Random Week of 10/8

psychobutthead

Ok ladies I thought it was time for a new thread. Post away. 

chloe97

DH is leaving tomorrow for 4 day work trip to Clearwater Beach FL and now they are predicting a tropical storm/hurricane at the end of the week when he is supposed to come home. The thought of him leaving me home 4 days alone pregnant, nauseous, and caring for a toddler all by myself is giving me serious anxiety already, but now I’m freaking out he will be stuck there. He works with his mom and she’s going with so I have like no backup. I don’t know how single moms do it.

eatinwatermelonseeds

I had a dream last night that I met Eminem and hung out at his house. The next day, when he didn't call, I went to his house and snuck in the back (with my son 😂). He caught me of course, andand flip out calling me a stalker but I maintained that I was looking for my ankle bracelet I thought I might have dropped there. He had me come over and he and a friend roasted me on the radio and I just got up and left. Some girl told him he needed to apologize to me because I seemed sincere 😂

It was weird as hell. 

megsb615

@chloe97 Hopefully he won’t get stuck there. We we’re planning to go to the beach (Atlantic side of FL due to the red tide) on Thursday, so I’m hoping this doesn’t mess up our trip. The weather seems like it’s going to be fine. It seems like it’s going from the panhandle of Florida, through Georgia and to the Carolinas. That’s the last I’ve heard anyway. Fingers crossed for you! I don’t know how single moms do it either. Being pregnant and keeping up with a toddler is a whole new ball game.

@eatinwatermelonseeds That’s hilarious! I’ve also been having weird dreams the past few nights. 

So I have the day off for Columbus Day, and I’ve been so excited for a “me” day, and here I am not able to go back to sleep and looking at this fun fall festival type thing I could take DS to with a petting zoo, hay ride, pumpkins, locomotive train, pony rides, carousel, corn maze, etc. Sounds so fun, but husband is at work, and I’d want him to be able to go too. I’m pretty sure they do this every Sunday anyway. I finally get a day off, and I’m still thinking about things to do with the kid. 🤦🏼‍♀️

peachy13

The sex dreams have begun! 

eatinwatermelonseeds

@msb615 ah mom life. I swear any time DH and I get a date (like once every two years 😭) all we do is talk about our kid lol

SpaceBurger

@peachy13 The sex dreams are so great. Best symptom of being pregnant haha

megsb615

@eatinwatermelonseeds Yesss! We do too. It’s like have we really gotten that boring that we have nothing else to talk about besides our child when we finally get a break from him? Bless it. 🤦🏼‍♀️

kvh22

@chloe97 I'm right there with you and have been having the same thought about single moms with kids, especially while pregnant. Good luck this week and I hope YH doesn't get stuck. DH leaves Wednesday morning and will be gone for 8 days, although had the option to fly home for Friday night to Sunday morning which I'm kind of pissed he didn't take now that I feel like crap. This trip has been semi-planned for months and he knew there was his college football game on Saturday which was all fine but he didn't book until last week and now that I'm pregnant dealing with an almost 14 month old, I could really have used his help. They're cross-country flights, so not super easy, but still, would have been worth it in my opinion.

psychobutthead

We were fucking robbed! Idk wtf we are going to do someone robbed my husbands tools from the company van. 

eatinwatermelonseeds

@psychobutthead wtf?! Your cars?? Or your house? That's horrible! 

psychobutthead

eatinwatermelonseeds said:

@psychobutthead wtf?! Your cars?? Or your house? That's horrible! 

Our cars.  Mine had nothing in it but my husband's work van had all his tools and they stole them all!

SpaceBurger

@psychobutthead are you guys insured?

knottie0d8cc4d43bacc09f

Omg @psychobutthead I'm so sorry! How scary. This is the last thing you need right now. Were his tools insured by any chance? I bet you can submit a claim for the valued amount regardless. 

kbeers13

@psychobutthead Oh my gosh! That happened to my father in law. He ended up having to buy everything again because the tools belonged to him not the company. He was able to write it all off as work expenses during tax season though. 

psychobutthead

secicc12 said:

Omg @psychobutthead I'm so sorry! How scary. This is the last thing you need right now. Were his tools insured by any chance? I bet you can submit a claim for the valued amount regardless. 

No they weren't insured.

I have no idea what we are going to do.  Electrician tooks are expensive.

sleepy33

They should be covered under your homeowner's policy @psychobutthead

SpaceBurger

DAMNIT. This entire day goes by and no one walks into my office........until I accidentally fart. Then the world comes marching in. 

mrsclark731

The crazy dreams have begun here as well. I’m waiting for the sex dreams to start again...those are a-okay in my book. Last night I dreamed I helped Anthony Bordain fake his death by driving him in a green Range Rover to a remote airport? So weird. 

brie_and_almonds

@psychobutthead That suuuucks. Hopefully insurance will cover then.

If anyone wants to laugh at me, I think I totally outed myself on Goodreads (to several of my coworkers if they actually look at those feeds -- we're English teachers so they probably do) by opening the Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy on my kindle, which syncs my "currently reading" to Goodreads.

zuuls_mom

@psychobutthead I am so sorry!! That's terrible! I would definitely look into whether or not your homeowners insurance would have covered those. Hopefully you guys can get reimbursed! 

megsb615

@psychobutthead I’m so sorry! That’s awful. I can’t stand a thief. 

psychobutthead

We are going to call the insurance tomorrow and see what they say. 

My neighbor saw someone in a silver car take off an get out of my husbands. Van yet the dumbass didnt call the cops even though it was 1 am. 

Next silver car i see on my stteet late at night I'm getting my husband's rifle out. 

megsb615

I feel sorry for the lady doing my pedicure. I haven’t had one since April, and my feet are rough.. literally. She had to get the cheese grater out. I should really do better. My feet (and nail lady) would thank me. 

eatinwatermelonseeds

@psychobutthead that's such bullshit, I'm so sorry you're going through that. I hope your insurance will cover it. What crappy ass neighbors. We've had our car robbed multiple times, shit vandalized. We used to have a boat my husband would work on frequently and our neighbor (we're about 1000% positive it was him but he found a blind spot in our camera) would go piss on it. 

eatinwatermelonseeds

I just woke up from a nap and I feel hung over. I also am on a self pity train for some reason. I reactivated my Facebook (I've had it deactivated for almost a year now, but will occasionally browse through to see how people are doing before I'm quickly reminded why I deactivated) the other day, and I scrolled through and like half my classmates have already taken the NCLEX and have jobs lined up. And I am so glad to be pregnant but I feel like I can't accept a residency because I can't commit to a full year, and no one wants to hire a new grad outside of that. So I'm just sitting on the side lines watching all my friends get the things I really wanted. Which sounds so shitty. I wanted a baby, I just didn't know I could have one. And I can, so I should stop bitching and be grateful. One girl in particular passed her NCLEX and is starting my dream job. Which was so hard to read. Which again is shitty, because she's a kick-ass nurse and person and fucking deserves it. *Sigh* okay I'm done lol. Wahwahwah I just napped in the middle of the day, how terrible my life is 😂

psychobutthead

eatinwatermelonseeds said:

I just woke up from a nap and I feel hung over. I also am on a self pity train for some reason. I reactivated my Facebook (I've had it deactivated for almost a year now, but will occasionally browse through to see how people are doing before I'm quickly reminded why I deactivated) the other day, and I scrolled through and like half my classmates have already taken the NCLEX and have jobs lined up. And I am so glad to be pregnant but I feel like I can't accept a residency because I can't commit to a full year, and no one wants to hire a new grad outside of that. So I'm just sitting on the side lines watching all my friends get the things I really wanted. Which sounds so shitty. I wanted a baby, I just didn't know I could have one. And I can, so I should stop bitching and be grateful. One girl in particular passed her NCLEX and is starting my dream job. Which was so hard to read. Which again is shitty, because she's a kick-ass nurse and person and fucking deserves it. *Sigh* okay I'm done lol. Wahwahwah I just napped in the middle of the day, how terrible my life is 😂

I know how. You feel.  My whole marriage has been like that.  Seeing everyone else have what i dreamed off and me never having it because my husband refuses to be my partner and help me as much as Inhave helped him.  I know yours is about nursing but I related. Tl the watching other people live your dreams. 

Also your pissing neighbor is a dick.  If hes still your neighbor light a bag of dog crap on his porch next time. 

eatinwatermelonseeds

@psychobutthead I used to feel that, too. But my husband has gotten his shit together a lot. With a lot of fighting and several times talking about divorce. He's gone about 90% of the time working and in school right now but over the summer I was doing my preceptorship working 12 hour nights and he was my rock. He's also pushed me to even become a nurse. When I didn't get into nursing school my third try I wanted to quit and just decorate cakes 😂 he said fuck no. And made me become a nurse. Facebook sucks for that, too, though. You don't see everything. Or how much your favorite couple fights. Or when he forgot her birthday or got drunk and puked on her cat. You just see what they want you to see. Big reason I deactivated. 

stringofhearts

@psychobutthead I’m so sorry that your cars were burgled. I can’t believe your neighbor! I’m really hoping the tools are covered by your insurance. 

chloe97

Here’s something extremely annoying. I had a registry with DD that is listed on TBs registry site. It hasnt gone away even though DD 14 months old. Well, I guess TB is pulling the new data about this pregnancy because it lists me as having a registry for my baby due May 27, 2019. Anyone who googled DH and my name would find it. Second time moms should check this out if you put your info into the app. Not cool at all.

SpaceBurger

GUYS, the BBQ place I went to just now had complimentary soft serve AND a pickle bar. Dreams really do come true!

eatinwatermelonseeds

@SpaceBurger where are you again? I need to come visit. 

DuchessOfCambridge

@chloe97 what!! Not cool!

@psychobutthead I’m so sorry, I hope it all gets sorted

@msb615  I always like to tell myself they’ve definitely seen worse and it makes me feel better 😂

@eatinwatermelonseeds that sounds really hard. Also, thank you so much for sharing. I’m really focused on when I want to have babies but I’m also starting nursing school soon and baby 3 would fall around NCLEX/new job time. I really don’t want to push off kids but maybe it would be smart to do that and just focus on me.

eatinwatermelonseeds

@DuchessOfCambridge even if I had gotten pregnant in December (I graduated in August, taking NCLEX in October and should've started working a residency this month) I would've been able to work through the residency and would've been good. If I go somewhere else, the residencies are shorter, but the hospital I want to work at is a magnet hospital and is where I did my preceptorship so I know I love it. It's also the only hospital that isn't 40 minutes away from where we live. If we could've planned, December would've made more sense. But we couldn't, so we're just coming up with a game plan. I'm still going to apply to clinic jobs, and I'm wanting to apply to a position that may benefit me in finding a residency when I start working after baby (probably this time next year if I can afford it). I just really run the risk of people not wanting to hire a grad. 

kmw611

@psychobutthead that's horrible! I hope your homeowners insurance covers the replacements!

I'm right there with you ladies having weird dreams. I woke up last night at like midnight fuming mad at my fiancé because I had a dream he got completely trashed at our wedding next month and vomited in my car when I was driving us to our hotel after the reception. When we got inside he passed out in the bathroom and I couldn't get out of my wedding dress so I had to call the front desk people in tears to come unbutton the back for me. Pregnancy dreams are the weirdest. I was so angry because it was so real but the best part is he really isn't a big drinker at all especially around his mom who does not drink.

 And lastly my random for today- my sister in law was admitted and induced this morning at 38 weeks. I cannot wait to meet my sweet baby nephew! I'm inheriting 10 nieces and nephews when I get married next month but this is the first from one of my siblings.  

psychobutthead

eatinwatermelonseeds said:

@psychobutthead I used to feel that, too. But my husband has gotten his shit together a lot. With a lot of fighting and several times talking about divorce. He's gone about 90% of the time working and in school right now but over the summer I was doing my preceptorship working 12 hour nights and he was my rock. He's also pushed me to even become a nurse. When I didn't get into nursing school my third try I wanted to quit and just decorate cakes 😂 he said fuck no. And made me become a nurse. Facebook sucks for that, too, though. You don't see everything. Or how much your favorite couple fights. Or when he forgot her birthday or got drunk and puked on her cat. You just see what they want you to see. Big reason I deactivated. 

Yeah this just isnt the life i wanted at all.  I wanted an education and to the. Find a job that would let me help provide all the things we wanted. 

But he couldnt see past what was easy for him which was to do nothing.  I'm dyslexic.  Its damn near impossible for me to pass math.  Its not even college level math.  Its remedial level math college makes you take if you basically can't do high school algebra. 

eatinwatermelonseeds

@fuscok88 awww how exciting!!! 

kvh22

@chloe97 I just checked and they don't have me listed although my maiden name has someone in Michigan that was due on DD's due date one year later (this year) which freaked me out for a second. Thanks for the heads up, glad I checked.

SpaceBurger

@eatinwatermelonseeds Southern California [palm tree emoji] All the southerners would probably die at the BBQ out here, but I think it's damn delicious

eatinwatermelonseeds

@SpaceBurger that's only like a 16 hour drive lol no biggie

lovelybabybumpz

My sex dreams have already come
and gone. But while they were occurring, they were coinciding with my Zoloft withdrawal dreams and shit was CRAZY!