I won't bore you with my 5+ year backstory because it's too long and awful, but I have a quick question and I'm hoping people will weigh in. I'm trying to decide how much I should push my doctors to get me in for another IVF retrieval in December, as opposed to having to wait until February or March. I would need to push HARD - like refusing some genetic screens and being a real PITA to the nurses, but I feel like those 2-3 months might make a big difference since I turned 40 at the end of the summer. I do not have diminished ovarian reserve, but egg quality might be a concern. I haven't had a fresh retrieval in years, so I have no idea what how it will go.
Tl;dr: How much does each month REALLY matter after age 40?
DD born April 2015 after many rounds of IVF and losses.
After much more of the same...