. Not a made up fictional name because you want to be trendy and do the masculine-name-on-girls trend. It’s overdone and annoying. Georgia is nice, too. But Colette is beautiful, underused, and a real name. Why would it be bad to give a female a feminine name?
That is not harsh at all! Its truth. Honestly my initial response I was going to put, I restrained myself, because I thought it was harsh, but I'll post it now: why would you wait to use George/Georgia? There is no guarantee you will have a second child. There is a such thing as secondary infertility, guess what I'm one of them. There are no guarantees in life!