Havent been here in a while but im in need of desperate advice.
So my in-laws moved from their country to the US two months ago and we all agreed they would move in with us until they got settled (found a job, apartment).
My husband and I have two kids, 5 and 3, my husband works while I stay home.
So its been two months now, my father in law is working and has spoken about wanting to find a place soon but my mother in has already rejected two job offering made by family members saying she doesnt want to do that type of job and has said she is still not sure of what she wants to do. Mind you, they are young, 50 and 54, and came to this country with the intention of Working.
This is a very uncomfortable situation for me, in home all day with her, i have no privacy and no moment alone and on top of that, I do ALL the cleaning, even the bathroom they use. All she does is sit down with the kids outside or in the backyard.
I tried speaking with my husband about the situation and that I found it weird that she Had a job offering and she rejected it, that shes not looking for a job, etc, and even though I tried to speak nicely, he got uncomfortable and said that he will not pressure his mom and that she will work when she feels Ready.
I feel like if she was tired and wanted to take some down time, two months is more than enough. Im not saying I want them to leave I just think she should at least be looking for a job. Am I being unreasonable? I dont even want to speak to my husband because he gets very upset and uncomfortable.
