This is my first time posting on any of these message boards... so hopefully I'm posting in the right spot. If not, I apologize!
My husband and I have been ttc for around 4 months now. Every month I've gotten my period on time (or else a day early), which is normal for me.
Anyways... my period was supposed to be here on 1/7 and never showed up... no spotting or anything at all (which is weird for me).
I took 3 First Response 6 days early tests... 1 on the first day of my missed period, another on the 2nd and another this morning. All came back as bfn...
So don't really know what's going on with that... If you have gotten a bfp after a missed period how many days until it showed up as a bfp? I'm hoping af isn't late... but we will see. Not going to get my hopes up.
Thank you!!!!!
Re: How many days after missed period did you get a BFP?
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Were you tracking at all? OPKs? BBT? Otherwise there’s really no way to know if you’re truly late. It’s normal for people’s cycles to fluctuate within a few days month to month.
If you decide to stick around, please intro yourself in the newbie thread and participate in our daily threads. We discourage one off posts like this but you’ll find this is a very knowledgeable and supportive community if you decide to stick around.
Also if you are in fact KU, please don’t update us and just move on to your BMB
Change wizard to period and you will find your answer.
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
@johaniha You either need to recognize that this was a period that was late and proceed as though that were the case and start temping and TTC again OR take a test to try and determine if it was a MC. Please do not just assume it was a MC just because your period was 'late' according to you. If you get a BFP and are still bleeding/cramping, you should call your doctor immediately to determine if the PG is viable and/or track your hcg down to 0.