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toybear

There has been some miscommunication & misunderstanding, unfortunately, I cannot delete my apologies. Please excuse all other posts and my attitude. 

meatballs37

Seriously....this is the 3rd one off post you have made about your mono di twins. Please read the announcements at the top of the board. 

All three of your one off posts could have easily gone into the below categories 
-introduction
-ultrasounds
-gender/sex

toybear

I have posted under each of those. Actually, the gender/sex is where I put this particular post. R u the admin? 

toybear

If u r the admin then u r more than welcome to delete it if it's a problem. 

meatballs37

toybear said:

Girls! I am so excited about the news! My hubb & kids took it a different way because they expected for them to be boys but I knew with all their hoping & praying; they were going to be girls. I did not care what gender they were long as they come out happy & healthy. Now I know I am going through baby names & I found it is harder to find out 2 names versus one  But I will keep everyone updated on the progress......Congratulations to all the moms & M2B. 

toybear said:

I have posted under each of those. Actually, the gender/sex is where I put this particular post. R u the admin? 

Actually you posted three separate posts of your own gushing about your twins gender, intro, and ultrasound.

And no, I am not an admin, just a mom who had mono-di twins pass away in 2017 who feels triggered that you keep making SS posts about your twins without contributing to the community. 

nmbrcrnchr1

@toybear this isn’t under the gender/sex thread. Nor have you posted anything in the right place on this board, except for today where your question on BF actually went on the right thread. When responding to a thread you need to scroll down and type in the box at the bottom, then click “Post Reply”. Do NOT hit “new discussion” bc that’s what creates new threads.

coco2787

This is an established community.  You haven't introduced yourself or provided support to any other moms on this board.  No one knows who you are and no one is the least bit invested in your pregnancy.  

Dcwtada

We are all excited/anxious for our pregnancies here. This isnt Xanga with dear diary posts (did I date myself here lol) be part of the community and give support and you will get the same, and don’t clutter the board unnecessarily. That is all we ask. 

chachacharrrmin

@Dcwtada Xanga!!! Oh em gee, that does bring me back. I would absolutely CRINGE if I read my posts today 😂

Dcwtada

Lmao @wearyfuzzball I used to think I was so clever and had all these big ideas. Spoiler alert... I was not and did not. Cringeworthy is absolutely right. 

pbtoast

Xanga! Just thinking about it makes me cringe. 

toybear

How am I suppose to know that u had MoDi twins that passed away? I am sorry for your loss but don't try to get on my post and ruin my excitement about my happiness. If it's affecting u that bad then don't read my posts u r more than welcome to ignore them. I have lost children before but it is not going to stop me from sharing my excitement with other moms, I am not on here to be beaten by someone who wants to rain on someone else's parade. U have a nice life, take care, & God Bless. 

toybear

Yeah I c that now & considering I cannot erase the post (which I have tried), it's done & it's there no one has to respond & I will stop posting on here because I am not going to hide my excitement because someone wants to be rude. 

toybear

I am new here, I did not know to scroll down before replying, TBH honest I thought I was doing that. When I figured out that I had done it incorrectly, I tried to delete the posts but I cannot that's why I asked if she was the admin so she could. I am done with this conversation and post because I cannot support someone who wants to rain on someone else's excitement. I got the message, I am done there will be anymore post so please leave it alone. Take care, God Bless. GoodBye 

toybear

1st of all I have introduced myself, shared ultrasounds, gender/sex to all of which I thought was under the right post. I am new here & as I was going through the messages I was trying to read & get to know someone. Damn, I said what I said, my apologies I am NOT going to post anything else. Everyone take care & God Bless. GoodBye 

meatballs37

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toybear

@coco2787, @Dcwtada, @wearyfuzzball, @pbtoast

toybear

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meatballs37

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Qfp 

Dcwtada

toybear said:

@coco2787, @Dcwtada, @wearyfuzzball, @pbtoast

Yes? 

chachacharrrmin

You clearly came here looking for attention without giving any suppprt whatsoever. Many of us have been on this board for 2+ months now, and we continue to welcome new woman each and every day who are looking for a supportive community. Typically they come in, introduce themselves, participate in our weekly/monthly threads, provide support for ladies going through tough times, celebrate those with great news and receive all of the above back. You came in, created 3 seperate posts about yourself, participated in absolutely no threads, clearly did not try get to know anyone here and then attacked some of our most supportive members. 

BlondePeanut

No one is asking you to contain excitement. We are all happy/excited/anxious here about our pregnancies. We are a very supportive group and being one of the members who has gone through something stressful with my pregnancy, I have experienced that great level of support from the other ladies. That being said, the very top posts list how the board works and also the proper place to introduce yourself and your ultrasounds so you can be an active part of the group. We all follow the same guidelines that are listed. There are many ladies who have gone through painful losses, and we have had a handful of our members lose their beautiful babies that were  due in June. There is a high level of support and protection we have for eachother and while making one mistake against the guidelines is one thing, you were asked to follow the rules and kept one off posting and upset one of our regulars. You are not being singled out, everyone is treated the same and asked to follow the same rules. We have had to deal with a few people coming on here trying to start trouble and upset members, and we just don't have any level of tolerance for that kind of crap.  

toybear

@wearyfuzzball I haven't had the chance to support anyone because I started being attacked from the beginning, I made a mistake, I cannot delete them. I did not mean to overcrowd the board that was never my intention nor would I ever try to be disrespectful about someone else's loss, I have been there. I would not provide support to other moms or M2B. That is not my personality or attitude, if they can be deleted I am more than happy to do so please tell me how & there won't be any problems. Thank you 

meatballs37

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toybear

@BlondePeanut TBH I do not even c the guidelines post, I am looking for them on the posts now to read it. I have had problems, I am not on here to hurt anyone about their pregnancies or their losses, I have had those experiences & I know they are hopeful. I just got here so I cannot offer support with reading posts & learning about everyone & their triggers before being attacked, it just doesn't work that way. I have never had a problem from any group or offered support so to get these types of reactions r new to me. 

toybear

Look @wearyfuzzball I am not going back and forth with u. Take care & God Bless. 

TJtheGoat

toybear

@TJtheGoat Geez...Nobody!! Take care, God Bless. 

vv826

then before posting anything you should've taken some time to get to know some of the ladies here it's not hard to click around and read. This is a community where you get and GIVE support. you keep saying goodbye yet keep responding🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

emeraldcity603

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meatballs37

@emeraldcity603 ❤️

nmbrcrnchr1

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emeraldcity603

@nmbrcrnchr1 I miss all of you soooooo much. ❤

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