Sorry about your sister. I’m sure like you said that she’s just concerned and
wants to share it with you since you can relate, but it can be very difficult
to hear when you’re having a rough time yourself. As for the timeline, you
really haven’t been trying that long in the scheme of things. I know it can be
frustrating and feel like forever, but it can take a couple with no problems up
to a year to get PG. IF only counts after that year (6 months if you’re AMA).
And actually, that timeline restarts with each PG you have, and MC count as a PG. So, you’re really only like 4 months in, and any benched cycles
(if you sat out the first one or two after the CP) don’t count in that timeline
either. I know you are frustrated, but you have to stop forcing yourself to the
timeline you’re on. The best you can do is keep trying, and if you reach the IF
stage, or end up with more MCs, then seek the testing you need at that point.
Honestly, 9 months total TFAS with 1 CP is not that much time in the long run, even though I'm sure it feels like forever to you.
Kath525 I so
totally despise your estranged sister and want to punch her in the face right
now. Maybe she’ll decide at the last minute she doesn’t want them and you can
take one and I’ll take one? *sigh* I hate people.