So my husband is working out of town and won't be present. And as we just moved here, I don't know anyone and neighbor not comfortable babysitting.
Was your under 2yr old present during your previous birth? Same room or in waiting room? How did he/she respond?
I'm now considering home birth as I don't think it is appropriate for him to be present and not up to midwives to babysit if he is a handful. And it's not like I can drive mysrlf to the hospital. At least at home I can be in the bedroom with the midwives while he watches tv and plays with his toys???