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Baby Shower Troubles

I just found out the father of my child has been cheating.. We were just making plans for a baby shower. Now, I don’t know if I still want to continue with the plans we had due to this. Any suggestions?

Re: Baby Shower Troubles

  • irms said:
    I just found out the father of my child has been cheating.. We were just making plans for a baby shower. Now, I don’t know if I still want to continue with the plans we had due to this. Any suggestions?

    I feel like a baby shower is the least of your worries. Get your relationship figured out before worrying about a party.
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  • Also, you should not be the ones planning a shower for yourselves.  If someone offers, that's fine, but you shouldn't really be making plans for one on your own.
  • irms said:
    I just found out the father of my child has been cheating.. We were just making plans for a baby shower. Now, I don’t know if I still want to continue with the plans we had due to this. Any suggestions?
    If someone is throwing your shower (the way it's supposed to be) for your friends and family then I would go through with it. They are welcoming you into motherhood, which wont change at this time.
    If someone is throwing it from his side - tell them sorry, but I cant have the shower due to unforeseen conditions.   
    If you are planning your own shower (not appropriate) the cancel it.
    Get things figured out in your relationship.  
    neverblushed
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