June 2019 Moms

UO - 12/13

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Re: UO - 12/13

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  • @skatejawn27 i dont know if you heard but this spring there was a bus accident where a bunch of hockey players were killed and some survived - it was so awful one family was told their son was dead but due to the team all dying their hair blond it was a mix up. There was an innocent enough go fund me page set up fairly immediately to help the families. It got out of control and something like 15 million dollars was raised. A committee had to be organized to determine how to split the money between survivors and families of the deceased. A judge recently had to approve a release of some funds as the rest hasnt been sorted out. Dont get me wrong i believe the families are in need of the money on both sides but the excessive donations are going to tie things up for a long time and have probably led to some animosity amongst the families.
  • @canuckbaby Wow, that is horrible in so many ways!! 

  • I guess a true UO, that might conflict with how much I hate internet begging, is that I think giving homeless people cash money is more beneficial than giving them food or whatever else.
  • I hate chicken unless it's boneless and fried, or slathered in enough sauce that I can't taste it in its actual state. Didn't like it before BFP, and it's even worse now.

    @skatejawn27 Have you ever read When Helping Hurts? Super fascinating book. Basic premise: handouts on the street are just as harmful to the giver as the recipient (creates a savior complex while reinforcing the second-class status of the recipient), and giving of time and treasure through services and organizations who walk alongside people in financial need is a much better investment, but understanding of what poverty truly is (not always financial) is key. I don't even work in a field that deals with that but it was still super eye-opening to my own assumptions and biases and tendencies. (That said, I've loooooved following Rodney Smith on Twitter and watching all his videos of making homeless folks' Christmas wishes come true.)
  • Truly all my love @TJtheGoat
  • Oh @Dcwtada that breaks my heart. Wow. That story will stay with me for a very long time. 

    ❤️ @TJtheGoat
  • I think assuming that all cash given goes to drugs or alcohol is awful.  People can use money to pay the costs of shelters (yep, many shelters require a small payment).  Women can use it to buy pads/tampons.  People can use it to buy food for their animals.  People can use it to buy a coke at McDonalds and have a place to warm up, charge a phone, etc. 
  • @skatejawn27 i agree its not that i want to give a meal for risk of spending on drugs or alcohol. I dont really care if thats what they use it for i just have a hard time giving $ when i have seen someone buskar and then hop in their new car.... if someone declines a meal they are obviously not starving but i also live in a city with different resources. I had someone decline my offer of coffee because he had too much already
  • So the Christmas song that really gets me is not Baby Its Cold Outside, it’s actually Santa Baby. 

    I feel like it perpetuates this idea that women are helpless to get nice things without the help of a man. If you want the convertible, go out and work for it girl! 

    I’ll get off my soapbox now. 
  • @ki1244 well yeah some songs are annoying AF. I personally prefer boney ms christmas album for my Christmas time songs. Beyond that i could give a flying f to listen to any christmas songs in general. 
  • @Dcwtada - Bless you and your husband for the work that you do. 
    I'm new to my teeny, tiny MS town and am appalled at the hunger and food insecurity here. I've never seen anything like it in my life. We're very close with the Police Chief of our town and the stories....my God, the stories.

    And the pet food......I have no words. 
  • Female Santa is a joke, right? Like...that can't be serious....
  • @canuckbaby :open_mouth: Totally agree—come up with another, female-centric story or tradition, demonstrate some creativity. I mean, someone’s rolling in Elf on the Shelf money; it can be done. It actually bothers me when people try to co-opt characters that are traditionally of one gender because it’s like, you couldn’t be bothered to come up with something equal or better? We read a book in my book club that was about a female Sherlock Holmes. Yet the character could have been a perfectly compelling detective without being so derivative. And in fact, the female “Sherlock” bore no similarity in back story to the male Sherlock, which just tells me the author couldn’t be bothered to come up with her own mysteries (since her cases aligned closely to the originals). I think it does a disservice to women or those who identify as gender neutral to be derivative. It tells me we’re not special enough to warrant our own unique characters.
  • @Bababatty lol yes someone is wiping their ass with elf on a shelf money. Saw another post asking people to refer to father christmas as person christmas. Shit like this makes me wish i wasnt bringing a child into this world. 

    Your female sherlock holmes author seems like a bandwagon jumper looking to score with people who are looking to identify with a character of that nature. Hello the new ghostbusters movie... that was awful. 
  • @marijaa333, I legit laughed out loud at this. Now if that ain’t the truth!
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  • @marijaa333 omg soooo funny cause its true.  My husband is a delivery driver and he calls me at work from time to time to Google map things.  Not for how to get to it just for an idea of whats around it. Hes directionally challenged when it comes to what is north or south but tell him its by the 7 11 and the mcdonalds and bam he knows what you talkin bout
  • My UO - I don’t like Stranger Things. 😵😬 I’m sorry @eleven_!!! I’ve watched them all- I just can’t get into it whatsoever. 

    FWIW I love Millie Bobby Brown 😅
  • eleven_eleven_ member
    edited December 2018
    @whitney812

    That cut me deep  ;)

    It's okay. A lot of people love Fear of The Walking Dead and I have tried to get into it and just don't like it 🤷‍♀️
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    BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
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  • on that note I don't like The Walking Dead period.
  • To continue on that note I've never watched the walking the dead, fear the walking dead, stranger things, or the Kardashians 😂🤣
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  • @Penguin81 Walking The Dead  :D


    TW
    Me: 33 DH: 32
    DS:  March 2014
    DD: May 2015
    BFP: 12/24/17 CP: 1/2/18 @ 4w 3d
    BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
    BFP: 5/16/18 MMC: 6/15/18 @ 7w 5d
    BFP: 9/25/18! EDD: 6/9/19 TEAM GREEN  <3 

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  • I'm at the time in my life that I have absolutely no desire to get drunk. Even if I wasn't pregnant it just doesn't appeal to me. I have a 2 yr old that is difficult as is, I couldn't imagine trying to manage with a hangover.

    I did that enough in college, I'm a grown ass adult. 

    Plus my 2 yr old nephew had a liver transplant earlier in the year and that was hard and stressful. I want to take care of my liver as much as possible.
  •  :D sure that too
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  • Okay so, I hate bows on newborn girls. I hate any kind of headgear that is meant to say “my baby is a girl” before the age of 6months or maybe even older. I don’t know why I just really don’t like how it looks and feel it’s too much. I’m sorry 😬
  • catmommaccatmommac member
    edited December 2018
    @cricket1688 Me too! I told DH, no bows! No headbands! He said that his mom will probably buy some. I’m not putting them on! I get to dress her until she can say otherwise!
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