MFM for Advanced Maternal Age?

lablover78 · January 2018

Hi, I have been trying to find a new OB since mine was very unsupportive of my choices while TTC. I am 39 and this is my first pregnancy. It was a natural BFP, but I have spent 4+yrs under the treatment of multiple REs TTC. The only real diagnosis that has been confirmed is the MTHFR genetic defect. I am a cash pay for all my maternity care. My friend had twins and loved the care from her MFM. I cannot find another good referral for someone close to me and I do not have friends that have been through IF. I called for pricing from this MFM and she is literally twice the price of OBs. ($2300 vs $5600). Am I being too picky/paranoid by wanting to be under her care instead of an OB? Are there others over 35 here further along in the process that has advice?

safire3 · January 2018

I just turned 35 and this is my first also. From my understanding it is not an either/or situation. MFM specialists generally do not go tot the hospital or deliver babies (at least not in my area). It seems the MFM mainly does monitoring and looking for any complications that may arise but I still have to go to the OB for routine pregnancy care. Did your friend only see the MFM? In my area there are lots of OBs and even quite a few options for perinatologists so maybe that is why their roles are so separate.
Either way I would definitely start by finding an OB as they usually have a few MFMs that they prefer to work with. Good luck!

lablover78 · January 2018

Thanks! While my friend did only see the MFM I think you’re right that I can find an OB and then see the MFM If there are problems down the road. So much to think about and I just don’t really trust anyone unfortunately

[Deleted User] · January 2018

Also FTM, but I am just playing it by ear. @lablover78. I am still with the RE atm, but then the Ob I want to see also has two midwives in the practice. The intake person told me it was a wait till May to see the Ob, but I told her I was pregnant and it would be fine to just see the midwife to start, and that's what we're doing. I will be turning 35 in a few weeks, so if the midwife/Ob sees anything that warrants a referral, I will gtake it from there. Otherwise I wouldn't know where to begin lookong for an MFM except try whoever the Ob knows / trusts / likes / has worked with before etc.

cashewchicken · January 2018

@lablover78 I’m currently being seen by MFM as I have gestational diabetes and that makes this pregnancy high risk. This might just be at my hospital (one of the largest research hospitals in my state), but I don’t feel that I’m getting an extra ob care from my MFM. The only extra care is diabetes related, so really just monitoring my diet and glucose levels. I’m also seeing an endocrinologist (from my prediabetes days) and I essentially get the same care. If both you and your baby are healthy, not sure advanced age alone warrants care by MFM. Maybe start with OB and ask his/her opinions on it?

cseley321 · January 2018

As stated above, usually the MFM is separate. I have never heard of it being a situation of only seeing an MFM, but I could be wrong

cashewchicken · January 2018

@cseley321 I think it depends on the hospital group. My hospital is MFM or OB, and you don’t see both as MFM specialists are also trained in obstetric care.

latershrader · January 2018

@lablover78 I saw both an MFM because I was AMA & I had a separate OB. The MFM monitored me monthly until the last 2 months and I saw them weekly. It was good because I ended up having placenta issues and needed to go on bed rest. My MFM would not deliver though, just monitored with bio-physical ultrasounds and non-stress tests. Hope this helps!

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