Good morning

jenniferrogers2018

2nd time mom, edd 8/16/19. Our son will be 13 years old in Feb. Have had 3 losses with the last loss in may this summer. Praying this sticks and we have our rainbow. Feeling so blessed. Take care and have a very Merry Christmas!

deecherise

Hi @jenniferrogers2018, it's nice to meet you! In this BMB, we don't post threads about ourselves so that order can be maintained. Check out the board organization thread to get an idea of how everything works. I look forward to getting to know you better!

law_and_little1

**Removed for TOU violation**

WinchesterGirl

**Removed for TOU violation**

law_and_little1

What a perfect and very telling illustration. 

deecherise

@law_and_little1 if you dislike how things are organized here, why come here and bash it? I personally dislike the disorganized chaos of the WTE boards, but you don't see me going over there and attacking them for it.

law_and_little1

@deecherise - Totally agree that it's a matter of personal preference. Though I never bashed this space. I called it monitored, structured, and regulated  --which it is -- and some enjoy that. Really just intended to offer another option to a woman who was reaching out for support after experiencing great loss.  

suzycupcake

law_and_little1 said:

@deecherise - Totally agree that it's a matter of personal preference. Though I never bashed this space. I called it monitored, structured, and regulated  --which it is -- and some enjoy that. Really just intended to offer another option to a woman who was reaching out for support after experiencing great loss.  

Don’t forget about rigid and that everyone over there is welcoming and responsive. 

law_and_little1

@suzycupcake - Well, it is rigidly monitored here. That's true; whether it's a good or bad thing depends on what you like.

And everyone over there is welcoming and responsive; that doesn't mean people can't be welcoming and responsive here too.

Though I can't help but notice that nobody offered a word of empathy to this woman who experienced 3 losses; instead the concern was that "order is maintained."  

And my post, which offered empathy and then told her about another community option with less regulation, got removed for violating something - I'd be truly curious to know which term of use that could possibly violate. 

Yet the sarcastic eye roll gif remains. 

This sequence of events tells me a lot about this community. 

WinchesterGirl

It is against TOU to direct people from this forum to another forum. FWIW, I didn't report you. 

law_and_little1

Thanks for the information, @WinchesterGirl - I wonder why that is. Maybe to prevent advertising / promotion or something. Anyway, I don't think this thread needs to continue; it is already a bit silly. Happy holidays everyone.