So my mom & sister are throwing me a shower together. They're already stressing me out. I'm the early bird planner in the family so wish me luck. Anyway, my sister keeps stressing that she only invited 10 people to her shower my mom threw her and her friends threw her a shower. That's all great and dandy but none of my friends have offered and I'm due October 8th. There are about 35-40 people I want to invite and there's no guarantee they'll all show up. On the other hand, inspite of not knowing how many people are on my list, my sister keeps pressuring me to keep my list small. Plus my mom and sister are very dramatic. I don't know what to do at this point. Any suggestions?