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GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life?
TTC#2
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
Re: TFAS 1/14
WTO/TWW: WTO
Ages of other child(ren):16 months this week
Thoughts about this cycle: No cycle yet. Going to the doctor this morning to get some answers about HA and what we can do to move this process along.
Questions: none right now
Rant/Rave/Brag: DS has been a lot of fun lately. I am really enjoying this age.
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? I have friends from preschool that I text occasionally but don't see, the next longest friend who is a part of my daily life is 10 years. I find especially after having a baby my friendships have shifted.
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
WTO/TWW: TWW
Ages of other child(ren): 2.25 yrs
Thoughts about this cycle: Trying to think positive but also increasingly discouraged.
Questions: Maybe if anybody has any advice/experience with kids putting things up their nose (see below).
Rant/Rave/Brag: So, we were at church yesterday and I look over and see DD playing with a small, green (lego?) plastic stick, about 3/4 inch long. Not sure where she found it, but she was sticking it in her ear. I took it away and said she can't play with it if she's going to stick it in her ear. Well, out of the corner of my eye, I see her pick up another identical little stick, and shove it up her nose. Immediately she starts sneezing. I grab her, panic, and run out of church. When we get home, we try to figure out if it's still in there (can't see it, but when we ask her if it's still in there, she says yes). I'm still freaking out and crying much more than her (at one point she patted my shoulder and said 'it's okay, Mommy' lol). Anyway so I decide to run back to church really quickly to search for the little stick, in case she had actually sneezed it out. I don't find it (although I do find the other one that I had taken away, which I grab to maybe show to the doctor). When I get home, and I hear screaming inside. Turns out, DD had sneezed and now the thing was sticking ever so slightly out of her nose. DH and I are trying to calm her since we're afraid her thrashing around will send it back up there! Finally with both our manhandling, DH is able to grab the end with a tweezer and pull it out. Then we rocked and cuddled for a few minutes to calm me down. I know it's normal for kids to do that, but DANG! I was not proud of my reaction, hopefully I can keep my cool next time.
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life?
My closest childhood friend that I still contact regularly I met in 6th grade (age 11), close to 20 years ago! I still consider her my bestie, even though she lives in Alaska and I only get to see her every couple of years. We talk regularly on the phone, though.
WTO/TWW: TWW 12 DPO
Ages of other child(ren): 6.5
Thoughts about this cycle: I thought this month was it, our timing was good and my temps look great but all the BFNs have me discouraged now.
Questions: nah
Rant/Rave/Brag: had a good lunch with family yesterday
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? I keep in touch with childhood friends through FB. Most of our friends are couple friends now vs my friends or MH friends. After having a kid things just seem to shift.
@jennifer_louise You can try the Mother's Kiss Method! I have never tried it, but I know other parents who have, and it worked!
https://www.webmd.com/children/news/20121015/mothers-kiss-expel-foreign-objects-kids-noses
@kimmer1412 Really sorry about your BFN!
Month/Cycle: 6/3
WTO/TWW: TWW
Ages of other child(ren): 26 months
Thoughts about this cycle: Not a good cycle for temp tracking (Sleep sucked, plus I lost my BBT), but otherwise our timing was really good, and we managed to stay true to our goal of keeping it spicy. There was only one time out of 6 that I would have rather gone to sleep.
Questions: Not really, no
Rant/Rave/Brag: I had to stay home with DS last week because he had a fever. Whenever he gets a virus, his asthma kicks in, so he always takes longer than most kids to get over it. MH stayed home with him for 2 days, so he got a 5 day weekend of recovery in. Fingers crossed he can stay healthy for a while. MH got really sick really suddenly last night, and I hope it was whatever DS had and not something new. I've managed to escape it so far...
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? Yes. My dad and his best friend have known each other since high school, and even bought their first houses next door to each other. He has 3 girls, and the middle one is my age. She and I have stayed close, despite her living all over the country. We've known each other our whole lives.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
WTO/TWW: CD1- Hello AF
Ages of other child(ren): almost 2.5
Thoughts about this cycle: glad it's over- ready to try again, determined to be better about tracking some things, wondering however if everything is a sign from God that maybe we just aren't going to have a 2nd
Questions: How much do your luteal phases vary? Like one month its 10 days, the next is 11, the next back to 10? How much variation is there? What causes the variation?
Rant/Rave/Brag: Not much- my thoughts about this cycle pretty much sum it all up. And whoever said getting KU for #2 was easier- I think was wrong!
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? ***No, I'm friends on Facebook with some of the girls I went to elementary/high school age group with, and college roommies, but not that we talk on a regular basis. I have some other girlfriends whom I have known for a long time, however being a mom definitely changes those relationships. One of my good friends is a mom now also (we were not mom's when we met) and it's hard to coordinate schedules, even though our kids are young. Also, play dates are not the best time to catch up- chasing 2 year olds.....maybe when they are older.
@shamrocandroll - fingers crossed for you it's this cycle!! And sorry about everyone being sick!! I hope you are able to avoid getting it!!
@kimmer1412 - sorry about the BFN's......TTGP is very trying on so many levels. and couldn't agree more with how relationships shift and change post kids!
@jennifer_louise - argh!! Lego up the nose!! Terrible!!! I can't imagine!! I would probably be a mess too! We were worried our little man gave himself a concussion over the weekend, and were about to make a trip to the ER- so I can only imagine the thoughts going through your mind!! Glad you got it out!
@flinstone-2 - I hope you get some answers soon too....it's so frustrating to be TTGP and even more so when you feel like you have no answers or clue as to what is going on. I don't know much of your background story, but I'm sorry. And- yes 16 months is a fun age for sure, enjoy the snuggles while you can!!! I'm getting a tiny bit heart broken everyday over how independent our son is becoming.....He likes to walk up our stairs to go to bed, and I used to carry him every night
@kimmer1412 Your temps still look good, I am still holding out hope for you.
@shamrocandroll We have used that method many times in this house. Boys vs legos, legos typically always win.
Month/Cycle: 8/6
WTO/TWW: TWW
Ages of other child(ren): 6 & 3
Thoughts about this cycle: I am expecting AF this week. Was supposed to be a benched month, but here we are again. TW still haven't started a cycle after BO just Ovulated instead.
Questions:
Rant/Rave/Brag: My boys were so so bad this weekend. On Saturday we took an hour to get groceries, I have never been so embarrassed in a store and when we got to the car we were all crying. 6YO because he had felt bad that I was crying 3YO because I didn't let him have any candy and me because I was so overwhelmed and forgot half of the crap I went for. Luckily they turned the attitudes around and we had a better weekend after that.
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? My best friend from 7th grade on is still my best friend today. She has boys the exact ages of mine and we see each other a couple of times a week. I am sad because she is about to move away and we will be hours apart, but we will have a room dedicated to sleeping over at their new house and they will have one at ours! Our boys are best friends and they are going on our cruise with us next month!
https://www.thepreggerskitchen.com/short-luteal-phase
The most interesting part to me was this:
"Studies have found that all cycles with a luteal phase of fewer than 9 days were abnormal, and that 74%, 22% and 2% respectively of cycles with luteal phases of 10, 11 and 12 days were also abnormal"
(where abnormal means hormone imbalance). I haven't checked on the scientific rigor of the referenced cite (but lol, as a science nerd I so want to) but I found it interesting! Did you have a short-ish LP when you were TTC #1? I did, and had no trouble getting KU.
@shamrocandroll hope you stay healthy! And thanks for that! I think we found that page when we were desperately googling but thankfully didn't need to resort to it this time. I called my dad after (he's a retired veterinarian and my go-to person) and he said thankfully bodies are usually good at rejecting foreign objects. Then he told me a story about a dog who swallowed a roll of quarters (and passed it without problems). He has the best (read: grossest) stories. ♥️
Editted to add cite.
WTO/TWW: ?
Ages of other child(ren): 16 months
Thoughts about this cycle: well we just keep gettin it on at least EOD so we ha e a decent chance.
Questions: I give up figuring this cycle out my thermometer is getting here next week though (ugh back order)
Rant/Rave/Brag: Hubby wants to tey the whole 30 diet and I'm not really thrill but I'm trying to be supportive. I weigh less than ore baby but he still has his "pregnancy weight"
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? My best friend and I have been friends since we were 8 years old!
WTO/TWW: WTO
Ages of other child(ren): 2.5 years
Thoughts about this cycle: put a long update in WTO, but basically my OB is fairly certain of a PCOS diagnosis. On today's ultrasound, I did have one dominant follicle, so we're going to keep at it this cycle (CD30 today). If no O confirmed by OPK/temping in about 10 days, depending on labwork, we'll start Provera and then likely Letrozole.
Questions: I guess not right now.
Rant/Rave/Brag: Lazy, lazy, lazy weekend. It was glorious. But....for several reasons (school, upcoming travel, etc) - it's time to get serious about potty training. Need to mark it on my calendar and MAKE IT HAPPEN, CAPTAIN.
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? My middle school / high school BF and I keep in touch, but we're not "close" per se. My closest friends are my college friends, with a mix of med school friends in there too. Crazy that my college friends and I have known each other 19 years, though! (Hey.....I'm OLD.)
@jennifer_louise OMG I'm so sorry! That is straight up a parent's worse nightmare. I'm so glad that YD is okay. My DS is starting to put things in his nose/ear/mouth but he's 4 and he never used to do it, so it's taken us by surprise.
@kimmer1412 Glad that you had a good lunch.
@shamrocandroll Oh no! Hope that your household gets better soon.
@MNturnsVA I totally agree, for me there's a bit more stress for TTC #2 then there was with #1. And don't think that you aren't meant to have another... in the scheme of things, it hasn't been too long yet.
@klmcguire I definitely have had that experience at the store
@daisy0322 Sorry that you are still in limbo
Month/Cycle: 4/4
WTO/TWW: WTO
Ages of other child(ren): DS is 4
Thoughts about this cycle: Also a little hopeful. I feel like I'm definitely going a little overboard but if it's successful, then it wasn't for nothing.
Questions: nope
Rant/Rave/Brag: Today is DS' first day back to school and it's pouring rain! I'm really hoping that he's good at school (we've been struggling with him sharing and when he doesn't get his way, he breaks down and cries).
GTKY: Other than my twin sister, not really.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
@jennifer_louise: I have all these visions of myself being calm when things like that happen. I'm not calm...Oh, well. Glad it all turned out okay!
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
i called my doc to make an appointment and she can't get me in until February 1st. At least I have an appointment though! They're doing an ultrasound I guess but I'm not sure why.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
As for your ultrasound, maybe it's because you'll be KU by then!! (I'll be hoping that anyways).
@shamrocandroll noooo! Feel better!!
@stephanie123456 better to go overboard than underboard and wish you'd done more! Is your hubby all better from his surgery? (aka will HIO be easier this month?)
@lcking82 same boat with potty training. Just gotta suck it up. MAKE IT HAPPEN CAPTAIN is my new personal motto .
Update: talked to the nurse pretty sure she's thinks im an idiot who's taking hpts instead of opks
Month/Cycle: 1/1
WTO/TWW: WTO
Ages of other child(ren): 22 months
Thoughts about this cycle: Well had peak smiley face today on my opk so DH and I were able to have a quickie this am before he left on his work trip. We HIO yesterday and Saturday also so hopefully that is good. We might do it Wednesday night when he comes back just in case.
Questions: Last time I got KU I ate pineapple core after O, has anyone else done this and remember how many days you are supposed to eat it for?
Rant/Rave/Brag: Terrible twos starting early- DD had an epic meltdown this weekend when we were out and about because I packed a green cup and she wanted a blue one....ugh. We did get one poop in the potty on Saturday and Sunday but she still is clueless about pee.
Also I am a big game of thrones fan and they announced the start date of the final season and I am super pumped!
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? My two oldest best friends that I am still close with and talk to I have known since Sophomore of high school so almost 20 years! Next oldest after that I have been friends with since sophomore year of college so 16 years.
WTO/TWW: WTO
Ages of other child(ren): 4 and 2
Thoughts about this cycle: Last cycle was 50 days (!!!), and not knowing when I ovulated was terrible. Being more in control with temping, charting, etc., will hopefully minimize the frustration.
Questions: Nope
Rant/Rave/Brag: It's been a long couple days with the snow. My kids are going crazy being cooped up (fun outside didn't last long), and my 4yo is sick anyway, so don'y want him getting worse. Praying for school tomorrow!
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? Honestly, my only real friends are from childhood or teen years; living far away from family/friends and being the only ones with kids where we are really is pretty isolating. My closest friends are from around age 10-12.
Spartanrd4 I ate pinapple too. I think it is 5 days? Until implantation?
BTW I'm really liking reading everyone's friendship GTKYs.
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
WTO/TWW: WTO CD5
Ages of other child(ren): 13 months
Thoughts about this cycle: I was so shocked by how short the last one was and didn’t expect AF for like a week. Either we completely missed the FW (unlikely as I had EWCM and a + OPK) or my LP was very short, which it seems to have been the cycle before, my first since giving birth).
Questions: How long have your LP been since birth? Did you notice a difference when BF?
Rant/Rave/Brag: my son is getting over a nasty stomach bug and cold, just in time to start tantrums
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life?
We moved a lot. I stay closest with HS and college friends, but don’t get to see them too often as they are all over the place.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
@flinstone-2 and @Spartanrd4 - tell me more about this pineapple thing!! I've never heard about it...
Month/Cycle: 4/3
WTO/TWW: TWW
Ages of other child(ren): 6.5 years
Thoughts about this cycle: We had really great timing this month!! DH said we made a baby but I'm starting to get discouraged... we shall see in a few days.
Questions:
Rant/Rave/Brag: DS had a rough week at school last week with listening and talking, which is very unlike him (as he's a little rule follower in school), so we had to have a serious talk about how to behave at school and what consequences will happen if he doesn't start listening to his teacher again. He wrote her an apology letter and things turned right back around the next day! I guess I made my point pretty clear to him haha
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life? - My longest friendship is with my "person" of 18 years. Everyone says we look a like, although we don't see it, and is constantly asking if we are sisters! Today is her birthday
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
@flinstone-2 Heyyyy! I thought I recognized you and @daisy0322!
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Month/Cycle: 3
WTO/TWW: WTO
Ages of other child(ren): Our son is almost 2.
Thoughts about this cycle: Nothing yet.. CD1, gimme all the chocolate.
Questions: Not really, but one thing I am quite concerned about is affording 2 in daycare. We live in a pretty high cost area. We will not get a discount with the second since we already have a 10% discount on our account. Not sure what I'm expecting anyone to say besides budget, save, cut costs etc., but if anyone has tips I'd love to hear them.
Rant/Rave/Brag: DS is starting to talk more and its cute. Rant, we've had some very difficult daycare drop-offs the past few days. I don't really know why as he loves his teachers and used to just strut right in like he owned the place
GTKY: Do you have any friends from childhood that you are still very close with? If not, what is the next longest friendship you have in your life?
My BFF from kindergarten is still one of my BFFs. Our other BFF we started to get close with in like 6th or 7th grade.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
@jennifer_louise that experience with DD sounds so stressful! I don't have personal experience with DS doing that (yet) but my brother and cousins put stuff up their nones frequently when we were all kids and my parents die laughing telling the stories now. Of course they didn't think it was that funny at the time and a couple times my cousins ended up in the ER, once when my parents were babysitting them before my parents had kids.
@kimmer1412 so sorry about the BFN.
@MNturnsVA My LP has never varied from 10 days, which is on the short side I guess. @jennifer_louise posted some interesting info. I agree it is hard to use playdate time to catch up!
@shamrocandroll I LOLed at your assessment of BD this time around. 1/6 where you'd rather have gone to sleep is pretty good IMO! Thank you for posting about your financial success! That is a great idea about the planner. Congratulations on paying off your debt!
@klmcguire so sorry you had a tough experience at the grocery! My son is totally like that too and is an absolute terror 9/10 in public.
@daisy0322 Whole30 scares me! MH is also on a diet (he has a lot of weight to lose honestly) and I am also trying to be supportive but one time I mentioned I wanted McDonalds and he gave me such a withering look. I felt so bad! (But I still wanted McDs.)
@SpartanRd4 that is great that your DD is starting to potty train! My son is about the same age as your DD and I seriously doubt his ability to do that. He isn't as good at communicating although he is getting there.
@NYTino24 I didn't track while BF, but I think many women can have a shorter LP while BF.