May 2017 Moms

Monday Bitchfest 3/27

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  • @chailife34 Hope all is well
    @OmegaRose3 WTF in laws! Especially SIL! After all of that, I would probably take the edibles and smear, crumble, what ever will make a nasty mess all over her room with them. I understand sometimes things slip out of the mind that shouldn't when kids are around, but that is zero tolerance in my book.
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  • @chailife34 FX baby stays put and placenta is ok. Keep us updated please when you can.

    @Jens_Hoes sorry about the job.

    MH and I were lying in bed cracking up over this hilarious text he just sent his brother when DS comes running over and basically goes to do a bounce landing on the bed but instead catches my belly and SUPER sensitive belly button before landing on the bed. My laughter goes immediately to tears. Ouch! 

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  • @hp_momma you can send that to my house. I will make room for it and test it to make sure it will be safe for your kids  ;)
  • @BeachMommy2B you're entitled to your opinion. I don't have easy pregnancies. It is what it is. 
  • @chailife34 hope all is going well 
    @hp_momma remember v tech are the most annoying useless crap toys around 
  • @CherryBananas Probably not without causing some major issues...DH is a lot more figuring than I am too so it makes it hard for me to say it's the final straw. I'm just biding my time and hoping for the best...
    @absbubbs Her room is so messy that she legitimately wouldn't notice if I did...It would be one thing if she wanted to do that somewhere else, she's old enough to make that choice for herself, but not in my house where I have my 1yo who could mistake it for a snack. I've also said many times that I don't mind controlled drinking, but I don't want her around people who are using, she might be too young to understand it now, but it's just not appropriate in my eyes
  • @hp_momma do you have a covered porch? I would put it outside. I bought a big bag of balls like that from Walmart for DD and I throw them in the kiddie pool with her and they stay outside. 
  • bacorrea said:
    @hp_momma do you have a covered porch? I would put it outside. I bought a big bag of balls like that from Walmart for DD and I throw them in the kiddie pool with her and they stay outside. 
    No covered porch! Seriously makes no sense either considering it rains 24/7 here... it would be nice to be able to at least go outside and not get poured on. 

    I'm leaving it out for now while the weather is crappy so they can be entertained but once summer comes around it's getting boxed up. Hopefully we PCS soon and have a playroom at the next house. 
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  • @chailife34 wow!! So scary, but so glad they found it before you went into labor! Good thing is now you can prepare yourself mentally and physically a little more. Sorry about bedrest! FX baby keeps cooking! 
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  • @chailife34 oh man!  I'm glad that it was caught now. I'm sorry that you're not going to get the birth that you wanted. Praying that baby keeps cooking for a bit longer! 
  • Wow, big update. What a freaking day! 
    The ultrasound tech that did my 20w AS completely missed that I have a placenta previa. Thankfully my body alerted us to it with the bleeding this morning, because it turns out I'm going to have a c-section instead of the out of hospital waterbirth we were planning. The baby and I are healthy and stable right now and it's basically turned into a choose-your-adventure now: if I bleed again, I'm staying put until csection, if not, I can likely go home in a few days on bed rest. No more work. Hopefully we can make it to 34-37 weeks but obviously that's dependant on how things go. 

    Holy shit, guys. What a complete change in our plans but I am so glad we discovered it now rather than in an emergency situation later. I'm feeling calm now but am scared, especially as you can imagine, because we planned to go as low-medical-intervention as possible and now this is the total opposite. Whew!
    Placentas can move (mine was low on all 3 growth u/s when my bladder was ill and moved up after I peed), any chance that it wasn't there at your 20w? Either way, I'm glad you discovered it now and not later!! I hope you can go home soon and rest at home instead of remaining admitting until the delivery. 




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  • @chailife34 oh my goodness!  I am so relieved that it was found today as that could have been an unpleasant surprise later :open_mouth: .  I am glad you are both stable and hopefully the bleeding will subside so you can make it a few more weeks.  Please keep us posted.  
  • I can't afford this Army life y'all. Command is going to be so expensive. Blahhh. DH just informed me he has to buy his guide on, it's $150. This isn't even an expense I thought of. So heads up @WombThereItIs @hp_momma @clebl24 (your DH is in CCC too right?). FX we get away with $400 in catering expenses for Change of Command! 
  • @chailife34 oh my gosh! Thank goodness they noticed it! At least you have a little time to adjust getting use to the new plan!
  • @chailife34 what a crazy change in plan but I'm glad they caught it now than later! A blessing in disguise actually. Fx there's no more bleeding and you can go home and relax and be with your family.


  • @chailife34 good thing you went in! Fx for no more bleeding and hopefully the baby can cook as long as possible!
  • @chailife34 Oh wow. I'm so glad you went in and they caught it now, but I'm so sorry your birth plans have to change so much from what you wanted. You seem to be handling it well, though. Sending lots of positive vibes that the bleeding stops and you can wait as long as possible before needing that csection.
  • @bacorrea It's so annoying the amount of random crap that comes up to buy and always at the last minute so your not prepared! 
    This is my little bitch fest in regards to it... the lack of uniform allowance for officers! I mean I *know* the pay in general is more but seriously I swear we pay WAY more for uniforms/patches/accessories now than when he was enlisted! 
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  • hp_momma said:
    @bacorrea It's so annoying the amount of random crap that comes up to buy and always at the last minute so your not prepared! 
    This is my little bitch fest in regards to it... the lack of uniform allowance for officers! I mean I *know* the pay in general is more but seriously I swear we pay WAY more for uniforms/patches/accessories now than when he was enlisted! 
    @hp_momma I know. I try not to complain to my friends that have spouses on the enlisted side, but seriously all the stuff officers are required to do takes up all that "extra" pay. DH had a dining in and then some kind of formal next month. Plus all the hail and farewells and the money for gifts and Ocall. I'm just like ahhhhh sometimes. We have a lot of debt. This was a second job for DH so the Army paid for his undergrad debt but we both have master degrees and I have my undergrad. Now with two kids, I am a bit concerned about the cost of Command. 
  • @chailife34 holy smokes, that's crazy!! I'm glad your body alerted you to the potential danger. Praying baby stays put and you get to go home soon! 
  • @chailife34 wow! I'm sorry you won't get the water birth you wanted but it's great they caught the previa!
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  • @chailife34 I'm so glad they found it now but I am sorry your birth plans have changed. I know that's hard. FX no more bleeding!
  • bacorrea said:
    hp_momma said:
    @bacorrea It's so annoying the amount of random crap that comes up to buy and always at the last minute so your not prepared! 
    This is my little bitch fest in regards to it... the lack of uniform allowance for officers! I mean I *know* the pay in general is more but seriously I swear we pay WAY more for uniforms/patches/accessories now than when he was enlisted! 
    @hp_momma I know. I try not to complain to my friends that have spouses on the enlisted side, but seriously all the stuff officers are required to do takes up all that "extra" pay. DH had a dining in and then some kind of formal next month. Plus all the hail and farewells and the money for gifts and Ocall. I'm just like ahhhhh sometimes. We have a lot of debt. This was a second job for DH so the Army paid for his undergrad debt but we both have master degrees and I have my undergrad. Now with two kids, I am a bit concerned about the cost of Command. 
    I totally understand and we are right there with you. Hopefully with the lower cost of living in El Paso you can breathe a little easier! I about had a heart attack when I got back to WA this week and saw gas at almost $2.90. It was only 2.10 back home in Arizona! 
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  • @NotAPlaya-JustCrushAlot Ugh that's awful. I'm glad the kids ended up being okay, but the parenting was not okay. We were at our neighborhood playground last weekend where there was 3 or even maybe a small 4yo girl playing by herself in the sandbox. Nobody seemed to be watching her or coming to check on her. Turns out her family was playing badminton or something and there was a long line of bushes between her and the family so they could not see her well either. It really irked us.


  • Is it possible to die of heartburn? Seriously. I've tried tums, Zantac, and Pepcid. Nothing.
  • @hp_momma DH told me about the lack of car seats after they drove off or I totally would have. It causes me anxiety just thinking about it. 

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  • @RainyDays86 my friend had a prescription for her 3rd tri. Her last two weeks she spent sleeping sitting up on the couch. Talk to your md they can help
  • @hp_momma maybe after his school it will get better because I swear 90% of the time I have no idea what you guys are talking about with command and whatnot. I think the more clinical MOS get a bit of a break? Even after the promotion this week and upcoming PCS it still won't be a command position, hooray. We live by lots of non medical folks and they always seem surprised how little hooah nonsense is on our lives, hopefully you catch a break soon!

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  • @RainyDays86 ugh the heartburn is real! Drinking milk actually gives me a little relief. I know its one of the things that can either help, or make it worse. Protonix is the best for heartburn (its an RX from the doc) and I believe its an ok'd one from the doc. I'm going to be asking my OB about it at my appt on Thursday.
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  • @kipperoo I would be upset too. I try to schedule mine for as late in the day as possible because my dr office always takes at least an hour. so if i schedule 3:30 or 4:00 with it only being 10 min away i can minimize the time i'm out of work! I'm salaried too, but feel bad being gone so long!
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