November 2016 Moms

5 month check-in

(this is a bit late for some I think)

when did your LO turn 5 months?
height/weight/clothing size?
milestones?
what are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)?
what is your biggest challenge?
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Re: 5 month check-in

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  • lol @jsmai on the clothes 
    camcbethtvh1982hoosiermama-2desoky01
  • when did your LO turn 5 months? This Tuesday, April 25th

    height/weight/clothing size? At his 4 mo wellness visit he was 20lbs 3oz & 28". I think his weight is slowing but not his height as we are moving into 12 mo clothes. 

    milestones? Rolling from back to belly and belly to back, though I think that's him trying to stay on his side. He can look at and grab objects with unsettling accuracy and his bottom teeth are breaking through. 

    what are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)? He loves the exersaucer and activity mat as well as sitting chatting, Fuzzy Bee and Friends (book) and bath time. 

    what is your biggest challenge?  I can't keep up with myself. With two LOs and being back at work/pumping I feel like I'm on this constant 24 hour loop where I'm doing just enough to sort of get by. It's killing me just a little bit. 
    Married: 08.05.11
    Welcomed baby girl: 06.10.14
    Second pregnancy EDD: 06.16.16 MC: 10.29.15
    Welcomed baby boy: 11.25.16
    MollySmtvh1982
  • when did your LO turn 5 months? She will be 5 months on 4/26
    height/weight/clothing size? Somewhere around 24 inches, 14.5 lbs, wearing 3-6 and 6 month clothes.
    milestones? starting to roll over both ways, turning herself around on her playmat, grabbing everything, making "guh" sounds, loves playing with her feet and can get her toes in her mouth!, kicks her legs and flails her arms when she wants picked up.
    what are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)? chewing on her buddie (buddietoys.com these smell like vanilla and she loves chewing on it's ear/legs), splashing in the bath, going on walks in the stroller or lillebaby.
    what is your biggest challenge? Naps have shortened from 1-2 hours to 30-45 minutes... makes it hard to get anything done around the house on weekends. I'm still struggling with wanting to stay home with her, but needing to work. We are in the process of selling our house so we can get in a better financial situation, and then I might get to stay home or work part time, but I'm getting pressure from family to stay working and tough it out (not DH, he is supportive of me staying home or working, whatever keeps me sane). I feel guilty either way... Guilty I would not be making an income we could use to afford a better house/build savings for future schooling opportunities, etc or guilty that I would want to work if I didn't really have to and miss out on her early years. I don't love my job, it's not bad, but I don't love it. I can always go back to work, I can't get these early years back. She is still not eating much at daycare and although she is making up for it at home and is growing, I feel bad. Does the mom guilt ever end?
    Me: 32 DH: 31 Married since 2010
    MC January 2016
    BFP February 2016 Baby Girl born 11/2016
    BFP 8/16/2018 EDD 4/29/2019 MMC 10/3/2018
    BFP 12/16/2018 EDD 08/26/2019 MC/CP 12/20/2018
    BFP 03/28/2019 EDD 12/07/2019 Hoping for our rainbow


  • @megz1902 - I'm coming up on 3 years as a mom, and so far, no. The mom guilty is very real and strong. I hope you make a decision you're comfortable!
    Married: 08.05.11
    Welcomed baby girl: 06.10.14
    Second pregnancy EDD: 06.16.16 MC: 10.29.15
    Welcomed baby boy: 11.25.16
    Megz1902
  • @Megz1902 good luck in whatever decision you make. Don't let others make you feel guilty either way. None of their damn business 
    Megz1902
  • when did your LO turn 5 months? today , 11/25
    height/weight/clothing size? at her 4 month appointment, She was at 85% for height and 15lb3oz, did not measure afterwards. But I think her growth did slow down a lot. 
    milestones? she s been rolling from back to tummy and rotate around herself, somehow. she can roll back to her back only at certain angles, if her arm is in correct position. She has pretty good control of her hands.
    what are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)? She loves her play gym, rolling and rotating to play with different toys in it. She loves bathing and getting naked. She loves throwing her toys off from her high chair, especially hard plastic ones that would make noise when they hit the floor. 
    what is your biggest challenge? The big change in our lifestyle is burning me out and destroying our marriage. H is still in grad school , he was supposed to finish before the baby but he did not. So I could not take more unpaid leave and returned to work. Since we chose (the biggest mistake) academic careers, we are not making much money and now dependent on our parents to take care of the baby. So this whole situation is making me angry with H like all the time and we do not have any time for each other. I do not know how we are going to save this relationship. Oghh and LO does not like bottle , it is another factor that increases my mom guilt about going back to work. 
  • I'm so sorry @ZoeFer
  • @ZoeFer i hear you on the mom guilt. N does not like bottles much either and I worry she doesn't eat enough at daycare. We just got done with a week vacation where I only nursed her and didn't pump. It evened out my slight oversupply, and it was so nice not to mess with bottles and know she was getting enough all day....
    Me: 32 DH: 31 Married since 2010
    MC January 2016
    BFP February 2016 Baby Girl born 11/2016
    BFP 8/16/2018 EDD 4/29/2019 MMC 10/3/2018
    BFP 12/16/2018 EDD 08/26/2019 MC/CP 12/20/2018
    BFP 03/28/2019 EDD 12/07/2019 Hoping for our rainbow


  • when did your LO turn 5 months?
    On the 1st, so she's actually closer to 6 months now.

    height/weight/clothing size?
    Not really sure, at her 4 month appt. she was 16 pounds, and I remember she was in the 75% percentile for height. She's in 9 month, or 6-12 month clothes now.

    milestones?
    She is champion roller and can maneuver herself pretty much anywhere she wants to go, so we're having to be extra careful about stuff that's on the floor and within her reach. She can roll and spin and is pretty much completely mobile and can move herself in any direction via rolling and spinning. Her first tooth poked through this week, and we started solids (purees) about 2 weeks ago.

    what are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)?
    Rolling, talking, being loud. She loves soft, crinkly books, and anything that has a tag on it. She's also recently developed a love for banging whatever she's holding onto the ground ... or me lol. 

    what is your biggest challenge? 
    Juggling the two LOs who are both still completely dependent on me and feeling like I'm constantly failing someone. For example, DD needs a nap, but DS needs his lunch, so I have to leave DD to cry while I prep lunch then she has to wait to take a nap because I'm preoccupied making, serving, supervising, and cleaning up DS's lunch. I feel guilty because a lot of times she seems to get the short end of the stick. She's always having to nap on the go and doesn't really get to have a schedule for her day, she's basically just fitting into his schedule however she can. I'm constantly afraid I'll never have the special bond with her that I have with DS because he and I had so much one-on-one time together, but then I'm also constantly afraid of losing and jeopardizing my bond with DS by pushing him aside (so to speak) in order to tend to her needs. 
    kvruns
  • Emmaholmes89Emmaholmes89 member
    edited April 2017
    When did your LO turn 5 months?
    April 12th

    Height/weight/clothing size?
    She had a check up a little over a week before turning five months and she was 25.8 inches and 14.4lbs. She fits perfectly in 3 month onesies and 6 month pants cause her legs are so long. 

    Milestones?
    She's been rolling for a few weeks, but she's just now getting really comfortable rolling all over the place. She's also getting close to sitting without having to prop up with her hands and crawling (more like wiggling along on her belly) just a little  :) 

    What are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)?
    Loves making faces with us and is practicing her baby talk a LOT. Giggles like crazy when I pretend to eat her belly or her toes which is too cute. And coloured scarves..... those are a huge hit. 

    What is your biggest challenge?
    Separation anxiety, she doesn't want me to leave her for a second, even in the same room. Thankfully she still sleeps fine without me, but I have to be very accessible during all waking hours....
  • when did your LO turn 5 months?
    March 31st (so almost 6 months now)

    height/weight/clothing size?
    rough estimate 72cm 8kg (I'm American but live in France so all his measurements are metric!). 6-9 months clothing

    milestones?
    he babbles, laughs, screeches. He has 2 bottom teeth (and chews on everything!). Has favorite stuffed animals and toys. And he is ticklish now under his chin :)

    what are LO's favorite things (toys, activities,etc)?
    Grabbing toys that dangle above him. Staring and laughing at his crib mobile. Playing with his feet lol

    what is your biggest challenge?
    making him understand that his food or bottle is coming and that I just need 2 min to prepare it! Lol
    Anniversary
    TTC since January 2015
    3/15/2015 BFP!
    4/15/2015 MMC  :'(
    2/25/2016 BFP! Hoping for the best!
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