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1st time FET and BFN after 10th day

jojobean1979jojobean1979 member
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Hi there,

So, my journey started last year. I tried to use my own eggs and, well that didn't work. We had to go with and egg donor and we got 8 great embryos that are all PGS tested. We started our journey and May 31 I had my FET. June 11 was my blood test and it came back negative. I am heartbroken. I know there was about a 65 % chance, but I was hoping the first time would work. They said maybe we should do a ERA testing to see what's going on. 
I am devastated and a little down. I really want to be a mom. About 10 years ago I had a still born after 5 months. Ever since I have a fire inside of me to be a mom. I have seven embryos left, so I will try again. 

Sorry for rambling, I am new to this, and still in a fog of the negative test.
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Re: 1st time FET and BFN after 10th day

  • JamieH2000JamieH2000 member
    @jojobean1979- sorry you are here, but welcome! I have also moved on the DE and my first transfer of two perfect blasts failed, so I understand the heartbreak. I did do an ERA and I was so happy we did because I am one of the few people that need less progesterone. I think its definitely worth crossing off before you transfer again. Feel free to come join us in the DE IVF thread, there are a few other ladies going through DE right now too!
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
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  • kristimh80kristimh80 member
    @jojobean1979 So very sorry for what you're having to go thru right now. My 1st FET in April also failed, 1 of only 2 embryos. So in May we did an ERA cycle to see if implantation timing maybe the issue. Nothing else, the ERA will give you an extra peace of mind going into your next cycle. For me, that cycle made at least feel better, like I was doing something and not just in limbo wondering "what if". Sending lots of hugs!
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



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