FFFC

sandbar517

Let's hear em......

sandbar517

Mine is related to something @ivyvines6 said yesterday.  The "p" word for women's underwear makes me cringe big time.  Like, I almost gag hearing it, reading it, anything.  (But I still love you, @ivyvines6!)

charlestonchew

I'm trying to get my eating better but I'm really failing. I feel like that's my confession.

ivyvines6

I give love tits to everything I've read, regardless of whether I agree with it or not.

ivyvines6

@sandbar517. I use the two terms interchangeably. It used to really bother me that so many women refer to their undergarments as panties, but it doesn't bother me as much anymore. No idea why though? Maybe it's just more ok to me now because I teach little girls and their mothers prefer the term panties? 

sandbar517

@ivyvines6, we are no longer friends.  You can't use the word I just told you I hate TWICE in one message!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

ivyvines6

@kpc914 I didn't watch the eclipse...

rowboat4

I'm terrible at remembering my prenatal vitamins 

yesthisiskim0401

TB was waaaaayyyyyyyy more fun years ago. 

ivyvines6

yesthisiskim0401 said:

TB was waaaaayyyyyyyy more fun years ago. 

My TB Facebook group is literally called a16 sisters of shade...

charlestonchew

@rowboat4 Do you have a phone with an alarm? I just set it for the time I know I'll be around my vitamins, which for me is 9 PM or later.

sandbar517

@yesthisiskim0401 and @ivyvines6 I fell off TB after I had my girls in 2014, can you give some details about what all went down?  I've heard there was a lot of craziness between the mods and the general public, but nothing more specific than that.  

ivyvines6

@sandbar517 Honestly I have no idea. Must have happened after I went in hiatus?

createmagic14

@sandbar517 paid mods came in, started banning everyone,  especially longtimers if they said something even slightly controversial, but newbies and speshul snoeflaykes could post awful shit and it would be left there.   It was in the name of "making a more inclusive board" (new owners didn't want people complaining about "snark"/ you know,  basically the drive-bys who would post nonsense then while that everyone was SO MEAN!).  Shit blew up,  massive exodus.  If you go back to spring 15 bmbs, ttc, you can probably find some of it.   A lot of people left and deleted their accounts,  so some of it missing too. 

rowboat4

charlestonchew said:

@rowboat4 Do you have a phone with an alarm? I just set it for the time I know I'll be around my vitamins, which for me is 9 PM or later.

I do and I still forget. I probably need to try a different time. I have to take mine with food so that makes it harder. 

rowboat4

createmagic14 said:

@sandbar517 paid mods came in, started banning everyone,  especially longtimers if they said something even slightly controversial, but newbies and speshul snoeflaykes could post awful shit and it would be left there.   It was in the name of "making a more inclusive board" (new owners didn't want people complaining about "snark"/ you know,  basically the drive-bys who would post nonsense then while that everyone was SO MEAN!).  Shit blew up,  massive exodus.  If you go back to spring 15 bmbs, ttc, you can probably find some of it.   A lot of people left and deleted their accounts,  so some of it missing too. 

This is pretty much the easiest way to explain it. Our entire group pretty much left for FB. We still have over 100 members in our group, but probably only 50-60 that are super active. 

sandbar517

@createmagic14 Thanks!  That makes a lot of sense.  I probably would have left, too.  Snark is what makes these boards tolerable and fun!

yesthisiskim0401

What @createmagic14 said. It happened after my last bmb made the move to FB. 
All these pre-planned-and-approved posts are just so mundane. I used to live for a nice, juicy gif war. 

rowboat4

yesthisiskim0401 said:

What @createmagic14 said. It happened after my last bmb made the move to FB. 
All these pre-planned-and-approved posts are just so mundane. I used to live for a nice, juicy gif war. 

Yessss gif wars. 

mrsbacz

rowboat4 said:

I'm terrible at remembering my prenatal vitamins 

Ugh, forgot mine in a pants pocket the other day and put it through the wash! 

sandbar517

I'm an obsessed over-giffer.  

mileswithmyles

TTGP still gets some crazy drive-bys. 

My last BMB was half on FB half on TB when the implosion happened.  I feel like there's still room for crazy to come on in. Two of our regulars ended up being two of the shadiest/craziest people of the BMB. 

FFFC- I love to lurk on the drama-filled threads. 

ivyvines6

mileswithmyles said:

TTGP still gets some crazy drive-bys. 

My last BMB was half on FB half on TB when the implosion happened.  I feel like there's still room for crazy to come on in. Two of our regulars ended up being two of the shadiest/craziest people of the BMB. 

FFFC- I love to lurk on the drama-filled threads. 

See I don't remember any of this happening...  We still had all that going on during my tenure from August 2015-May 2016 

sandbar517

@mileswithmyles, omg do they ever!  And I totally agree with your confession.  So funny to go back and read some of the crazy shit that's been posted!

yesthisiskim0401

mileswithmyles said:

TTGP still gets some crazy drive-bys. 

My last BMB was half on FB half on TB when the implosion happened.  I feel like there's still room for crazy to come on in. Two of our regulars ended up being two of the shadiest/craziest people of the BMB. 

FFFC- I love to lurk on the drama-filled threads. 

By absolutely no means did the TB change fix the issue with crazies lol. 

rowboat4

mileswithmyles said:

TTGP still gets some crazy drive-bys. 

My last BMB was half on FB half on TB when the implosion happened.  I feel like there's still room for crazy to come on in. Two of our regulars ended up being two of the shadiest/craziest people of the BMB. 

FFFC- I love to lurk on the drama-filled threads. 

Yes we had some crazies that didn't show their true crazy until almost 2 years after our babies were born 

ccvslp

@rowboat4  After only the second day of the new school year I forgot to pack my vitamin (i usually eat in the car so I take it with me) and I've decided I'm stashing a jar of backup gummy ones at work. Lol 

ivyvines6

ccvslp said:

@rowboat4  After only the second day of the new school year I forgot to pack my vitamin (i usually eat in the car so I take it with me) and I've decided I'm stashing a jar of backup gummy ones at work. Lol 

Careful they melt into one gigantic gummy blob (ask me how I know)

ccvslp

@ivyvines6 LOL... welp today it's so chilly in the northeast that I turned the heat on so that sadly may not be an issue.  Whaaaa.

justsuzie

I always eat the stuff out of my "by-the-pound" bag on the way to the register so it's cheaper. 

cups4

I borderline dislike/tolerate my dogs after having a kid. It doesn't help that they act like dicks, either. 

ivyvines6

cups4 said:

I borderline dislike/tolerate my dogs after having a kid. It doesn't help that they act like dicks, either. 

I can never be a pet owner again after having a kid. I feel blessed that my cat ran away while I was pregnant last time.

yesthisiskim0401

cups4 said:

I borderline dislike/tolerate my dogs after having a kid. It doesn't help that they act like dicks, either. 

After I had my first, that was a mutual feeling between my dogs and I. They bit my DD when she was one and I rehomed them. 
We have a dog now and he's incredibly sweet, and incredibly stinky lol. Some days I can't be in the same room as him because it bothers me, and I am his favorite person so he follows me everywhere. 

sandbar517

@cups4 so much this!!! My dog became jealous and his anxiety increased to the point where he started marking all over our carpet.  We had to put him on Prozac and miraculously he's still with us, although I don't know for how long as his accidents are starting again and he's hella old.

TeacherMom2015

yesthisiskim0401 said:

TB was waaaaayyyyyyyy more fun years ago. 

Amen 

bearwithme

I love kid free weddings. 

bearwithme

mileswithmyles said:

TTGP still gets some crazy drive-bys. 

My last BMB was half on FB half on TB when the implosion happened.  I feel like there's still room for crazy to come on in. Two of our regulars ended up being two of the shadiest/craziest people of the BMB. 

FFFC- I love to lurk on the drama-filled threads. 

Have you ever read the butt baby thread? Or the one about fisting in preparation for birth?  

rowboat4

KD5624 said:

I love kid free weddings. 

You're welcome for that inspo 

bearwithme

@mileswithmyles and anyone else who is interested. Here's one of them-  


https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/7560789/preparing-for-child-birth/p1

SLC1102

I want wine tonight sooooo bad.  Sigh....

ivyvines6

KD5624 said:

@mileswithmyles and anyone else who is interested. Here's one of them-  


https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/7560789/preparing-for-child-birth/p1

I read the butt baby thread but this is new