September 2018 Moms

Goodbye and good luck!!

Well after the whole craziness of the ultrasound showing a gestational sac and no fetus, testing my hormones (65000hcg), going in two days later to have more blood work done (down to 56000), the doctor has said that this is a missed pregnancy/blighted ovum. 

I was hoping to pass the the sac naturally but after a weekend of trying to prep and throw my daugter’s 2nd birthday party and having wicked pain, I decided to schedule a d&c. It will be this Friday. I have read so many horror stories about the medication and I just opted for the procedure. 

I’m so grateful to have had our interactions, even through brief. I wish the loss boards were more active but they aren’t a lot of help right now. 

I wish you all all the best in your pregnancies! 

Re: Goodbye and good luck!!

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, will you keep you and your family in my T&Ps.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss ❤
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you. GL on Friday. I hope the physical and emotional healing comes quickly. 
    Me: 34 | DH: 33
    Married Aug. 2013
    TTC #1 Sep. 2016
    ***TW***
    BFP Jan. 15, 2017; MMC Mar. 4, 2017 at 10w6d
    BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
    BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
    All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
    BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
    My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d


  • I am sorry for your loss. Will keep you and your family in my t&p. 
  • Gosh I am so sorry to hear this. For what it's worth I had the same debate with my loss in September and my d&c went very smoothly with quick recovery. Hoping the same for you <3 
    Me: 29  DH: 31, married 6/21/14, TTC since 7/14
    BFP #1 EDD 7/17/15, MMC 1/9/15 @8w
    BFP #2 4/3/15= ectopic treated with methotrexate 5/1, YET ruptured 5/18/15= One Tube Wonder!
    2 Cycles of Femara, Ovidrel, & Progesterone= BFP #3 DS born 5/17/16
    TTC #2 March 2017 (initially med free) 
    BFP #4 8/14/17 *natural cycle* EDD= 4/25/18, MC @5-6w D&C 9/22/17
    BFP #5 12/29/17 w/ Femara/Ovidrel/Progesterone/Synthroid, EDD= 9/11/18 found out 1/18 ITS di/di TWINS!!!
    DS and DD born 8/21/18 
  • Sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself ❤️ 
  • Sorry for your loss

    MMC 01/26/12 

    MC 12/25/12, D&C 01/05/13

    BFP 03/05/13, EDD 11/12/13. HB 175 @ 9w2d. Its a Girl!

    <3Madeline Lorraine H. <3 Born 11/12/13 @9:10pm, 7lb6oz

    DX with EA/TEF Type C & Tracheomalaysia
    MC @ 13wks 01/15/15 

    DX Septate Uterus - surgery recommended

    BFP 3/18/16, EDD 11/13/16 It's a boy!
    <3 Clint Kiszonas H. <3 Born 11/21/16 @10:38pm, 9lb11oz

    BFP 1/11/18, EDD 9/21/18 
  • I’m so very sorry
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    Me (29) + DH (30) | Dating 2003 | Married 2008
    DS - 02/21/2016

  • Im so sorry to hear. I have really enjoyed interacting with you as well and wish you the best moving forward  <3
  • So sorry for your loss. Miscarrying is something I wish no one had to deal with. Lots of T&Ps for you and your family ❤️


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    BFP#1: 11/15/2010 * Missed M/C 12/28 * D&C 12/29/2010
    BFP#2: 3/31/2011 * IT'S A GIRL! * Born 11/17/2011
    BFP#3 CP 11/15/2014 
    BFP#4 9/3/2015 * Team Green turned PINK * Born 05/16/2016
    BFP#5 12/26/2017 *SURPRISE* Due 09/02/2018
  • So terribly sorry for your loss and the need for the procedure. When (if) you’re ready, I agree with BusinessWife that TTGP board does have an active and very supportive TTCAL thread. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss  <3
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve had two D&C’s with my losses and was glad I opted for that over medication. I hope your procedure ends the awful physical pain for you. I second checking out the TTCAL boards/threads if you feel up to it. They are very supportive during a terrible time. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss
  • I'm so sorry. I hope your recovery is very quick.


  • I'm so sorry...I've been thinking about you and hoping things were looking up. Thoughts and prayers are with you, and I hope the procedure is uneventful.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • So sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing that the D&C goes smoothly and recovery is good. 
  • I’m so sorry too. ❤️
  • I’m so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so very sorry...sending you so many thoughts and prayers.  <3
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. T&P for you and your family. Hopefully your daughter can give you many hugs and cuddles 
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss  <3
    Me: 32   DH: 32
    BFP #1: 1/23/2012  DD: Born 9/20/2012  <3
    BFP #2: 12/30/2017  DS: Due 9/10/2018  <3


  • I’m so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself ❤️

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  <3
  • So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. Hugs!

    Me: 26 DH:28

    Married:10/25/14

    TTC#1: August 2016

  • Been thinking of you. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I wish you healing and a smooth recovery. Thoughts and prayers and hugs to you. 
    Me: 34 DH:33
    TTC since Oct 2016
    DX: Undetermined possible PCOS+MFI 
    July 2017-Dec 2017 Letrozole+TI
    Dec 2017 CP
    Jan 2018 BFP:EDD 9-25





  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope the procedure goes smoothly. Take care.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy was a blighted ovum followed by a D&C, and for me the procedure and recovery were very smooth. Take care of yourself. ((Hugs))
    2/13 Blighted ovum, D&C -- 6/13 MC -- 8/14 DD born -- 3/17 MC -- 9/18 DD2 born
    Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you! 
  • I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope the procedure goes smoothly and without any complications afterward. I think there’s a tendency to share bad experiences moreso than when things go like they’re supposed to, and maybe that’s why there are lots of scary d&c stories out there. Sending good thoughts to you 
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    IR PCOS  dx Sept. 2014

    married May 2015 --> started NTNP
    BFP 6.28.15 - EDD 3.6.16 
    baby #1 born 2.19.16 

    TTC #2 in April 2017
    BFP 12.30.17 - EDD 9.6.18


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