September 2018 Moms

STM+ check in May

How far along are you? How big is baby?

How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 

How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child?

What's your favorite book to read to your child? 
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Re: STM+ check in May

  • jumpy57jumpy57 member
    21+5 Chipotle burrito

    Other than overdoing it this weekend feeling great. 

    DD will be 2 this month!!!!!! We are doing pictures this Wednesday and will be traveling to my parentsp the weekend of her birthday, then having a party with friends and family memorial day weekend. This month will be crazy. I'm really excited to give her the strider bike we got her though

    Haha it's seasonal but my favorite is Goodnight Goon, a halloween spoof on goodnight moon. Lately DD keeps picking The Enormous Potato and The True Story Of the Three Little Pigs

    I'm excited to see what books other people are reading! I'm always looking to expand the library
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  • nackienackie member
    @EErin86 happy birthday to your DD

    22 weeks for me. No idea on the size, but we’re feeling good. 

    DS turned 2 in January. I finally convinced DH that we should spend Memorial Day weekend potty training. I really, really want him out of diapers before #2 comes along so I don’t have to buy a ton more cloth diapers. Also I have no desire to start potty trying while taking care of an infant. We’re going to try the 3 day method. Wish us luck!

    i love reading Goodnight Moon, but right now his favorite book is Baby Loves Quarks. We’re raising a little nerd :)
  • jumpy57jumpy57 member
    @nackie ooo that book sounds fun. DD has the periodic table of elements blocks, also most of our friends are engineers or in the medical field... Nerdy is normal in our circle  :D
  • How far along are you? How big is baby?
    I'll be 20 weeks tomorrow. Time is flying bye now that I'm feeling better (fingers crossed I didnt just jinx it). 

    How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 

    Feeling decent. Tiredness hit me again that last week but I'll take that over un ending nausea any day of the week. Food aversion still here. 

    How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child?
    DD is 27 months. She still isn't interested in potty training. She'll go on the big girl potty every once in a while but she still doesn't get the concept of holding it. I'm concerned that we need to do this before new baby and its just not going to happen. 

    What's your favorite book to read to your child? 
    Oh I have a lot. She loves reading! Right now Ten Little Teddy Bears Splashing in the Tub is a favorite of hers. She loves the texture of the rubber bears and we do colors and shapes with it too. The Peppa Pig ten minute stories are great. Its a large book broken down into 10 minutes smaller stories. She loves all the large board books that are the find it ones (Sophia the first, sesame street, etc.). Lastly she likes the books with the little windows you open. She has a Noah's Ark and a farm one. It works on numbers and animals too. 
  • 20+5 over here. Baby is the size of a paper airplane or a Belgian endive. 

    DS is two (since December). We’ve been doing light potty training since he started showing interest and will be ramping up to full-on this week and weekend (working in tandem with daycare). Need to re-stock his extra clothes stash and send some underwear in, too. 

    I still love to read Llama llama and steam train dream train. DS is obsessed with Dragons love Tacos. 
  • How far along are you? How big is baby? 22weeks and change, big head smaller fundal height so hopefully normal.

    How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 
    Pretty good.  Started swelling in my feet as the weather has warmed up.

    How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child? 6, 3, and 18ish months (maybe 19 now?).  Nope, they're good!!!

    What's your favorite book to read to your child? 
    I like a variety.  My girls like the Llama, llama ones, also Fancy Nancy and, of course, Bible stories.
    Daughter #1 - Feb 2012
    Daughter #2 - Oct 2014
    Daughter #3 - Nov 2016
    Baby #4 - Sept 2018
  • ready44ready44 member
    How far along are you? How big is baby?
    22 Weeks - about the size of a spaghetti squash.

    How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 
    Mostly alright, though I've been a bit tired and occasionally just feel off. 

    How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child?
    5, 3 (almost 4), and 18 months.  We have a meeting tomorrow with the school system to discuss our middle's IEP for speech (we had him re-evaluated for language).  Based off his scores, it doesn't look like he's going to qualify for any additional services (he already receives articulation services).  On one hand, I'm glad that his language skills aren't "significantly" behind his peers.  On the other hand, I feel kind of at a loss on how to help him catch up, especially with his expressive communication skills where he scored below average.

    What's your favorite book to read to your child? 
    "Is your mama a llama?"  It's a really easy read with adorable illustrations.
  • jessicag85jessicag85 member
    edited May 2018
    Baby is 20 weeks yesterday.
    I'm feeling tired and sensitive. Can't sleep. But ok.
    DD turned 5 in March. She's been whiny and clingy. But I think thats more her stage than about the baby right now.
    We've been reading Harry Potter at bedtime. We also love Early Readers cause she wants to learn to read on her own. Right now she more just repeats me, but good practice.

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  • @Lcardinal04 We're due date buddies! (I think.) Yay! I turned 20 weeks 5/8 too.

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  • How far along are you? How big is baby?
    I’m 21 weeks, 5 days. Baby is as big as.....hmm. Good question. As big as he needs to be!!
    How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 
    I’m feeling mostly good, just always tired with sore hips, pelvis, and now low back is joining in the party. No questions today!
    How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child?
    DD is going to be 3 in July!! We’ve been doing ‘casual potty training’ (that’s what I call it anyways) and she’s taken pretty well to using her little potty. Yesterday she told me she was pooping and I assumed she meant into her pull-up, turned the corner and found her sitting on her potty! It’s amazing how excited I was 
    What's your favorite book to read to your child?
    I love reading ‘on the night you were born.’ The ended gets me every time. DD is into paw patrol, so we typically end up reading a paw patrol book too. There’s a poem called ‘if I should have a daughter’ by Sarah Kay that I also am a huge fan of reading to DD. She doesn’t always sit for the whole thing, but that’s okay!
  • How far along are you? How big is baby?
    19+4 - Zucchini

    How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 
    My left hip is hurting me and I am feeling some pressure downstairs. Other than that and the constant headaches, I'm well. 

    How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child?
    19 months. I am concerned that she will be mad that the new baby is getting all the attention. Also worried becasue at 2 we were going to potty train, but we will just be home with the new baby (RCS) and I won't be able to help for a while. 

    What's your favourite book to read to your child? 
    Hop Pop and Play because she is so cute making all the animal noises. 
  • How far along are you? How big is baby?
    21 weeks. 

    How are you feeling? Questions or concerns? 
    feeling good. I had super bad gas pains last week, so bad at one point i wondered if it was contractions. I just ate a bunch of fiber an all is good now.. i'm staying away from muffins for breakfast as I was lazy and that's all i was eating last week.  I'm having another ultrasound today to just confirm the sex is a girl. At my last appt the tech went back and forth since baby was moving so much then said girl with a good picture.. but i just makes me nervous so they are letting me do a sex ultrasound for $50, so I'm bringin my 2 year old along to watch

    How old is your child/ren? Any questions or concerns about your current child?
    2 1/2.  She will be 3 right when baby is born

    What's your favorite book to read to your child? 
    We've been going to the library and she is really into all the Pinkalicious books. Pinkalicious, Aqualicoius and, Goldilicious are her favorites. 
  • stothistothi member
    How far along are you? 20 weeks

    How big is baby? I think the app said the size of a banana?

    How are you feeling? Like I got kicked in the vag and did the splits without stretching first. I feel decent aside from the pelvic pain.

    Questions or concerns? Nope.

    How old is your child/ren? Buddy is 2.5 years old

    Any questions or concerns about your current child? In general no, but currently he's sick so that sucks. 

    What's your favorite book to read to your child? We like to read Pout Pout Fish, Giraffes Can't Dance and a dozen different Sandra Boynton books.

    Random cute story- Buddy's starting to pat my belly and talk to his little brother. He likes to ask him questions and say hi and tonight he asked me to sing to his little brother. 

    *Sorry it's all in bold. I have no idea how to fix it. 
  • nlc8424nlc8424 member
    I actually do have a question now, any other moms have an anterior placenta this time and had a posterior placenta the last time? It sometimes freaks me out how much less I feel compared to my first pregnancy at this point.

    Also, for those who have had an anterior placenta, do you remember when you started feeling regular kicks? I feel like DS moved a TON and I felt him all day and night long, and not so much for this one. I'm somewhat crossing my fingers that she will be a chiller baby anyway, but obviously won't know for a while. 

    Thanks ladies!
  • @nlc8424 I had an anterior last time and I felt nothing till 21-22 weeks and then everything was muted. Later on the kicks were more obvious but it still wasn’t as frequent. The point it played on my anxiety was down the line when people are stressing over kick counts and movement tests, because I was never close to what they tell you. I just couldn’t feel as much. So depends on how much you mean by “regular”? It always depended on DD’s position and there were times I wouldn’t feel DD for a long time. Certainly not regularly. 

    This time around I’m shocked by how much I feel and how early! The placenta really does make a huge difference! I’m only 20 weeks and have been feeling off and on movement for weeks, never had that with my first. 
  • nlc8424nlc8424 member
    @Lcardinal04 yes I definitely feel like everything is muted too. With DS I think I probably felt him like every single hour haha, with this girl, not so much. So I guess I was wondering how that played into kick counts. I'm sure I'll be able to recognize some kind of pattern a bit later on so that I would hopefully know if there was decreased movement. She's also breech right now so everything I feel is really low, and I'm not sure when to start trying to get her to turn around if she doesn't by herself.
  • jumpy57jumpy57 member
    @nlc8424 I had an anterior placenta last time. I would keep track of when I felt movement and it was fairly consistent day to day. If I thought I haven't felt anything in awhile I would drink a cold chocolate milk really fast to get baby moving. This time it's so weird to feel the little movements like shifting/turning because it was mostly just big kicks last time
  • @nlc8424 I have an anterior placenta for the 3rd time. I felt DS around 21 weeks. DD first kick was 19+6. The other day I felt a bunch of kicks at 19+4 but nothing yesterday. I was told not to do kick counts but rather to just see that baby is as active as usual around the same time. DS was sluggish. He had me running in at least 3 times for no movement at all.  At my ultrasound on Monday, the baby was kicking and punching and I couldn’t feel a thing. I know it’s easier to say don’t worry, but it is definitely different with an anterior.

    AFM: 19+6

    DS is 22 months and DD is 8 months. We are likely going to have DS tested for food allergies soon. He never outgrew his cows milk protein allergy and we want to make sure that that is the only thing he is allergic to. 

    Favorite books: All things NE Patriots, Boston books, The Bear Snores On, Steam Train, Dream Train, Courdrouy Lost and Found, Ferdinand, Harold and the Purple Crayon and What’s a Mitzvah? He’s a big reader. 
  • @nlc8424 Anterior this time, so much less movement. I could feel it on the outside by now, and I'm barely feeling it inside now. You're not alone!

    My last was also breech, consistently stubbornly so. I would suggest not worrying until around 30-32 weeks depending on how long your torso is-start doing things earlier if you have a short torso/carry large, because we know they have less space to note. I recommend chiropractor, acupuncture, moxibustion, checking out everything on the spinning babies website, and finally, if you're doing all of that and baby is still stuck breech (not flipping back and forth, but legit always breech) ask about an ECV (external cephalic version-doctor physically turns baby from outside) as early as you can (usually 36-37 weeks). I got unlucky as we had just scheduled my version for 37 weeks, the earliest they would do, and I went into labor at 35+4. I begged them to do the version earlier as I had been threatening pre term for a month, but no such luck. Breech is actually more difficult to delivery via c section as well!
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  • @nlc8424 I have an anterior placenta this time and at 24 w I finally feel movement daily but definitely not all day long. I think my OB starts luck counts around 28 weeks. Last time I had a posterior placenta and I definitely felt way more movement. Kicks are getting stronger and more frequent so I am hopeful that in 4 weeks they will be much more consistent.
  • nlc8424nlc8424 member
    @yosemite2018 @BostonBaby1 @pourmeamocktail @EErin86 thank you all for your input, I appreciate it. I'm certainly not worried about the movement currently, but I wasn't sure what to expect in the coming weeks/months. So that was all helpful info to me!

    @pourmeamocktail I think my torso is average? I'm about 5'4" so I don't have a ton of room but I guess I'm thinking right now baby still has quite a bit of room to move around and I'm not sure if there would be a point to trying to get her to turn if she might just turn back around before she runs out of extra room. But I'll keep all of that in mind if she stays stubborn and in breech, thank you!
  • @nlc8424 Good idea. No real point in trying to turn for quite a while yet for sure-baby still has a lot of room to move! And time too!
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    Me: 33
    DH: 32
    Married 7/18/15
    1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
    Team green turned BLUE!
    2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 
    Team green turned PINK!
    Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green

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  • This is kinda random, but I’ve spent hours online and am so frustrated! 

    Anyone have a recommendation for a nice life-like baby doll? 

    I wanted something that is at least 16”, opens/closes eyes, takes a bottle and pacifier, and can change clothes, i’d prefer an all over silcone/plastic-wipeable body. 

    It doesn’t seem like this would be hard to find but seriously, non-existent... I’ll give on something eventually, but first wanted to check on other’s input.  o:)

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  • @nlc8424 They don’t usually attempt a version until after 37 weeks because it can result in the need for immediate delivery. It’s not common but my DD flipped from head down to transverse during week 37. Even more unusual is she flipped back head down at week 38. Ouch. 
  • nlc8424nlc8424 member
    Damn, sounds like one big ouch @BostonBaby1. Thanks for the heads up (some pun may have been intended ;)).
  • nlc8424 said:
    Damn, sounds like one big ouch @BostonBaby1. Thanks for the heads up (some pun may have been intended ;)).
    Hahaha! 
  • mrsman2018mrsman2018 member
    edited May 2018
    nlc8424 It really freaks me out to have an anterior placenta. Last time the kicks were my fav part and I have felt basically nothing. Makes me sad. 

    And DD was breech and I did not try to turn her - did not want to. Research ECV too - I was against it and would not try it. 
  • kbfashkbfash member
    Ok ladies, my DD is just over 2.5 years, we transitioned her out of crib early April and she has done great. Along with that and news she is getting a brother she has started a hair pulling habit (her own). Usually at night when I lay her down, but it is now noticeable on her poor little head. She shows no signs of pain when she does this!

    Taking her into pediatrician Thursday, but looking for advice. I have calmly asked her not to do it, tried to distract her and even shown her the spot in the mirror. I don’t want to add to her anxiety (assuming that is trigger), but sad I can’t help! 
  • Ugh, dd has been so awful lately. She’s s good kid in general, she just ignores us into we repeat something 4x and use a firm voice, and ignores all the little rules that keep us sane... and helps herself wayy to much. 

    I broke out a jar and 10 pennies today, everytime she does one of these “nuisance” behaviors I’m taking back a penny. We’ll trade them in for nickels at the end of the day, and work up to quarters to take to the wildlife park and use in the feeding dispensers. 

    DH is on board, and I told dd this am, so far she is excited and has asked twice “does this mean you ars taking a penny?” (Breakfast is a slow and painful affair). 

    I also have an awful headache today. I hope I can keep it together long enough to not make things worse. I’m realy hoping the newness means she’ll be good as gold for me today...

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    bfp#2-5/10/13! EDD: 1/18/14. "Peanut" Arrived 1/13/14. Diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis

    bfp#3- 9/26/14. EDD: 5/7/15. no heartbeat found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 10/23/14. "Little Bug"

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  • @nlc8424 Thank you! I'm sorry your little guy is sick. My DD was sick so often her first three years or so in daycare, but I think it really builds their immunity up and she is rarely sick now!
    Me: 32   DH: 32
    BFP #1: 1/23/2012  DD: Born 9/20/2012  <3
    BFP #2: 12/30/2017  DS: Due 9/10/2018  <3


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