Hi all, I'm nearing the end of the second trimester and have been thinking about getting a maternity support belt. Some of them look like medieval torture devices that in no way will look good under clothes, and the ones that look the least insulting I'm afraid might not be supportive enough. I'm having decent hip pain and have read that some support would distribute the weight a little better and not make me feel like I'm 80
Has anyone gotten one that they really love that also works under clothes?
I never got one of the traditional belts but I did buy a bellaband early on. I was just so freaked out about squishing or harming the baby that I never used it much
When I did use it, it gave some decent support and fit under clothes nicely. It's -not- a true support belt; it's mostly for holding up clothes and body shaping, but it did help out some during my 2nd tri.
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Fall 2012 -- started TTC Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016. September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo. Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice. August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18 September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
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Not exactly what you're asking but I invested in a supportive tank top from Blanqi https://www.blanqi.com/collections/maternity-supportwear They have a few options. The tank is $70, so quite pricy, but I wore it a LOT and it did honestly help.
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NOW on sibling journey. 2/20: FET = BFN 4/20: Surprise COVID BFP
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Under my shirt. Wasn’t comfortable to wear this directly over bare skin (especially over the stretched out, sensitive belly) but I wore this over my maternity jeans that has stretchy fabric over the belly. And I wore a shirt over it. I often wore fitted shirt over my belly but the belt didn’t show much. Or so I thought. During pregnancy being comfortable took precedence over how I looked so I wasn’t paying attention much. And also I was big during cold winter months so I often wore a cardigan or a sweater over it which made the belt look less noticeable too I think.
Me: 41 DH: 46 Unexplained infertility/AMA, polycystic ovaries, insulin resistance FET#1(July 2017): eSET of first of 4 PGS-normal embryos, DS born 3/30/2018 FET#2(Oct/Nov 2019): eSET
@cashewchicken Totally understand what you’re saying. I just have a LOT of busybodies at work and I’m afraid of the questions. I’ve managed to skate by so far without a lot of personal inquiries, which has been really nice.
Especially during my 8th and 9th month! I used it earlier on but was nervous it was squishing the baby as well and realized I really didn't need it. Bigger I got more u wanted to put it on. At home I just hold the bottom of my belt as opposed to wearing it as I don't like sitting with it on personally! And I wear it over my clothing as well, my pants anyway and my shirt covers it with no problem...but u do need a longer shirt
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TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Re: Maternity belt - anyone tried/loved/want to recommend?
When I did use it, it gave some decent support and fit under clothes nicely. It's -not- a true support belt; it's mostly for holding up clothes and body shaping, but it did help out some during my 2nd tri.
Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2
January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle
March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
"When all is lost then all is found."
DH & I both 34.
8/16: IVF, antagonist protocol
21 eggs | 9 blasts | 7 normal through PGS
10/16: FET = BFN
12/16: Surprise natural BFP
Beta 1: 177 | Beta 2: 483 | Beta 3: 8,755 | Beta 4: 39,007. Baby born 9/5/2017
NOW on sibling journey.
2/20: FET = BFN
4/20: Surprise COVID BFP
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My job occasionally requires me to stand for hours at a time and this helped with the back pain. Also, I had gestational diabetes so I went on a brisk 15 min walk after lunch and wearing this avoided getting Braxton Hicks contractions.
Unexplained infertility/AMA, polycystic ovaries, insulin resistance
FET#1(July 2017): eSET of first of 4 PGS-normal embryos, DS born 3/30/2018
FET#2(Oct/Nov 2019): eSET
Unexplained infertility/AMA, polycystic ovaries, insulin resistance
FET#1(July 2017): eSET of first of 4 PGS-normal embryos, DS born 3/30/2018
FET#2(Oct/Nov 2019): eSET
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Especially during my 8th and 9th month! I used it earlier on but was nervous it was squishing the baby as well and realized I really didn't need it. Bigger I got more u wanted to put it on. At home I just hold the bottom of my belt as opposed to wearing it as I don't like sitting with it on personally! And I wear it over my clothing as well, my pants anyway and my shirt covers it with no problem...but u do need a longer shirt
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10.
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!