@Ladybug2821 that is some expression!
@SandNStarsNJ I hope you're right! Of course we want 3 or 4 so I may be pushing it to get lucky every time lol
The idea of 3-4 kids blows my mind, I know people do it but that just seems so difficult to me LOL. My parents had 3 of us in 3.5 years which I also can't fathom
I'm right there with you. S is truly a handful. I'm leaning towards wanting one more but admittedly I was rethinking that for awhile until S was around 6 months or so. My SIL just had her second set of twins and the first set isn't turning 2 until next month. I know I wouldn't be able to handle it. I'm scared of 2 under 2, 4 is insane!!
As soon as my husband and I agreed to have a baby, I told him we were having more than one. My mom only had one child and I was basically alone when my parents got divorced, my grandparents died and when my mom got dementia. I know not everyone can have more than one and it's not right for everyone but I would feel so guilty if I left A in the position I'm in.