Goodbye and good luck!!

meg+on+the+DL

Well after the whole craziness of the ultrasound showing a gestational sac and no fetus, testing my hormones (65000hcg), going in two days later to have more blood work done (down to 56000), the doctor has said that this is a missed pregnancy/blighted ovum. 

I was hoping to pass the the sac naturally but after a weekend of trying to prep and throw my daugter’s 2nd birthday party and having wicked pain, I decided to schedule a d&c. It will be this Friday. I have read so many horror stories about the medication and I just opted for the procedure. 

I’m so grateful to have had our interactions, even through brief. I wish the loss boards were more active but they aren’t a lot of help right now. 

I wish you all all the best in your pregnancies! 

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I am so very sorry to hear this.  I did find some comfort with the TTCAL ladies in December, and I believe there is (unfortunately) a pretty active weekly TTCAL thread on the Trying To Concieve board.  The ladies I met there totally get it, and were there for me when I joined a club no one ever thinks they will be in.  Please don't hesitate to reach out or feel that you're alone... ❤

spottedginger

I am so very sorry for your loss. 

nlc8424

I'm so sorry for your loss, will you keep you and your family in my T&Ps.

knitknitread

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤

starla

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you. GL on Friday. I hope the physical and emotional healing comes quickly. 

klj0228

I am sorry for your loss. Will keep you and your family in my t&p. 

Jyoung327

Gosh I am so sorry to hear this. For what it's worth I had the same debate with my loss in September and my d&c went very smoothly with quick recovery. Hoping the same for you  

born2run911

Sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself ❤️ 

hollowway

Sorry for your loss

xxkberxx

I’m so very sorry

prpl11butterfly

Im so sorry to hear. I have really enjoyed interacting with you as well and wish you the best moving forward 

megnwingate

So sorry for your loss. Miscarrying is something I wish no one had to deal with. Lots of T&Ps for you and your family ❤️

SkilledSailor

So terribly sorry for your loss and the need for the procedure. When (if) you’re ready, I agree with BusinessWife that TTGP board does have an active and very supportive TTCAL thread. 

jumpy57

I'm so sorry for your loss 

Wishilivedinflorida

I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve had two D&C’s with my losses and was glad I opted for that over medication. I hope your procedure ends the awful physical pain for you. I second checking out the TTCAL boards/threads if you feel up to it. They are very supportive during a terrible time. 

lumosmaxima

I'm so sorry for your loss

adirat

I'm so sorry. I hope your recovery is very quick.

Patience7150

I'm so sorry...I've been thinking about you and hoping things were looking up. Thoughts and prayers are with you, and I hope the procedure is uneventful.

stothi

I'm so sorry for your loss.

jaylii

So sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing that the D&C goes smoothly and recovery is good. 

magnolia209

I’m so sorry too. ❤️

yosemite2018

I’m so sorry for your loss.

clbness

I'm so very sorry...sending you so many thoughts and prayers. 

ble1

I'm so sorry for your loss. T&P for you and your family. Hopefully your daughter can give you many hugs and cuddles 

southernlady07

I'm so very sorry for your loss 

AdmiralKitty

I’m so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself ❤️

jschu23

I am so sorry for your loss. 

cbobell2009

So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. Hugs!

sclarke7

Been thinking of you. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I wish you healing and a smooth recovery. Thoughts and prayers and hugs to you. 

Car0liiine

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope the procedure goes smoothly. Take care.

treeofcheem

I'm so sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy was a blighted ovum followed by a D&C, and for me the procedure and recovery were very smooth. Take care of yourself. ((Hugs))

set8132

I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you! 

fwtx5815

I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope the procedure goes smoothly and without any complications afterward. I think there’s a tendency to share bad experiences moreso than when things go like they’re supposed to, and maybe that’s why there are lots of scary d&c stories out there. Sending good thoughts to you 

meg+on+the+DL

I just wanted to thank you all for your kind words. My procedure yesterday went so well. I have had no pain and little spotting. I am feeling a million times better, emotionally and physically. I could not have asked for this to go any better. 

Thank you to those who referred me to the TTTC board. I’ve been lurking and I feel like they will be a great support when we start trying again. 

Love and hugs to you all!