Would it be terrible if I commented on it with something along the lines of F that?
I have a fear..I've been following a friend's postpartum struggles and her marriage is not surviving it. Her husband just has so much resentment and thinks the baby hates him and he refuses to go to counseling. I'm so scared that this will happen to DH and me.. I don't want our marriage to be ruined because of the infant years. And now I feel even more "what have I done?" even though we tried for a year to have this baby and both really wanted a baby.