Am I wrong — The Bump
1st Trimester

Am I wrong

My husband plays video games all the time he is out work do to medical and I feel like he is constantly trying to push me away so he can play call of duty and he plays with a group maybe four people and one which is a girl so he has everyone in our business when I tAlk him or vice versa he had agreed to only play when I’m not home or I’m a sleep and he can’t even do that I’m to the point when I’m about to take it out the house would I be wrong for that

Re: Am I wrong

  • I wouldn’t just take it out of the house. It’s disrespectful. I had a coworker once mention that he felt his wife was on the internet too much in the evenings and said he was thinking about shutting the WiFi off at a certain time. I would be livid if my husband did that. Don’t do that to YH. Especially if you want to foster a caring, trusting partnership.

    it does sound like he has a problem. Sit down and talk to him like an adult that cares for him. Is it partly caused by depression from his current situation? How can he work on that? Counseling, medication, finding a new purpose in life, etc. 
        
    Me: 34 DH: 38
    Married: June 2011
    TTC since Feb 2016
    BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 
    BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
    BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
    knottie62bccc32fb323cc2suzycupcakewearyfuzzball
  • My husband plays video games all the time he is out work do to medical and I feel like he is constantly trying to push me away so he can play call of duty and he plays with a group maybe four people and one which is a girl so he has everyone in our business when I tAlk him or vice versa he had agreed to only play when I’m not home or I’m a sleep and he can’t even do that I’m to the point when I’m about to take it out the house would I be wrong for that
    I'm sure you're probably just venting, but I'd suggest having a grown up conversation with him about it first. Perhaps he doesn't realize how much he is doing it or that it bothers you so much.

    Also, I'm not sure what one of the other players being a girl has to do with anything unless you think he is somehow being unfaithful by playing a video game with another woman, which is kind of a controlling red flag on your part.
    ME: 31  DH: 31 DD: June '16 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
    **Ticker Warning**
    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker
    kiki75suzycupcakewearyfuzzballoklahomak
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards