October 2017 Moms

PGAL Check-In 4/13

Check-in for those who are pregnant after a loss. If you're new, introduce yourself and tell us your story.

1) How far along are you?

2) How are you feeling physically and emotionally?

3) When is your next appointment?

4) Rants/Raves/Questions

5) GTKY: What's your favorite chore? Least favorite?

Me: 35     DH: 37
BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

 

Re: PGAL Check-In 4/13

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  • @laeberge3 I don't have tomorrow off either.  I didn't have it off in college either, so I am a little stunned at the rate at which the world is coming to a halt tomorrow.  Schools and daycares are closed around here.  DH and I both need to work tomorrow, though, so I am on my back up to my back up babysitter.  
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • ::Bump:: PGAL ladies - hello - anyone out there?  @laeberge3 and I are lonely!
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • @migdala  I hope you get your energy back again soon.  Congrats on your baby girl!  Part of me is glad to know so little about my angel baby, but I definitely wonder sometimes "who" that baby was.  
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • @migdala Aww, your sweet H.  I cry at TV shows all the time right now.  Glad you found the HB on the doppler right away! It's so nice being able to pull that out in times of anxiety.  And yay Team Pink!!

    @aprilsarahjune It's weird adjusting to everyone being gone tomorrow, for sure! Funny thing is, my H, who works at a Catholic school, isn't off.  At least he's not hanging out at home while I'm working.
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • @flowerintherain  I do have a Doppler which has helped a lot with the weeks in between!  Glad you're feeling better! :)
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • Ditto - so sad to see one of our own have to leave :( it definitely keeps things in perspective. Can't feel too comfortable some days. 

    How far along are you: 13+6

    How are you feeling: physically - pretty decent. Had a "blah" day but oh well TGIF tomorrow. Nobody I know has tomorrow off! Emotionally -ok right now! Had a great NT scan on Monday so that has taken me into today and will prob do doppler when I get home. Just for reassurance :)

    Next appt: May 8th so far away!

    Rants/Raves/Questions: nope

    Gkty: fav chore...cleaning the kitchen I guess! Least fave: bathrooms - Dh does those! 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @cooaladolll Let us know whether they are giving you the interview.  Having a uterus is definitely a challenge in a typical-all-male work environment.  
    @flowerintherain Boo to the stomach bug but glad it is almost through for you.  As to the DMV,  that place drives me mad.  Last year DH went in on his birthday (the last possible day), but no big deal - we were taking care of it.  The building's a/c went out (in May, in a northern US climate), so they closed before opening that day.  So, DH drove to work a few days with expired tags until we could fix it. Drrr....
    @Uhlease13 TGIF!!
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • 1) How far along are you?
    11+1

    2) How are you feeling physically and emotionally?
    Physically still super exhausted. Nausea is getting better. All of they symptoms seem to be coming and going so it's hard to keep track of. Emotionally I am feeling better, all of my losses were super early so even though I know anything can happen I feel much less stressed now. One of my friends sent me her doppler and it should be here soon and I know that will help too. 

    3) When is your next appointment?
    I just had an appointment last week, we decided to skip all of our first tri screening so I won't have another appointment until May. 

    4) Rants/Raves/Questions
    I am having a repeat C-section and my mom is super pushy about trying for a VBAC. She had 6 kids naturally so she already thought it was a catastrophe that I had an emergency C-section with my first. I had a horrible labor and my son almost ended up in the NICU, the C-section was the only part of my labor that wasn't traumatic. 

    5) GTKY: What's your favorite chore? Least favorite? 
    I don't think I have a favorite haha. I do very little housework because DH is a SAHD and takes care of the house. I hate putting my laundry away though haha. 

  • @nbcarlson Sorry you're still feeling exhausted, but glad the nausea is getting better.  Also, sorry your mom is being so pushy on the VBAC.  My mom's the opposite and had all C-sections and she doesn't understand why people have vaginal births (clearly, she has a bit of a warped view of childbirth, ha!).  I know you're making the best decision for you. :)
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • @nbcarlson @laeberge3 +1 on doing what is right for you without feeling pressured.  If I had gone for a VBAC on my second birth (which I had the option of doing), it would have been a tragic tale.  I am cool with people who want all natural births, but as for me, my C-sections have been great and I have no regrets.
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • @nbcarlson sorry your mom is being pushy...that's frustrating. :/

    I know many people are announcing their pregnancies around now-have any of our pgal moms done so yet? Did you include any loss information? I'm just very curious what people are doing. I'm not even sure if we will announce so just wondering :) TIA

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @uhlease13 We announced yesterday. I went back and forth and back and forth but decided to go ahead. I didn't include anything about our loss with the announcement, but I had publicly acknowledged it back in October. We received lots of support and congrats, which felt nice. 
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • @nbcarlson ugh mothers can be so pushy sometimes. Ultimately, you know your body best and what's most comfortable for you. I'm sure once your mom meets her sweet little grandbaby for the first time, she won't care how it came into the world :smile:

    @Uhlease13 I told immediate family and super close friends around 9 weeks, but I don't think we'll be announcing publicly on social media or anything at all. I know that's against the norm and most people are doing cute little Easter announcements, but I just can't bring myself to let it quite feel real yet. I'm not trying to hide my pregnancy or anything and I'll inevitably get tagged in photos looking pregnant eventually. But those that are important already know, and I don't really see the need for wonderful world of Facebook knowing all details of my life.
    October 2017 May siggy challenge - Parenting fails



    DS-02/25/16
    Pregnancy #2-Due 8/24/17 MMC-01/09/17
    DD-Due 10/24/17
    Pregnancy Ticker


  • 1) How far along are you?
    13w1d

    2) How are you feeling physically and emotionally?
    Been fine

    3) When is your next appointment?
    Wednesday April 19, yay! 

    4) Rants/Raves/Questions
    This is my first PGAL check in. I can't wait for my appointment this week. I think I can almost start relaxing. My last 2 pregnancy attempts ended with a blighted ovum at week 10 and an ectopic at week 9. So far I've had 2 ultrasounds already and one doppler heartbeat confirmation, but still doesn't prevent me from worrying. 

    And I am also debating whether to announce on Facebook. I've always been a big proponent of Facebook announcements for major life events, because what better way to let all your casual friends and family know. If someone gets mad because they didn't hear, I'm usually like, well I posted on Facebook, not my fault you didn't see. But after such a long struggle to get pregnant, I know how painful it is to see all the flowery pregnancy announcements. And don't get me started on people who gush daily about how freaking amazing it is being a mother--life is complete once you have kids, don't you know.
    Anyway, I kinda don't want to post, although I know I probably will when it gets closer. I would love to post being honest about our struggles, but I don't want people at work knowing that I resulted to science to get pregnant (I feel pressure to make it seem more accidental, which I know is crazy). 

    5) GTKY: What's your favorite chore? Least favorite?
    Chores, what are chores? 
  • @Uhlease13 I'm planning on putting something on Facebook after the early anatomy scan. It'll just be an ultrasound pic with flowers around it and I'm planning on referencing the fact that this is a rainbow baby... I don't want to get into details of the MC on Facebook but I do know how much it helped me to realize how common MCs are, so I'd like to put it out there in case someone else needs to realize that too.
  • @Ka++Lo I completely understand the urge to make the pregnancy sound accidental for work purposes.  My first  pregnancy was from clomid and was also at an inopportune time in my career.  I just went around with a terrified look on my face at work saying I can't believe this is happening, when in reality I was so happy and life was great.  I am not sure if that pressure you are feeling is real or imagined, but I definitely felt it too and never figured out whether it really mattered.    
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • @reneeannemm hey girl, how you doing? Haven't seen you post in awhile, just want to make sure everything is ok! 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • Hi I haven't posted on this pregnancy after loss link but have been struggling a bit more lately. I had an early loss only about 3 weeks before getting pregnant with this one and I had been struggling with unexplained infertility for quite some time so it has been a traumatic journey thus far. 

    1) How far along are you? 
    13 weeks 4 days

    2) How are you feeling physically and emotionally? way more emotional recently cried for a long time on Sunday. I really hate telling people I am pregnant I never told people I was pregnant the first time around as I was only 5 weeks and had just told my parents and siblings other than my husband of course. I feel like the more I talk about it then something bad will happen or the baby who died will be forgotten. 

    3) When is your next appointment? next thursday afternoon 

    4) Rants/Raves/Questions I wish I could get ultrasounds weekly to know baby is fine I am always worried.

    5) GTKY: What's your favorite chore? Least favorite? My favorite chore would be vacuuming my least favorite is pretty much everything. lol 

    Thanks for reading :smile:
  • @amesie13 Welcome!  I am in a slightly different place than you otherwise, but I also got pregnant 3 weeks after an early loss.  I spent the first few months of this pregnancy feeling broken, and now I bounce back and forth with being excited for this new LO and wanting to mourn the loss that I just suffered.  I have other children - even had a very difficult twin pregnancy - but this is the first time I have actually been scared about possible outcomes.  All of this is simply to say that you are welcome here, and it is okay to feel the way that you are feeling.
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
  • Hi it's my first post on this thread. So glad to read your stories of heartache and loss and know I'm not alone. As far as I knew at the time, I was the only woman on the planet to ever have suffered a mc. Hugs to all of you rainbow warriors.

    1) 14 weeks tomorrow
    2) April 11th was the one year anniversary of me losing my first ever pregnancy, at 9w. We had seen the heartbeat the week before and were overjoyed. I have been in a total mindfog / state of limbo ever since... unable to go back to the childless person I had always been for the previous 40 years, and unable to move forwards with the mum-to-be persona that I was so embracing when (he) was cruelly wrenched from my womb and my heart. I plan to announce this week so I'm hoping that a bit of love and excitement from my friends will help me to move on.
    3) I get to talk to a midwife in 2 weeks. The doppler has to keep me sane until my next scan at 22 weeks.
    4) I live in France and they don't do the genetic blood test unless a preliminary blood test shows and as > 1 in 250 chance of DS, so I hope not to need it, but I'd love to confirm she's a girl!
    5) I like washing up as it keeps my hands warm, but I make DH clean the shower as my long hairs in the drain gross me out lol.
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @lizgirlie Welcome!  I hope you can settle into a comfortable, smooth pregnancy soon!
    *Siggy warning - loss mentioned*
    Preemie ID DDs; then DS; then natural M/C; now due 10/17
    High risk for pre-term: weekly Makena injections
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