I have been TTC going on 4 year now. My spouse was diagnosed with MFI significantly low count and all of my tests came back normal. We did our first round of IVF last year and got 6 blasts. My RE only does FET so our first transfer 1 embryo was successful, split into identical twins that we sadly lost at 8.5 weeks, our 2nd transfer resulted in a chemical pregnancy and our 3rd FET 1 embryo again resulted in miscarriage at 9.5 weeks. I meet with my RE again next week to discuss moving forward and i wanted to know if anyone has advice on what i need to ask for, i have done as much research as i can without driving myself crazy, ive ready about ERA- dont think thats my issue since each embryo has stuck, i plan to ask about clotting issues, thyroid issues- my mom has always had thyroid problems however the blood work i had done prior to IVF was normal its now 1.5 years later. and NK cells. is there anything else i am missing???
Me (28) DH (32)
Married: Dec 2011
TTC#1 May 2014
Dx: MFI (low count)
FET#1 May 2016 BFP
EDD 2/4/17 - TWINS- MC July


FET#2- 11/9/16 BFP- MC

FET#3- 2/8/17 BFP- MC

Re: Advice wanted! IVF/FET
I just got diagnosed with ureaplasma, which information is varied but some think can be a major cause of early RPL.
I have no experience with IVF/FET so that's the best I can do.
Good luck with making decisions and finding things out though!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
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I have done IVF / FET and had only 1 PGS normal embryo out of two perfect looking blasts. We were successful with our 1 PGS normal, the other one was all sorts of chromosomally abnormal despite a high grade/looks wise