TTC After a Loss

May TWW

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Re: May TWW

  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    I still have hope for you @hdaley!
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  • SP128SP128 member
    @hdaley  fx crossed so hard for you.  

    I did acupuncture 1x about a month and a half ago.  You don't even feel the needles.  They are so thin. I promise.
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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  • hdaleyhdaley member
    I guess there could still be hope.  I wasn't temping.  I got a positive opk on 5/6 and then a positive opk on the morning of 5/7 and then in the afternoon of 5/7 a negative.  So I could have ovulated anywhere from 5/7-5/9.  So I'm either 10-12dpo, right?  


    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • I've never done acupuncture for fertility; however, I have a HUGE fear of needles (ironic since I've felt like a pincushion the past year or so with RPL tests and beta bloodwork)... and when I did acupuncture years ago, it did NOT even bother me.  I thought it would, but it was actually awesome!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • jchpgjchpg member
    @hdaley im keeping my fingers crossed for you! 

    Im going to test tomorrow morning.. CD 25... my cycle after my MC was 27 days and it can be up to 30- I know it's maybe a little too early but I just need to try- I'm so impatient! 
  • This TWW is really messing with my head. I know my lining is pretty much non-existent this cycle, so I'm 99.9% sure I'm out, but since 8-9DPO, I've been extra tired (falling asleep earlier than usual, I'm struggling to stay awake today, when I never have trouble staying awake on my day off), my breasts have been sore, and I've had twinges of cramps. None of these things are normal pre-AF for me, except I had sore breasts the day before AF last cycle. So far I'm 10DPO and BFN (not FMU). I just wish it was Monday so I could go in to get my betas checked before my hysteroscopy to set the record straight.
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    edited May 2017
    @ladipale My DH and I were just talking about acupuncture. Would it matter what CD you had the treatment? Or do it just whenever?
  • Maybe there is hope @weareturtles
    either way I hope everything evens out soon and doesn't mess with your mind much.
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  • @weareturtles  Tww makes you into a crazy lady! Absolutely.  I hope the weekend flies by!
  • @Chawk17 - nope. I went for an entire cycle (plus into first tri) with my first pregnancy. just tell them where in cycle you are
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • hdaleyhdaley member
    CD1..............

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • Oh @hdaley, I am so sorry 
    DD1 4.14.10
    DD2 8.22.13
    MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
    Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18

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  • hdaleyhdaley member
    How are you holding up @BelhurstBride

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • I had a barely discernible line on my last Wondfo this morning, at 13dpo. I actually came on to post for fx, but saw your post and was too heartbroken for you to do so.

    I'm going to give it a couple of days and buy a digital.  
    DD1 4.14.10
    DD2 8.22.13
    MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
    Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18

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  • SP128SP128 member
    @hdaley : (
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • jchpgjchpg member
    @hdaley I'm so sorry! I had my fingers crossed for you. :( 

    I'm CD 25 today and I'm not sure if it'll be a 27 or 30 day cycle... everything's been crazy. Hoping for a 27 day cycle I tested this morning and got a BFN. I'm hoping I still have a chance...

    @BelhurstBride I have my FX for you! 
  • hdaleyhdaley member
    @BelhurstBride fingers crossed for you.  BFPs from you girls give me hope for me. We are entering our 4th cycle.  Our time will come.  

    I had had a friend tell me that it might just take longer to have a child as awesome as our DS.  I'm hanging onto that.

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • @hdaley - we were talking last night about how DD follows me everywhere and she is 6.  He asked me if I would be the same way with the future baby.  I said if we have another one I know for sure I would love it so much because it's been such a struggle.
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  • @hdaley.  I'm sorry.  Totally sucks 
  • @jchpg and @BelhurstBride. FX for you gals


    AFM, I'm on CD24.  I haven't had the urge to test.  I'm not sure but doing this medicated cycle has done wonders for me. I'm not stressed and very calm.  I don't plan to test until Friday if AF hasn't arrived that is two exactly from insemination date 
  • @hdaley sorry girl :-(
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @BelhurstBride - FX!!!!

    @hdaley - sorry about CD1...I anticipate I'll be over in WTO with you in just a few more days.
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
  • @weareturtles.  I know you said it was long shot but I hope you don't have to go back to WTO.  FX for you
  • Thanks, @Mack2342

    Unfortunately, I have red spotting in my CM (cervix is high and pretty soft right now). I'm taking this as a sign AF will arrive earlier than expected. Hard to believe since I'm 12DPO and AF seems to come 14-16DPO. Perhaps all the surgeries have changed things? We'll see how this all plays out...
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
  • @Chawk17 just let them know where you are at in your cycle. My acupuncturist wanted us to bench for a cycle to do more intensive treatment but we just didn't want to do that. They will work with you. 

    @hdaley sorry for cd 1. 

    DH was bugging me to test at about 11dpo and of course it was a bfn. I hate testing and haven't for about the last 4 cycles. It's always way worse for me then just having af show up. I had a really hard day yesterday. I'm supposed to have my surgery in two weeks and I'm really debating if it's even worth putting myself through this. I feel like me RE is grasping at straws and nothing seems to be wrong or work for us. I just have this feeling it's something else that will give me falseness hope...just like my HSG. 
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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @hdaley so sorry girl!

    FX for you @BelhurstBride
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
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    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    edited May 2017
    @MooFish2364 - sorry about yesterday.  I wouldn't want to do the surgery either but maybe it will help you never know.  I'm with you on the testing though - I don't like testing. Why waste the money to buy tests.  If I do test I get them at dollar tree lol.
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  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    @MooFish2364 thanks!
    Also I'm sorry about DH pushing you into testing...I swear they don't get it.  What kind of surgery are you having?
  • @vlagrl29 I have a whole bunch of internet cheapies since the came with my OPKs. SO I guess it's easier to justify using one! I think it might help too. I am worried about it causing scaring and making it worse...there's about a 1% chance or that. I guess I'm just more worried about it getting my hopes up in case nothing happens. 

    @Chawk17 he's just always optimistic for some reason and I guess I get sucked in. According to my last saline u/s I have a fibroid on the top of my uterus. It is distorting the shape so it's the worst kind for TTC even though it's small. Since I'll be under to have that removed he wants to look at my tubes too (which means incisions on my abdomen). He was worried that when he reviewed the video of my HSG that the fluid wasn't leaving my tubes fast enough. He thinks there might be something going on with my right one. 
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  • @MooFish2364 - I hope the surgery goes well and is easy for you.  At least after you've had it done you can say you've done as much as you can to make TTC successful and you don't have to worry about that part anymore.
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  • @BelhurstBride congrats! Let me know if you would like to join us on the grad board and I will sense you an invite. 
  • That'd be great, @BornReady
    DD1 4.14.10
    DD2 8.22.13
    MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
    Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18

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  • Thanks @BelhurstBride. Congrats on the darkening lines!
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  • Congrats @BelhurstBride ! As hard as it is - just take things one day at a time, one hour at a time if you can!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @BelhurstBride that's great news!
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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  • **Lurking**

    Congrats! @BelhurstBride
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • TScaleiTScalei member
    *Lurking*

    Ah congrats @BelhurstBride - one step/ day at a time. Hope to see you on the grad board soon!
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