I definitely don't love when someone at the table suggests to just "split a bunch of stuff." No.DD looked just like me in the early days and then transformed into DH as she got older. It actually makes me really happy because I used to hate when people would be like "she's all you!" and make it sound like DH had nothing to do with producing this child or worse, like he wasn't even her dad or something. It annoyed me because DH is very hands on with DD and is just awesome with her, so I always felt bad for him whenever someone would make it sound like I got all the credit. I love now when people say she looks just like him.
My husband and I will occasionally share food, normally it situations where we both want to try more the. One thing on the menu so one of us will get something and then we will give each other half so we each get roughly the same amount of each dish. That said we always agree on that prior to ordering, and there are times where one of us says no to it.My biggest pet peeve when it comes to dining out with people is when everyone decides, generally after the meal is completed, to split the bill evenly. It’s almost always a situation where everyone else at the table has had multiple rounds of expensive drinks while I’ve just had water so I end up paying way more then my share of the bill. I don’t mind treating others to things, but I feel like that’s a decision I should get to make, not have forced on me.