This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's....
breast pumps and nursing accessories! (Note: we have another thread scheduled to talk more specifically about formula and formula-feeding accessories.)
Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed.
For S+TMs: - Favorite [breast pump/nursing accessory]:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?:
- Additional thoughts on [breast pump/nursing accessory], specifically any tips re: insurance?:
For FTMs:- How often do you drive/do you want to use your carseat as a carrier:
- [breast pump/nursing accessory] you're interested in:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- Any questions about it/them for S+TMs?:
Our past threads are here:
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Re: Product Spotlight Week of 12/18: Breast Pumps and Accessories!
I used to pump in between classes in college, I'd be able to keep my pump in my backpack plus my cooler of bottles without looking like a bag lady.
Other tips:
Stock up on nursing pads and spend the money on disposables if you can.
If you commute, get a car adapter for your pump. I pumped to and from work and it was a lifesaver.
Jessica Simpson nursing camis were my fave but I only tried a few. Supportive and cute.
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BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
I'm still giddy days later about getting a Spectra S2 Plus this time. My DD was EBF until 6 months and then didn't wean until almost 21 months, so I have all sorts of favorite products and tips. I'm struggling with the template, but here's my input:
Favorite [breast pump/nursing accessory]:
The majority of insurance plans allow you to receive your breast pump regardless of your due date. Please allow 7-10 business days from the date you place your order to receive your breast pump.
If you are a United Healthcare, UMR or Oxford member, these plans will cover the cost of your breast pump if your baby is already born or you are due within the next 30 days. If your due date is more than 30 days in the future, we will begin the order and insurance verification process for these specific plans 30 days prior to the baby's due date. If you have already had your baby or you are due within the next 30 days, total processing and delivery time will be approximately 7-10 business days.
I must say, although nipple shields do help when you’re extremely unable to latch (like my son) they are a pain in the ass. By two weeks my home nurses told me that I’d have to always use the nipple shield if I wanted to continue breastfeeding. And although I had a major letdown, I would have very little milk left after that. So my letdown would choke my baby, get caught up in the nipple shield, soak my shirt even with a receiving blanket tucked in, and pretty much made attempting to breastfeed hell. I don’t regret my decision to go to formula. It saved my sanity and made me a better mother. But I will never try a nipple shield again. That is not a permanent solution IMO.
However, I'm interested in pumping this time around, and adding any milk I *am* able to get to little man's diet because after both my previous boys' births, I had crazy issues with my metabolism. I'm hoping that pumping will help my body adjust postpartum.
I'm thinking of a Spectra, based on reviews and recommendations here, if my insurance will cover it. My main question is regarding frequency of pumping. How often do you pump? I'm not going to have any physical cues from my body on this--my breasts will not get sore if I go x amount of hours without breastfeeding/pumping, I will not get engorged, etc.
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~~Mama to 3 crazy boys~~
~~Wrangler of 2 cats~~
~~Wife to one amazing man~~
~~Mama to 3 crazy boys~~
~~Wrangler of 2 cats~~
to discourage you from pumping but just know that some women don't lose weight while breastfeeding. My body held on to every freaking ounce of fat it could while I was exclusively nursing, and didn't let me start shedding pounds until I got my period back 9 mos postpartum. just don't want you to put too much stock in it or pressure on yourself. I thought I was broken because my body was not working the way I read it did for other women.
Edited bc hit post too soon
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~~Mama to 3 crazy boys~~
~~Wrangler of 2 cats~~
I’m hoping insurance will cover a Spectra S1 or S2 this time as I had the medela pisa last time. It was fine, but from what I hear from everyone I might like the Spectra better especially since I’ll have newborn twins and an almost 2 year old to take care of so I might pump more than I bf.
Definitely use lanolin cream and if it hurts check the size of your flanges! The hospital should help you make sure you’re doing it right and can give you some extra tubing and parts.
doing weight watchers and could not lose an ounce. My endochronolgoist was basically like
you must be eating to much. I wasn't. I think it was hormonal and my body trying to store everything for milk production, as soon as my period came back I lost 5 pounds in one week. Maybe I would have experienced that with or without breastfeeding. It's crazy how much our bodies go through having these babies.
Re nipple shields. I was given one in the hospital bc my son wouldn't latch. He eventually latched with the shield but it took me 3 weeks and doing my own research to figure
out he had a tongue a lip tie. I saw like 3 or 4 staff lactation consultants in the hospital and none of them even looked inside his mouth. By the time I figured it out and got it fixed, he was totally dependent on the shield and it took until he was 5 months to get him to nurse without it. Those nipple shields drove me nuts. I hated them with every fiber of my being. I wish we had identified the root cause from the beginning because I view them as a bandaid. At least in my case. I know they're a controversial topic even among nurses and lactation consultants but just thought I'd share my experience. If you have trouble latching,
look inside the baby's mouth and see if the lip and tongue look tied too tight. Google photos so you know what to look for.
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
I just thought I'd add my experience with a nipple shield.
Nursing was painful from the first time she latched on. By the time the midwife came to my house for the 24-hour visit, I had blisters and was cringing and grimacing every time she sucked, so she gave me a nipple shield to help protect them so it'd be less painful and help with slightly inverted nipples and her latch. We got a tongue and lip tie snipped, we did everything. I'm pretty sure she just had a bad latch. She would take several sucks and then make a smacking sound. It sounded, looked and felt like she lost suction and then she'd suck really hard to get it fully back into her mouth, and that's what hurt the most, although nursing in general was very painful too.
Nursing shields are NOT supposed to be for long term use. At my one-week appointment, they said I should start weaning off of it.
So what I did was use it until the pain went away, which took 3-4 days, and then stop using it for 3-4 days until the pain built back up and repeat. Slowly, the time with and without it lengthens, but I wasn't able to stop using it completely until 2.5 months. Now, she's seven months old, and I haven't used it since.
I don't know if I would have been able to continue nursing without it. Nursing was very important for me, and I went through a lot for 2.5 months, but it was unbelievably painful without it. I probably would have pushed through without it, but it would have been exponentially harder and more painful than the very high difficulty and pain with it.
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Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): Electric was free with insurance, but hand pump was ~$40 (like it so much i had 2 sets!)
What you like about it: Hand pump was easy to work with. Easier to take traveling (i would pump on the plane in my seat).
What you don't like about it, if anything: too many parts.
Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you don't have but are considering? Why?: Got offered the Spectra S2 this time. Considering it since i hear it’s better.
Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?: Washable pads. I had such bad leakage they didn’t work for me but i like the idea. I will be avoiding wired nursing bras, too painful.
Additional thoughts on [breast pump/nursing accessory], specifically any tips re: insurance?: Wish i used the nipple shield a lot sooner. Maybe i would avoided the pump earlier on. Recommend easy cleaning wipes and microwave bag if your traveling or pumping at work. Buy cheap storage bags, they work just a good. I personally don’t believe in nipple confusion. DS had issues latching early on so i switched to bottles within the week. Around 3/4 months i tried latching him and tada! It worked no issues or pain. Idk why but I’ll take it. We also did pacifiers early on. I do want to say that there is no shame if you breastfeed or not, if you try or not. I eventually switch to formula because BF was making my anxiety worse.
Edited to make it easier to read. It looked like an essay
We were recommended other things like chiropractic care and such, but at some point, I felt like, why should we keep throwing money at this issue when nothing is working? Like the nipple shield helped with the pain because it protected the nipple, but it wasn't magic and it didn't help with what it was supposed to. It didn't train her to latch well within a couple weeks. The tongue and lip tie helped a minuscule amount. For various reasons, we were pretty broke and the tongue and lip were insanely expensive (not covered by insurance). So it kind of felt like this - Tongue and lip ties are supposed to be the silver bullet. Everyone talks about them and it's supposed to be amazing. My sister, everyone has stories about them or someone they know where it fixed everything. And then it didn't work for us. So then it's, oh, well chiropractic care might help. They need the alignment. This helps so many babies. Etc. ... But ... that's the same thing said about tongue and lip ties, and that didn't work. Am I supposed to keep throwing money at this and hope things work? What if it doesn't and then, oh, here's the next silver bullet, here's the REAL silver bullet.
I'm not saying the above thought process is right. Maybe the next thing would have worked, but that's how it felt in the moment.
To be clear, my baby was fine. She wasn't fussy or gassy or colicky from it (we never dealt with any of that). She got everything she needed and gained weight just like she should (even more - 90th percentile for weight.) And I was able to endure it, obviously, because I'm still nursing her.
I genuinely feel that she just had a bad latch and that some babies just have issues. When my childhood best friend was a baby, she had a lazy suck. Her mom would try to get her to nurse and she would never do more than a couple little sucks. Her mom would go as long as she could trying to make her nurse and she couldn't or wouldn't even hungry, and then she'd pump and bottle feed. She kept this up for a long time before switching to formula. I was honestly completely shocked to hear my mom, who is a HUUUUGE nursing proponent almost to a fault, say that my bf's mom kept up the trying and pumping for way longer than she (my mom) ever would have, so that tells you how unfixable the issues were.
So I just think my baby just had issues, and some babies do.
Edited to tag @lovesclimbing