Hi, I have been trying to find a new OB since mine was very unsupportive of my choices while TTC. I am 39 and this is my first pregnancy. It was a natural BFP, but I have spent 4+yrs under the treatment of multiple REs TTC. The only real diagnosis that has been confirmed is the MTHFR genetic defect. I am a cash pay for all my maternity care. My friend had twins and loved the care from her MFM. I cannot find another good referral for someone close to me and I do not have friends that have been through IF. I called for pricing from this MFM and she is literally twice the price of OBs. ($2300 vs $5600). Am I being too picky/paranoid by wanting to be under her care instead of an OB? Are there others over 35 here further along in the process that has advice?
TTC since May 2013
Mild PCOS, Compound Heterozygous MTHFR No Folic acid/pharmaceuticals/supplements (too many to list- private message me if interested), IVIL infusion