I’ve always been an excessive crier, but omg it’s so much worse haha. I work in real estate. Yesterday we got an offer accepted for a client, and when I came home I was telling DH about it. We always get to know the family and I was telling him how happy I was for them to finally get this house and I just couldn’t stop crying lol.
I am not a big cryer usually. Last night I got choked up while my daughter was watching The Incredibles.
And earlier in the day I made the mistake of watching the end of Sherlock, season 4 episode 1. I’d already seen it but not the last couple minutes and backed up too far. I fast-forwarded quickly.
A few days ago I saw the missing children notices in an IRS booklet and that got me pretty bad.
2/13 Blighted ovum, D&C -- 6/13 MC -- 8/14 DD born -- 3/17 MC -- 9/18 DD2 born Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20
Puppy training class. There's really nothing more helpful to say. There was no reason, just cute puppies.
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Me: 33 DH: 32 Married 7/18/15 1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16 Team green turned BLUE! 2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 Team green turned PINK! Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green
I was driving to work listening to the radio and they were talking about how to perform CPR. One caller told a story about his only success performing CPR and how he saved a woman's life and gave her a second chance and she had 2 kids and I just started tearing up. I work in healthcare and talk about adverse/morbid situations all the time, so that surprised me.
Doc McStuffins! Oh, my goodness, since getting pregnant that show gets me right in the feels! When she sings the tell me what's wrong song? Tears, so many tears!
Tonight we watched Only The Brave. Full on sobbing y'all. Then sobbed 15 minutes after it ended talking about it. Crying now typing this. It just won't stop.
@jhjocelyn Haha I tear up when I hear the song “know who you are”. Which happens fairly often since the boy I watch loves that soundtrack. Disney, man. Gets me every time.
I just broke a glass bottle outside while wearing flip flops (which shattered and went everywhere), asked DH to come help, and he gave me attitude for having to get off the couch. I was only standing in broken glass!
DH cut his hand this morning slicing a bagel. I mean literally like a paper cut. Didn’t even need a bandaid. I burst into tears lol.
I'm an awful human being cause the last time hubby cut himself making dinner the first question I asked was, "is dinner still ok?" I mean I eventually remembered to ask if he was ok... Don't worry guys, dinner was totally still fine!
@jhjocelyn Haha I tear up when I hear the song “know who you are”. Which happens fairly often since the boy I watch loves that soundtrack. Disney, man. Gets me every time.
That song get a me even when I'm not pregnant. Now I'm tearing up just thinking about it
I just watched the announcement of the Pillsbury Bake-Off winner on Food Network. Her recipe sounds yucky to me, but the story behind it was so beautiful! I’m so happy for her.
When one of the girls didn't get a rose on the bachelor. I'm not even really into this show, like don't know the girls' names or anything, but I was sobbing along with this girl. ? Because I just sent DH to the mall foodcourt which has *the* best Chinese place . . . And it's permanently closed. I've been going there since middle school and when I went to China for 2 weeks, it was the food I missed most while I was gone. Whyyyy?
@stothi that is hilarious haha. It’s not pregnancy related at all but reminds me of my favorite sibling story: when I was in high school, and I had just broken up wth my first bf, I was hysterical. My mom was sitting in my room with me and I was just crying and inconsolable. My older brother very gently knocked on the door and came in, very timidly. Then he finally said, quietly, “hey...is dinner still happening?”
@stothi that is hilarious haha. It’s not pregnancy related at all but reminds me of my favorite sibling story: when I was in high school, and I had just broken up wth my first bf, I was hysterical. My mom was sitting in my room with me and I was just crying and inconsolable. My older brother very gently knocked on the door and came in, very timidly. Then he finally said, quietly, “hey...is dinner still happening?”
Bwhahaha!!!! Your brother is hilarious. And totally my kind of people, lol!!!
Me: 33 DH: 32 Married 7/18/15 1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16 Team green turned BLUE! 2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 Team green turned PINK! Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green
The end of Moana, when her mom sees her coming back and starts running...
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Even when I wasn't pregnant, I would tear up near the beginning when Moana is trying to pack up food to sneak away and leave, and her mom catches her and instead of stopping her, helps her pack. Tears every time.
My kid has been so so so cranky since getting ear tubes. My gut says something isn't right, but bringing her to the doc for "emotions" feels so weird. She's showing no signs something is up with her tubes, but I feel so sad for her, I sympathy cried.
^wss. Also, if she had lots of fluid and frequent infections, things may be sounding louder and harsher with less muffling/ white noise than they did before.
@nlc8424 we did drops for 5 days post op. She had drainage the first 3ish days, but nothing since. She's had a low grade fever (99), but I'm pretty certain we're cutting two more teeth. She hasn't been reacting much to loud noises, but I get just the overall loudness could be too much, especially at daycare. Follow up appointment is next week. I really broke down last night and said she had one more day to show improvement or we were going in regardless. Daycare has texted saying she's having a little bit better of a day, but I still feel bad.
It's just that dumb mom guilt/helpless feeling of "is this normal, is this a transition period, or is something wrong!?"
@Patience7150 I'm sorry you're having to deal with that, I know it's so tough to figure out exactly what is wrong. I hate seeing my little miserable, and I've sympathy cried with him too. I hope she's feeling better, and if not I hope the doctor can check placement and make a recommendation to getting her more comfortable.
So my mom has been telling people about the pregnancy, when I specifically told her not to. So now not only did she rob me of the chance to tell people when and how I wanted to, now I have no idea who knows and who doesn't, and I feel all this sudden pressure to send out the announcements, when I really wanted to wait till closer to Easter, or at least till after our next apt (in two weeks) to send them out. Plus, DH is over here team, what are you waiting for anyway??? Ughhhh!!!
I am just so pissed and feel so betrayed by my own mother. I asked her to keep this one special thing to herself and she couldn't do it.
@BusinessWife ugh! I know how you feel!! I told DH on Jan 2, the day I officially found out from doctor at only 5 weeks. He immediately wanted to call his parents. I told him no because my fil is a huge gossip. DH went ahead and called them but told them not to tell anyone. And guess what? As soon as we were off the phone with them, fil calls his 7 brothers and sisters to let them know. Aunt texts me the very next day congratulating us but would have preferred to hear in person. She's the closest relative by us by far, everyone else is spread throughout the US and it was just super embarrassing.
Ughh @smsaulino. Oh no. Unbelievable. Really. I'm sure you would have <i>loved</i> to tell your aunt in person, if you had the chance! I'm so sorry that happened to you, too.
@BusinessWife I'm sorry she's put you in this situation. I'm 100% with you that I want to be able to tell people however I had planned on, and I want to know who knows. Wish there was something to help rewind the clock and reverse some of the damage. I hope you and your H can agree on a time to send out your announcements.
Oh, man. @BusinessWife your post has me tearing up! I'm so sorry. That's really not cool.
It doesn't have me crying, but it has me upset- I learned today that one of my relatives told one of our other relatives about my pregnancy. It's not nearly as big a deal, but it still sucks on a small level cause, l want to tell who I want to tell when I want to tell them. And of course this other person is judgey and said snarky things about my pregnancy being a stupid idea since my last one tried to kill me and my husband isn't here. Thanks. Thanks for that. Not my fault my IUD flaked out, my last pregnancy tried to kill me, or that my husband is away. They of course also turned around and told another relative. So yeah, I have no idea who all knows and what judgey shit about what an idiot I am is being said. I'm a happily married woman with plenty of love to give, time, knowledge and resources to add another child to our family. More over we want to add another child to our family, (just didn't mean for it to be right now.) I hate feeling like I did something "wrong" with my unplanned pregnancy. Like I have something to hide. Also for pity's sake it's not like it's anyone else's business.
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Re: Why My Pregnant Self is Crying 2/23
And earlier in the day I made the mistake of watching the end of Sherlock, season 4 episode 1. I’d already seen it but not the last couple minutes and backed up too far. I fast-forwarded quickly.
A few days ago I saw the missing children notices in an IRS booklet and that got me pretty bad.
Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20
DH: 32
Married 7/18/15
1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
Team green turned BLUE!
2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18
Team green turned PINK!
Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green
Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20
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bfp#1-10/29/12,EDD: 7/3/13. nothing found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 12/10/12. "Bean"
bfp#2-5/10/13! EDD: 1/18/14. "Peanut" Arrived 1/13/14. Diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis
bfp#3- 9/26/14. EDD: 5/7/15. no heartbeat found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 10/23/14. "Little Bug"
**Psalm 139:16**
also, almost every episode of Sophia the first.
bfp#1-10/29/12,EDD: 7/3/13. nothing found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 12/10/12. "Bean"
bfp#2-5/10/13! EDD: 1/18/14. "Peanut" Arrived 1/13/14. Diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis
bfp#3- 9/26/14. EDD: 5/7/15. no heartbeat found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 10/23/14. "Little Bug"
**Psalm 139:16**
That song get a me even when I'm not pregnant. Now I'm tearing up just thinking about it
But I refuse to buy meat and produce at Wal-Mart and there are things we need that are cheaper at Wal-Mart.
I wonder if I can just convince dh to go by himself?
Because I just sent DH to the mall foodcourt which has *the* best Chinese place . . . And it's permanently closed.
DH: 32
Married 7/18/15
1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
Team green turned BLUE!
2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18
Team green turned PINK!
Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green
It's just that dumb mom guilt/helpless feeling of "is this normal, is this a transition period, or is something wrong!?"
I am just so pissed and feel so betrayed by my own mother. I asked her to keep this one special thing to herself and she couldn't do it.
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It doesn't have me crying, but it has me upset- I learned today that one of my relatives told one of our other relatives about my pregnancy. It's not nearly as big a deal, but it still sucks on a small level cause, l want to tell who I want to tell when I want to tell them. And of course this other person is judgey and said snarky things about my pregnancy being a stupid idea since my last one tried to kill me and my husband isn't here. Thanks. Thanks for that. Not my fault my IUD flaked out, my last pregnancy tried to kill me, or that my husband is away. They of course also turned around and told another relative. So yeah, I have no idea who all knows and what judgey shit about what an idiot I am is being said. I'm a happily married woman with plenty of love to give, time, knowledge and resources to add another child to our family. More over we want to add another child to our family, (just didn't mean for it to be right now.) I hate feeling like I did something "wrong" with my unplanned pregnancy. Like I have something to hide. Also for pity's sake it's not like it's anyone else's business.