Candle Thread for Loss: Hour of Silence 4:00 p.m. EST

beezeee · April 2017

Hi Everyone! As we've discussed in another thread, our board will be observing an hour of silence today from 4:00-5:00 p.m. EST (1:00pm-2:00pm PT) in honor of our loss moms and their little angels. I wanted to give everyone an hour's notice, since this will be our first time doing this.

During this time, feel free to add your candle or words of support to this thread, but please refrain from posting on or beginning other threads as we take this hour to remember the deep loss felt by members of our community.

eta the plan is for this to be a weekly thread, every Tuesday at the same time.

ForwardnBackward · April 2017

When the time comes up, can someone tag the loss mommas? I think the majority of them appreciate the gesture and tag (at least from prior experience with this...)

beezeee · April 2017

@ForwardnBackward we were initially planning on tagging them, but not having been through a loss myself, I wasn't sure if it might be hard on them to be reminded. If you think it would be appreciated, then we can. Would you be able to tag them? There is a tab with a list of everyone on the spreadsheet.

ForwardnBackward · April 2017

@beezeemarie i thought about it being a possible trigger too but have found many to appreciate the support. I won't be able to tag since I'll be in an OB appointment at the time. Keep this bumped ladies

beezeee · April 2017

Who's on the regular site and can access the spreadsheet to tag the loss mamas? I on mobile and can never access the spreadsheet. Thanks!

bluejeanbabi05 · April 2017

@beezeemarie I can do that. Just tag them in a comment?

eta: and should I tag them now, or wait until closer to 4?

beezeee · April 2017

@bluejeanbabi05 yes, please! At 4 would be good, I think. Now that I'll have the list (after you post), I can tag them in the OP next time. Thank you!

bluejeanbabi05 · April 2017

Will do! Great idea you guys

bluejeanbabi05 · April 2017

Alright my beautiful ladies, let's take a break from the dramaz for an hour to remember and hold up our loss mamas and angels.

Tagging @PleaseSendPicklesNow @carryingablessing @Kirss @ZukiWife @Megzb510 @Tennis11785 @CAdreamin13 @mispanda @ShakeUpTampa @samyv @mountainmartha @BrandedCowgirl92 @BrittnieMariee @mommac2017

We're thinking of you, we miss you and we wish you all the best.

beezeee · April 2017

carries2018 · April 2017

thinking of you all
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soprano19 · April 2017

Thinking of all of you ladies and your sweet little angels.

ForwardnBackward · April 2017

Thinking of you all and your angel babies too beautiful for earth

yasandson · April 2017

Thinking of you, your families and your angel babies. Praying for all of you ❤️

natleilynn · April 2017

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jessafishy · April 2017

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I'm not very good at expressing condolences but just know that my heart has truly hurt with every loss that has happened here.

lemonlyman · April 2017

Thinking of you

ksf13 · April 2017

Oh, this wasn't up when I left for the grocery store. I already had a message typed up to post on one of the threads and just hit enter before I looked at the board. Didn't mean to post after 4. Thinking of you all

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dinosaur · April 2017

for our loss moms

dmellis02 · April 2017

Ugh, I feel horrible because I responded to another post during this time. So sorry!

I am thinking of you ladies and prayers to you and your families.

flowerintherain · April 2017

Thinking of y'all and your little angels

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VLillyV · April 2017

*hugs*

I'm sorry for your loss. I think of you ladies frequently and often. I hope for you. I hope you are feeling better now and I hope you have your sticky baby soon.