Why My Pregnant Self is Crying 2/23 — The Bump
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Why My Pregnant Self is Crying 2/23

What's got those tears working overtime? 
Me: 33 DH: 31 Baby: 9/2/2018 BabyFruit Ticker


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  • @knitknitread me too, girl, me too... 
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  • I am not a big cryer usually. Last night I got choked up while my daughter was watching The Incredibles.

    And earlier in the day I made the mistake of watching the end of Sherlock, season 4 episode 1. I’d already seen it but not the last couple minutes and backed up too far. I fast-forwarded quickly.

    A few days ago I saw the missing children notices in an IRS booklet and that got me pretty bad.

    2/13 Blighted ovum, D&C -- 6/13 MC -- 8/14 DD born -- 3/17 MC;
    Expecting another rainbow! EDD 9/2/18
    smsaulinosouthernlady07
  • klj0228 said:
    The last peanut butter cracker in the pack had no peanut butter in it.
    Food-related disappointment is so strong right now.



    2/13 Blighted ovum, D&C -- 6/13 MC -- 8/14 DD born -- 3/17 MC;
    Expecting another rainbow! EDD 9/2/18
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  • I was driving to work listening to the radio and they were talking about how to perform CPR. One caller told a story about his only success performing CPR and how he saved a woman's life and gave her a second chance and she had 2 kids and I just started tearing up. I work in healthcare and talk about adverse/morbid situations all the time, so that surprised me.

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  • Doc McStuffins! Oh, my goodness, since getting pregnant that show gets me right in the feels! When she sings the tell me what's wrong song? Tears, so many tears!
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  • Tonight we watched Only The Brave. Full on sobbing y'all. Then sobbed 15 minutes after it ended talking about it. Crying now typing this. It just won't stop. 



    Me: 28   H:30
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    BFP 7/14/17 - CP
    RE Dx: MFI, Unilateral Tubal Blockage
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  • jhjocelynjhjocelyn
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    The end of Moana, when her mom sees her coming back and starts running... 

    *edited spelling

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  • @jhjocelyn Haha I tear up when I hear the song “know who you are”. Which happens fairly often since the boy I watch loves that soundtrack. Disney, man. Gets me every time. 

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    BFP 7/14/17 - CP
    RE Dx: MFI, Unilateral Tubal Blockage
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  • @SkilledSailor Yes!! I managed thru that scene okay, just not the last one... 

    also, almost every episode of Sophia the first.

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  • I just broke a glass bottle outside while wearing flip flops (which shattered and went everywhere), asked DH to come help, and he gave me attitude for having to get off the couch. I was only standing in broken glass!
  • @jhjocelyn Haha I tear up when I hear the song “know who you are”. Which happens fairly often since the boy I watch loves that soundtrack. Disney, man. Gets me every time. 

    That song get a me even when I'm not pregnant. Now I'm tearing up just thinking about it :cry:
    SkilledSailor
  • I just watched the announcement of the Pillsbury Bake-Off winner on Food Network. Her recipe sounds yucky to me, but the story behind it was so beautiful! I’m so happy for her. 
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  • When one of the girls didn't get a rose on the bachelor. I'm not even really into this show, like don't know the girls' names or anything, but I was sobbing along with this girl. ?
    Because I just sent DH to the mall foodcourt which has *the* best Chinese place . . . And it's permanently closed.  :'( I've been going there since middle school and when I went to China for 2 weeks, it was the food I missed most while I was gone. Whyyyy?
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  • @Car0liiine I would've been very upset about a Chinese place closing too.... I love me some good, cheap Chinese take-out. 
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  • My dog is so freaking cute it's making me tear up. All the movies I've cried in I would have done not pregnant but this..this is a pregnancy thing. 

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    TTC #1 Since 5/17
    BFP 7/14/17 - CP
    RE Dx: MFI, Unilateral Tubal Blockage
    12/17 - Clomid + TI
    BFP 12/22/17 - EDD 9/3/18
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  • That Doc McStuffins got me again tonight!!! Practically started sobbing in front of my kid! 
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  • jhjocelyn said:
    The end of Moana, when her mom sees her coming back and starts running... 

    *edited spelling
    Even when I wasn't pregnant, I would tear up near the beginning when Moana is trying to pack up food to sneak away and leave, and her mom catches her and instead of stopping her, helps her pack. Tears every time.
    SkilledSailorsouthernlady07jhjocelyn
  • My kid has been so so so cranky since getting ear tubes. My gut says something isn't right, but bringing her to the doc for "emotions" feels so weird. She's showing no signs something is up with her tubes, but I feel so sad for her, I sympathy cried. 

  • @Patience7150 any drainage or temp? Did they give you antibiotic drops post op? Do you have a follow up scheduled to check placement?

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  • ^wss. Also, if she had lots of fluid and frequent infections, things may be sounding louder and harsher with less muffling/ white noise than they did before. 
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  • @nlc8424 we did drops for 5 days post op. She had drainage the first 3ish days, but nothing since. She's had a low grade fever (99), but I'm pretty certain we're cutting two more teeth. She hasn't been reacting much to loud noises, but I get just the overall loudness could be too much, especially at daycare. Follow up appointment is next week. I really broke down last night and said she had one more day to show improvement or we were going in regardless. Daycare has texted saying she's having a little bit better of a day, but I still feel bad. 

    It's just that dumb mom guilt/helpless feeling of "is this normal, is this a transition period, or is something wrong!?" 

    nlc8424
  • @Patience7150 I'm sorry you're having to deal with that, I know it's so tough to figure out exactly what is wrong. I hate seeing my little miserable, and I've sympathy cried with him too. I hope she's feeling better, and if not I hope the doctor can check placement and make a recommendation to getting her more comfortable.

  • @BusinessWife ugh! I know how you feel!! I told DH on Jan 2, the day I officially found out from doctor at only 5 weeks. He immediately wanted to call his parents. I told him no because my fil is a huge gossip. DH went ahead and called them but told them not to tell anyone. And guess what? As soon as we were off the phone with them, fil calls his 7 brothers and sisters to let them know. Aunt texts me the very next day congratulating us but would have preferred to hear in person. She's the closest relative by us by far, everyone else is spread throughout the US and it was just super embarrassing. 
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  • Ughh @smsaulino. Oh no.  Unbelievable.  Really.  I'm sure you would have loved to tell your aunt in person, if you had the chance!  I'm so sorry that happened to you, too.
    Me: 35 | DH: 42 ~ TTC May 2015 thru Dec 2017
    5/16 - Began Creighton Method CM Tracking / Napro Fertility Medicine | Progesterone + various abx cycles - all BFNs
    8/16 - SHG: ute good, at least one tube open | 10/16 - MFI Azoo dx confirmed. No known genetic cause. Vas deferens absent.
    3/17 - DH started Clomid to prepare for MESA/TESE | 4/17 - Initial RE Consult for me. | 7/17 - Successful retrieval for DH!
    9/17 - Two BTB IVFs  | 10/17 - Polypectomy  |  11/17 - 1st FET ended in CP | 12/17 - 2nd FET ... BFP!!! <3 EDD: 09/09/18

    Our little miracle is finally here!


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  • @BusinessWife I'm sorry she's put you in this situation. I'm 100% with you that I want to be able to tell people however I had planned on, and I want to know who knows. Wish there was something to help rewind the clock and reverse some of the damage. I hope you and your H can agree on a time to send out your announcements. 

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  • stothistothi
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    Oh, watching March of the Penguins totally has me sobbing.
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  • Apparently I need to invest in some children's movies because I haven't seen the ones y'all are mentioning 
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