Possible TW**final update in comments*

bmxerbaby · January 2018

So went in for ultrasound, didn't see much beyond gestational sac and yolk sac. Doctor didn't seem concerned at all which I found strange. Drew levels today and again on Monday.....so unfortunately I'm not too optimistic. Waiting 2 weeks is no fun, but I guess if the levels don't rise then we will know.

starla · January 2018

@bmxerbaby How far along do you think you are? Were you tracking ovulation? FX it's just too early.

bmxerbaby · January 2018

I thought I was 8+5 based off of last cycle....but with the loss in October, things were off. Doubt I would be that far off....should have seen more on the ultrasound. I even told the doctor that it was over and she said that with a yolk sac, she wasn't concerned. Time will tell.

chelletn · January 2018

I thought I was 6 weeks when I had my first ultrasound and when I got there it was just a gestational and yolk sak measuring 4 weeks 3 days. My doctor was not concerned at all. I go back Monday for a repeat ultrasound. Since your cycles have been off I wouldn't worry until the doctor told me it was time to worry. Seeing a yolk sak is a good thing!! Hopefully your levels will come back good and ease your worry also.

bmxerbaby · January 2018

Thank you guys, I will try and stay positive.

katethemom · January 2018

Hope everything turns out okay!

pourmeanothermocktail · January 2018

Hoping dates were all off and you'll get good news moving forward!

sclarke7 · January 2018

Hope everything turns out ok and potentially dates were off due to your cycle. FX and everything else for you

starla · January 2018

@bmxerbaby If you weren't tracking ovulation you could be off by quite a bit (even 2-3 weeks). When did you get your BFP and how dark was it? Is the doctor checking your HCG and progesterone levels?

Patience7150 · January 2018

FX for you...please keep us updated.

bmxerbaby · January 2018

@starla...I found out in January, super positive! They drew levels today and again Monday. Only HCG, not progesterone.

starla · January 2018

@bmxerbaby Do you remember the date roughly? If it was only 2 weeks ago and you got a very faint BFP, you could very well be only 5w.

JNR6510 · January 2018

FX for good results! I hope the dates were just off and your LO is perfectly healthy and growing!

ready44 · January 2018

Hoping that the dates were just off and that everything turns out alright. Fingers crossed for you.

bmxerbaby · January 2018

I received a message from my doctor telling me that my levels went up but not as much as she had expected, repeat u/s in 2 weeks. She didn't give numbers, and I think 2 weeks is too long to wait! I know there is no intervention possible, but peace of mind would be nice, regardless of the outcome.

spottedginger · January 2018

@bmxerbaby I’m sorry things aren’t looking great with numbers but glad they are increasing! Hopefully your next scan will show expected growth and good news. Two weeks does seem like a long time to have to wait for more information. Sending hugs

lumosmaxima · January 2018

@bmxerbaby I'm so sorry it wasn't the news you were hoping for. Would you want to ask if they could possibly see you sooner? One week versus two? I just imagine that wait would be so tough

but you are tough too and I know you could deal if you had to. I'll be thinking of you.

starla · January 2018

@bmxerbaby I agree that 2 weeks is an awfully long time to have to wait. I'm sorry you have to deal with this ambiguity and hope that they can get you in sooner.

bmxerbaby · January 2018

I told my doctor that I wasn't comfortable waiting so repeat labs Thursday, US Friday. Sometimes it pays to advocate for yourself.

prpl11butterfly · January 2018

Sorry to hear. Glad you spoke out and your Dr is going to accomodate. Fx for happy news!

heyitserin · January 2018

I think we have pretty similar situations. I go back Thursday for another scan and like you just want peace of mind regardless of the outcome. Great job advocating for yourself and your baby. Fx for a great outcome!

ble1 · January 2018

@bmxerbaby Hopefully the doctor will give you the answers you need. The waiting part is very difficult. Keep us updated, we are routing for you and bean!

Patience7150 · February 2018

Hope your doc can turn your lab results today @bmxerbaby. Thinking of you if we don't hear from you before your US tomorrow.

bmxerbaby · February 2018

No word on my labs from this morning, which I can interpret both ways....either fine, and we will review the u/s in the morning, or bad and she'll review in person in the morning. Hoping for some positive news.

*edited for redundancy

Car0liiine · February 2018

I'll be thinking of you in the morning!

bmxerbaby · February 2018

My faith is surly being tested lately

My numbers went down. From 20k to 19.8k. She didn't even bother with an u/s. Now I have to decide if I let my body do it on its own, or we schedule a D/C. Not quite sure yet, still processing. With that being said, we will not be trying again. Two amazing healthy sons are my blessing and one day I will have some beautiful grand babies to spoil. I wish you all the absolute best in your pregnancy journey! I'll peek in from time to time to lurk. Take care S18 ladies.

starla · February 2018

@bmxerbaby I'm so sorry. I can't believe they're wouldn't "bother" doing an ultrasound.

SkilledSailor · February 2018

*hugs* I am so sorry to see this update. Please take care of yourselves the best you can.

spottedginger · February 2018

I am so sorry. You have been in my thoughts and I hoped for different news today. Sending hugs

DanyTargaryen · February 2018

I'm so sorry.

Please take care.

prpl11butterfly · February 2018

I'm so sorry

stothi · February 2018

I'm so sorry.

Wishilivedinflorida · February 2018

I’m so sorry to hear this update. I’m also sorry for the apparent lack of empathy from your care team. If you need any info from someone who has had D&C’s I’m available by PM.

sclarke7 · February 2018

I'm sorry for your loss, thinking of you

Spylon · February 2018

I'm so so sorry *hugs*

Patience7150 · February 2018

Thinking of you and I'm sorry for your loss.

pourmeanothermocktail · February 2018

Very sorry for your loss. I hope for a quick resolution and healing.

treeofcheem · February 2018

I’m so sorry. I had to decide whether to wait or have a D&C when we had our first loss; if you need to talk it through feel free to PM me.

Car0liiine · February 2018

I'm so sorry you didn't get the news we were all hoping for. Take care of yourself as you make these next decisions and go through your healing process. Best wishes!